Love and Romance @4-ch

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1: When is it too late to get into the relationship game? (79) 2: gaynal sex (1) 3: Where's the love? (7) 4: How to date a Japanese girl? (80) 5: Nothing but questions. (6) 6: Girlfriend has lower sex drive than me (5) 7: Vagina Diagram (5) 8: FOR SALE HIGH QUALITY US,UK,CANADA DRIVER LICENSE,IDs,PASSPORTS,VISAS (6) 9: buzzed flirting? (4) 10: What she has in mind (3) 11: I don't know what's going on... (4) 12: Questions about marriage (2) 13: Flirty girlfriend, i trust her but it hurts anyway. (47) 14: Questions about marriage (1) 15: japanese boyfriend (111) 16: Does there exist true love? (46) 17: Am I reading too much into this? (8) 18: how to give a blowjob with braces? (133) 19: I'm do I get a white girlfriend? (36) 20: I've been waiting.... (750) 21: Seriously Questioning My Relationship For The First Time (9) 22: Short short story idea (2) 23: I want to be more sexually attracted to my gf (9) 24: The myth of the evil nice guy (5) 25: Does she feel the same? (25) 26: new densha otoko (276) 27: Is he worth it? (3) 28: Singles Rant Thread, 3rd Edition (191) 29: [Advice] DQN-kun's Advice Column [DQN] (18) 30: Please help me talk to this girl (2) 31: Obsession (9) 32: I'm going on a date Friday at 11AM. My first. HELP! (41) 33: I'm very full of hate. (46) 34: All the time busy (4) 35: Will I end up alone? (11) 36: Me and my girlfriend decided to take a break...but she slept... (26) 37: Looking for a girlfriend (11) 38: Girlfriend's ex-boyfriends (2) 39: I don't know how to title this (11) 40: Why are guys so pussy whipped all the time? (40)

When is it too late to get into the relationship game? (79)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-05 11:07 ID:tt2SK8W6

Im 20 years old and have never been in a relationship. i've had boys tell me they like me but it was at a bad time (senior year of high school and i was moving to another country for college) or we were too close of friends and it was too weird for me. I've never dated, kissed or even held hands in a romantic kinda way. I've had a lot of friends who are guys so its not because i never talk to boys or anything like that. Is it weird for me to be 20 and never had a relationship?? When did you start dating? When do you think is too old to start?

70 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-03-29 18:24 ID:7XNibQnT

>>69 lol okay. I don't even know what you're talking about now. Pussy on a pedestal? I don't even like it. You know what, you sound like an insecure dipshit.

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72 Name: girls love alphas : 2013-05-10 15:31 ID:pQCe4/mG

omegas like u put teh pussy on teh pedestal when u treat due to insecurity. weather u like it or not ur placed n a group based on ur genes and that would b omega 4 u do 2 having weak. i am alpha cuz i have teh strongest genes. face it, u have nothing 2 offer girls witch is y u "hate" pussy. now i know y they call u handsome. lmfao

73 Name: Hate Male Losers : 2013-07-04 01:02 ID:3676F1iO

Experience does not include sexual experience. As a mattwr of fact the only experience male losers like yoy have are one night stands and short term relationships because that is all you are interested in. The requirement of a LTR that has lasted longer than a hockey season is there to weed out losers like you or the "omega" type losers.

Well that is you choice, just as long as you don't come whining later on that women won't give you the time of day.

74 Name: Graham : 2014-02-23 19:12 ID:m967l5F6

Hate Male Losers - You are a Narcissistic bitch.

75 Name: Graham : 2014-02-23 19:13 ID:m967l5F6

Hate Male Losers - You are a Narcissistic bitch.

76 Name: Ernesto : 2014-08-05 08:04 ID:l05+vbTR

Worth to try man, but is Ok. Some people can think it's boring to have sex with a girl but it's not as bad as seems to be. When you have sex you can play games (I won couple of FIFA matches) or chat with friends. Cam sex is boring too but you can try. Just visit chatroulete or or facebook, but when you see nude girl with huge tits - oh, man, give it a rest! it's better to watch spider-man movie or harry potter really. Sex is boring

77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-05 15:24 ID:+7OVxRet

Do you know the difference between a conversation and rape?

No? Let's go upstairs and have a talk.

78 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-26 21:27 ID:369mi+YM

I am too lazy to get into relationship game..
And to be honest I dont enjoy sex at all
Yeah seeing all couples makes me envious some time but still I am okay with masturbation
Why bother...
I dont like girls at all, they are loud and stupid

79 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-26 23:01 ID:369mi+YM

I can not stand girls
Fuck off from my life, okay

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gaynal sex (1)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-21 00:01 ID:wUaNuzzI

gaynal sex

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Where's the love? (7)

1 Name: Otakun : 2014-07-29 21:05 ID:0UwN6hbY

Long ago I came to these boards looking for help in my love life. For those interested in a 6 year old thread here's the link:

Even though that chapter of love didn't work out as well as I had hoped, all the lessons I learned those days eventually did help me find the love of my life.

My question is where is all the posts of people that need help or encouragement? Let's help everyone that comes here! :)

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-07-31 21:42 ID:mJcKWvWQ

Well after having a few letdowns I kinda feel extremely devoid of emotions and I no longer want to find love. I just want to be bad to people like they've been bad to me.

I found out, after deciding on changing my behavior, that soon all my 'friends' cut ties with me. It was that easy: each and every one of them neglected me on the first 'bad' thing I did to them. They didn't bother talking to me about it; they didn't want to know why I did what I did. It did not surprise them at all that all these years I've been 100% there for them and suddenly I changed my behavior. They used me for as long as they had to; as soon as I turned my back on them, they turned their back on me.

I won't have any more shit by anyone, no more. Anyone who is coming my way is going to get their ass handed to them properly.

Unfortunately, this sort of reasoning leaves no place for love. I don't need it in the first place. I hope you read this post. I really want your opinion on this. I know this is Love and Romance and that my post is borderline off-topic, but that's just the sort of post yours provoked.

3 Name: Otakun : 2014-08-02 07:56 ID:0UwN6hbY


You're absolutely right. You have no room for love for others if you started hating parts of yourself enough to do such a drastic change. In all honesty I was at the same point myself where: "if nobody really cared about me why should I care about them?" The only problem was that it cut out anybody who really who did or would care about you/me.

Believe me when I say that trusting takes time. From the sounds of it you were also one of those nice people that may have been taken advantage of. Rather than getting back at the world for its wrongs may I suggest focusing inwards and improving yourself? Take up a hobby, work out, read books, anything to discover the true you. Eventually you'll find some true friends and/or the love of your life hopefully.

Personally, it takes too much time and energy being angry... Just try to move onto better times. I hope that helps. I'll be lurking around :)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-03 20:56 ID:Heaven

i dont care who says theyre hot or they arent id still put it in all their holes

5 Name: Otakun : 2014-08-04 01:59 ID:0UwN6hbY


That's horrible. At least get to know them first!

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-15 04:54 ID:PPffmxYb

Thanks >>3

7 Name: Otakun : 2014-08-16 03:57 ID:0UwN6hbY

No prob >>6. I like to help.

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How to date a Japanese girl? (80)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-27 14:32 ID:+0Z1XWt2

So I live in the countryside of Japan. Not many opportunities to meet pretty girls out here, but I have met one. The problem is, outside of hand holding, she has been very non-commital. But whenever I give up on her, she emails me saying she really wants to do something with me.
I'm not sure about the rules in Japan. Does one just go for the gusto, like in the Japanese movies? Somehow I doubt life is like the fiction. I'm a relatively shy guy that got tired of being burned, so my progress is glacial to say the least.
Does one have to admit one has feelings, ala densha otoko? How do I move to the next stage.

Supplementary: she is six years older than me. Maybe she sees that as a problem.

71 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-02 04:42 ID:Heaven

your words are at odds with your actions

72 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-10 11:10 ID:Dghv3CGi

OK Japanese women are just like any other women, they all want the same thing, kindness, protection and providence from their man. A girl may already like you and is hoping that you do to, so they wait for you to do want thing, and that's to confess to them, because they're afraid that you might not like them back, so if you really love this girl confess to her and she'll tell you what she wants, unlike the US, Japanese woman are very considerate and will accept your feelings, but they'll tell you that they're not interested if they don't like you. My apologies for this being late, I just found this site.

73 Name: ham : 2012-06-06 18:30 ID:cWeLLa/n

hm... really? i thought jap babes usually are the more forward types who will confess their feelings for you like those cliched jap high school movies? and give handmade goodies on valentines too?
i also here they are a bit more materialistic? is that true?

74 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-06-11 04:20 ID:RllnNF0k

【Japan is being in a critical situation】
In spite of this is an important time for Japan to revive, Japanese Government keeps trying to profit China and Korea.
So China has been invading Japan, and Korea has been eating at Japan.
On politically, socially, mentally and many sides or insides of things.

Many Chinese and Korean are living in Japan now.
Why do they only see this situation without a single word for the interests
of Japan?
If this situation is going on, Japan as what Japan is would not last much
Do they really want like that?

If Chinese people who live in Japan don't face the fact of their mother
country, they would lost nowaday's their freedom and wealth.

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75 Name: Wolf : 2013-08-14 14:52 ID:I51loVbF

The Japanese are very reserved with their romance. They tend towards subtle flirting with gestures, body language, and indirect statements much more than western cultures which emphasis bravely pursuing a kiss or embrace. While they MAY find western bluntness some what endearing they will also shy away from it if they feel it is too much too soon or too fast. The Japanese do tend to put a lot of importance on the social bonds they form with others and as such take longer to reach a level of even friendship with others. The most you can do is be yourself but moderate some of your affectionate behavior so you're not "coming on too strong" and just take your time. Eventually when you've known each other for a good amount of time I think a minimum of a 1/2 a year would be ok you should admit how you feel and ask her on a date. There are some culture differences but women like feeling special and that's universal.

76 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-27 16:06 ID:I60K8yIh

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77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-27 17:51 ID:4SPAXk6j

They DO NOT date otakus and freaks.

78 Name: Anonymous : 2014-06-09 07:27 ID:8s/YwKFq

you need to do her in the butt

79 Name: gorrillaconvention : 2014-08-03 20:58 ID:Heaven

i dont care who says theyre hot or they arent id still put it in all their holes

80 Name: Ernesto : 2014-08-05 06:25 ID:xzrR3YTL

Try online dating like POF eg. The simplest way facebook or video-chats like dating-chat and so on. There is nothing difficult man. A friend of mine met girl from RUSSIA on such a site. He even moved to Russia to met her IRL. I think it's easier to meet girl from Japan.

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Nothing but questions. (6)

1 Name: ChonChon!VxLFeBl2NY : 2014-07-06 19:18 ID:yY2/cGLf

An ex-boyfriend,lets call him Thomas, and I split up a little over a year and a half ago. At the time I was more devastated than I had ever imagined was possible, however I slowly came to realize it was for the best. My best friend John helped me through it, he was always there to listen, and he never got mad when I called him at weird hours. I'd never considered John anything but a friend, and I felt sure he felt the same way.

I feel as though a little information about the events proceeding the break-up is necessary. Thomas always had a bit of a paranoid streak, nothing that would be considered a serious mental issue, but definitely more than the norm.Over the course of the three months before we broke up, he became decreasingly paranoid, and distant. I can't stress enough how drastically he changed, he went from being one of the most happy go lucky guys I'd ever met, to someone I was at times scared of. Not scared of in the sense that I felt he would do physical harm to me, but in the sense that I felt like I was walking on eggshells when I was around him. I tried on several occasions to get him to open up to me about what was bothering him, but he never would.

This past Valentines day irrevocably changed the way I feel about the events leading up to, and after the breakup. John, and I went to a singles party. For the most part he was his usual drunk self, he was hitting on every guy there. About half-way through the night he started hitting on me. When I questioned him about his actions he said he was just joking, and trying to cheer me up. I felt a little weird out, but he's done similar things to other people so I wrote it off. At some point during the drive home he started crying, so of course I asked him what was wrong. Our conversation went something like this

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-07-13 19:09 ID:72Bd8osy

> he was hitting on every guy there. About half-way through the night he started hitting on me

Your friend John is gay? Best I can understand of this situation is that John is jealous of you because he likes Thomas.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-07-27 08:21 ID:1KvryomP

Perhaps the problem is that all of you like Dick.

4 Name: Otakun : 2014-07-29 11:16 ID:VFm8H65G

It's been a while since I've been on these boards, about 6 years now. Here's what I've got to say: Trust your heart. If you want to give Thomas another chance do it, but do it only for your own sake of having no regrets. If you can live without Thomas happily then move on. However, John doesn't sound like he's really that good of a friend. You're better off without him. Good luck

5 Name: saeg : 2014-07-29 20:27 ID:Heaven

Welcome back!

6 Name: gorrillaconvention : 2014-08-03 20:57 ID:Heaven

i dont care who says theyre hot or they arent id still put it in all their holes

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Girlfriend has lower sex drive than me (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-02-28 01:10 ID:WO1k+0eJ

I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. Everything about our relationship is great, she's a real catch. Unfortunately, she has a lower sex drive than I do. This is nothing new, since the beginning she's always been more passive and less sexual than me. She really enjoys sex once we get started, and rarely turns me down, but I have to put a lot of work into getting her in the mood. Recently, I'm getting tired of having to always be the one that initiates things. It makes me feel like she doesn't physically desire me. I've been getting sexually frustrated and often masturbate secretly to try to quell my rampant sex drive.

Last night I talked to her about it, but we didn't really come to any fruitful conclusion. She acknowledged that she's not often in the mood for sex. I know I can't force her to want me more, but I don't want to end the relationship just over this. What should I do?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-02-28 11:55 ID:jHDQvROH

Does she know that you masturbate? You said you do it in secret - maybe if you let her know that you do then she will look at things differently. Perhaps she can help with that even if she is not in the mood for sex herself, I guess it depends though. But it's possible that she would enjoy pleasuring you that way and it would keep both of you satisfied. I don't know how you would suggest that directly though, but you should let her know that you are masturbating if she doesn't already. Gague her reaction and act accordingly.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-27 04:45 ID:YiReYCca

I think most girls have lower sex drive than their boyfriends. My girlfriend certainly does, though not to the extent that your does. If this is a very serious problem, but you want to continue the relationship, I would recommend some kind of couple's therapy.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-07-27 08:23 ID:dfLlWCll

Women have lower sex drives than men do. This is normal for humans and what you are describing is also normal.

If women had the same sex drive men did, no one would ever stop fucking and we'd all starve to death.

Sad but true.

5 Name: gorrillaconvention : 2014-08-03 20:57 ID:Heaven

i dont care who says theyre hot or they arent id still put it in all their holes

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Vagina Diagram (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-06-07 07:45 ID:DxZgcqxe

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         / / ゚ヽ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄
labia majora/ //\\ \ 
   ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄  ( (vagina) ── labia minora
        \ \\// /
           `   \/  '
  \         *──anus

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-06-07 20:16 ID:swlqOdzu

So what?

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5 Name: gorrillaconvention : 2014-08-03 20:57 ID:Heaven

i dont care who says theyre hot or they arent id still put it in all their holes

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6 Name: gorrillaconvention : 2014-08-03 20:58 ID:Heaven

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buzzed flirting? (4)

1 Name: Nanimo : 2014-03-27 08:42 ID:hosmpHkZ

Okay...a little background: a bunch of my friends and I were having a beach bonfire afterparty following a post-graduation bowling party and some of my friends brought some significant others, friends, or siblings to the events. There was alcohol flowing at both parties and I'm guessing that the people who partook of the alcohol were probably buzzed (I'm not sure if they were drunk). Anyway, the older brother of one of my friends started calling me "pretty lady" and tried to solicit a promise to go bowling again with 'them' one day ('them' I hope meant everybody at the gathering but I'm probably wrong). My question is was he serious or was it the booze talking (and personally, I'm hoping it's the second option)? I don't have a lot of experience hanging out with drinkers so experienced people, please give me some guidance here! Thanks!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-27 15:20 ID:NB1AAP5T

Depends on how drunk he was, but it was most likely the booze talking. It probably means he likes you, but probably wouldn't mention it sober.

3 Name: Nanimo : 2014-03-29 03:52 ID:eXfcxxz9

Thanks for the reply, >>2. Oh, and if this changes things, I forgot to mention that the bowling/bonfire parties was the first time we ever met each other. That's why I'm kind of freaking out because we barely know each other and yet he's hugging me from behind and verbally flirting with me...yeah, it feels awkward to me (newbie at drunkenness or buzzedness).

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-04-04 16:34 ID:Etfc6n+N

Don't worry about it, it's just drunk people being drunk.

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What she has in mind (3)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-07 00:39 ID:LYEyvS09

Yesterday my "friend" come to me with his new (not so new, honestly) girlfriend and I think she was interested in some way in me.
There's not much to tell, long handshaking, some sort of eyes game, but, uh, It was strange sings of attention, I'm not sure in her and her plays.. Although i liked it.

Today my friend says me she says to him she is scared of me and don't want to go to me again (???) but transmitted hello to me...

Our meeting was not an ordinary, I not wishing that made some impression on her because of my, uh, knowledge, interests, and speech culture. Nevertheless, I could be too much insightful.

Not that I'm very much interested in her or anyone, but the whole situation is a little curios, what the fuck she could mean, help me to decipher this, please?
P.S.: Sorry for non-perfect English.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-18 19:57 ID:E+R+j8Z5

Non native english speaker here

She is calculating your net gross

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-27 04:43 ID:lrtcw++Y

Even if she did like you, don't even think about it. That's your friend's girlfriend. She is off limits.

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