> really stupid views
> Can you have an honest discussion ... or do you think that you're too fucked up in your mind that you can't do even that?

It seems to me that you may be under the impression that anyone who doesn't agree with you is 'fucked up in (the) mind' and their views are 'really stupid'.
One is not capable of having an honest discussion with anyone if they dismiss the opinions of others in this way.
And just because 'most people adopt' a view does not mean that none will ever re-evaluate said view and come back to the same conclusion.

> That's not where I wanted to get this discussion going

Then why did you immediately turn around and start steering it in that direction?