That might work. I'm worried that it would actually be bad for people like us to congregate together, since we might just feed off each other's loneliness and end up in an unhealthy situation, but I suppose even that would be better than nothing.
I have the same problem. I'm ashamed to admit it, but every time I speak to anyone new in any context, even if I just met them, the first thing I think about is how maybe this one won't abandon me and will take me away from where I am. Maybe I could even make them happy in some way as well. But nothing ever happens, no one wants or is capable of doing that. I wish I could give up and try to have a more realistic, healthy goal, but I don't want anything else anymore.