Love and Romance @4-ch

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1: i love black man (11) 2: i am am 29 male, i fall in love with a guy 35 (6) 3: I really want.. (8) 4: Will I end up alone? (13) 5: I'm very full of hate. (49) 6: new densha otoko (277) 7: save me from myself (gay guy) (6) 8: WAIFUCHAN.ORG IS YOUR FRIEND C: (1) 9: penis borg (1) 10: When is it too late to get into the relationship game? (81) 11: The myth of the evil nice guy (6) 12: how to give a blowjob with braces? (134) 13: gaynal sex (1) 14: Where's the love? (7) 15: How to date a Japanese girl? (80) 16: Nothing but questions. (6) 17: Girlfriend has lower sex drive than me (5) 18: Vagina Diagram (5) 19: FOR SALE HIGH QUALITY US,UK,CANADA DRIVER LICENSE,IDs,PASSPORTS,VISAS (6) 20: buzzed flirting? (4) 21: What she has in mind (3) 22: I don't know what's going on... (4) 23: Questions about marriage (2) 24: Flirty girlfriend, i trust her but it hurts anyway. (47) 25: Questions about marriage (1) 26: japanese boyfriend (111) 27: Does there exist true love? (46) 28: Am I reading too much into this? (8) 29: I'm do I get a white girlfriend? (36) 30: I've been waiting.... (750) 31: Seriously Questioning My Relationship For The First Time (9) 32: Short short story idea (2) 33: I want to be more sexually attracted to my gf (9) 34: Does she feel the same? (25) 35: Is he worth it? (3) 36: Singles Rant Thread, 3rd Edition (191) 37: [Advice] DQN-kun's Advice Column [DQN] (18) 38: Please help me talk to this girl (2) 39: Obsession (9) 40: I'm going on a date Friday at 11AM. My first. HELP! (41)

i love black man (11)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-09-03 10:31 ID:+ShkuDev

Please tell us how to approach the cool black guy.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-09-04 02:45 ID:NXJBGUmq

Suck his dick.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-09-08 10:44 ID:mkWRfvk0

Flash your cleavage.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-03 02:12 ID:owX6/vsj

gooby plz

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-03 14:45 ID:fLVNArRy

Please use a condom

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-03 20:00 ID:Heaven

I feel sorry for your family and for your kids.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-05 16:28 ID:1WuyEmYD

your son will be talented gangsta rapper singing about worldwide islam khalipate :)

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-09 22:20 ID:qNrvle+q

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-10 00:14 ID:qNrvle+q


Lol his prosecutor was spanish...

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-19 04:50 ID:rGuCraJU

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i am am 29 male, i fall in love with a guy 35 (6)

1 Name: hihowru : 2011-12-25 10:59 ID:PVjssZhD

i need help. There is boy 35. he is typist and i am comupter operator in same office. he is little religious i also respect religion much. he is much shy and beard guy. I want him to sleep with me, to open with me and share with me every thing. i want to get laid over him. he is 35 and i am 29. I believe that if ever i got by chance laid over him he would never dislike it, only would pretend that he no want to do that But inside he has not big resistance. he is married and have one baby boy. Some time he and i go out to take tea shop nearby office. Some time he pay for tea some time i. I already told you by any chance if we see each other naked in the same room, after that he will be close to me and would have not any objection. But i can not produce this kind of chance. If i call him to my house and to my room my family will think why a guy going to my room to my bed that i no want.If it is not possible tell me how i can forget him. Some time i kidding him that i want to do anal with him he smiles and replies me that you can. But he thinks i am only kidding he not know know i really want to do that in real. He some time need little money i can help him but i did not offered him openly may be he will think why i am doing this. I am already alone i no want to lose him i want him to be more close to me. Our religion and culture is much against gay like thinks this is why he is feared to be more close to me. Some time i offered him to watch porn movies with me but he denies. He is reserve kind. He dont know computer chat interenet like things. I can not share with him email he has not mobile phone. Last day we went to market to buy shoes for me. He went with me. We spent much time togather i buy some cold drinks and chips and some other smalle things to eat. He ate and thanks i thanks him for comming with me.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-12-25 18:02 ID:3o9X9gjc

I'm sorry but if he is marriied you should try to have sex with him.
Find another man.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2011-12-26 05:39 ID:iyqCBiIe

Wait! I meant to say you should not have sex with him. If he is married, do not have sex with him.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-06 08:43 ID:NFs/Xte5

exactly, nothing you can do about it.. move on with your life. being obsessed with him probably alienated other people you can have a relationship with you just don't notice it.

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I really want.. (8)

1 Name: Zaxary : 2012-05-24 05:33 ID:d56s4vVu

I really want to give a blow job. Im a 20 year old straight guy and im curious about giving a blow job. Is that normal?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-24 12:40 ID:GQQjbTm+

Go to a toilet stall with a glory hole, and wait around awhile.
Or buy a suitably shaped vegetable or fruit, and use your imagination.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-25 03:53 ID:PciAdpji

Yeah it's fine. Don't worry about it.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-28 16:25 ID:01DqiAoP

Of course it is, if you had a chance to experiment, I'd say go for it :)

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-28 21:57 ID:+/i2hTYh

It's fine.
It's not as fun as you think it'll be. Unless you're like really into the guy you're giving it to. But since you're straight, that's probably unlikely.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-06-09 00:03 ID:antUkpXs

You can't be all that straight then.

Really, I think labels like straight and gay are quite silly. They're just ways for people to put each other into neat, clean categories. We're all somewhere on that sliding scale. I'm not interested in delivering a blowjob, but I would get into bed with a guy able to convincingly be a trap. Too bad there are so few of them.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-11 09:45 ID:8ZomCZ9f

No you are gay

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-11 22:22 ID:8XpmRd48


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Will I end up alone? (13)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-11 06:52 ID:VgZ+ovT2

So here it goes..

I'm 22 turning 23 in two months. I will admit: I have never kissed, seriously dated and have sex with a man before. Guys have tried kissing me before but I always covered my mouth and would nervously giggle because I feel like my first kiss should be special. I dated only one person by accident (thinking it was just a hang-out but the whole atmosphere was just so weird because he started asking me a lot about myself as if it was really a date). I turned out dates before because the guys that asked me out were really not my type.

During university, I focused a lot with studies than dating but now that I'm done, I don't really know how to date someone. I'm also recovering from a one-sided love that lasted for nearly 7 years. The more I thought about it, the more I felt like I wasted so much of my "youth".. I also felt like I missed so much. During that time, I did party quite a bit with friends but I never took the guys seriously because they weren't "him".

I don't think I'm socially awkward. In fact, I'm quite friendly with everyone I meet. I'm quite talkative once someone gets to know me. However, I'm extremely shy with strangers. I like to have fun. I like to go out and drink with friends. I have tons of guy friends but I don't see them as anyone I would seriously date. They either fall in these three categories: gay, socially awkward or very close guy friends that I consider as a brother.

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4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-13 18:53 ID:Heaven

your first kiss is not special. losing your virginity is not a special occasion. any guy who isnt a loser will be very turned off by you still being a virgin. im sorry that movies and tv have manipulated you into thinking that these petty physical interactions are "special" but they are not. as you continue to age males over 24 will see you as being mentally unstable if you come out giggling and being weird about things as simple as a kiss. that immaturity puts up huge red flags that you are not someone they want to tangle with.

my suggestion is to grab one of your close male friends you consider a "brother" but only hangs out around you because they want to get in your pants (All of them) and just have sex with them.

this board has a lot of nerds, but we also have a handful of people with real world experience. i expect a punch of "its ok to wait for the right guy (me please god let it be me im so lonley)" type posts, but thats all bullshit.

have sex, realize its not that big a deal, and then learn to be happy being alone before searching for a real relationship. from your post you strike me as someone who may have been sexually abused as a child, you need to work through your own personal issues before even thinking about a real, and serious relationship. until that time though have a spattering of one night stands (use a condom, no fucking exceptions). and get some experience under your belt.

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5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-14 06:36 ID:e5f3C3w0

Not every random 20-something guy hangs around a girl for the sole purpose of getting into their pants. As a 27 guy, I actually have many friends who are girls, and I hang out with them because, shocker of shockers, I actually enjoy their company, and find them easier to get along with than most guys I know.

That said, does that mean there's never any sexual tension? No, it happens, hormones and attraction are strange, mysterious, and mildly annoying things; but no matter how attracted I am to one of my close female friends, I cannot and will not act on it, I value our friendship too much to risk damaging it, or possibly loosing it just so I can get a date.

My point there is that unless you have feelings for one of these guys that they're able to reciprocate, don't ruin a perfectly good friendship by adding that extra layer of complications in, friends are too important for that, or at least that's the way I've always felt.

Anyways, I wouldn't worry too much about if you'll end up alone right now, as they say, all things with time. I've often had similar worries, to the point that a friend of mine started attacking me in a Subway screaming "YOU'RE WORTHY OF WOMEN!" "YOU'RE WORTHY OF BEING LOVED!". Not always the easiest thing to believe; but I keep working towards that goal of finding someone.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-14 07:48 ID:sDo0EG5f

OP here. Thank you for everyone's advices. I guess I really frustrated with my whole situation

Regarding the 4th post: No, I was not sexually abused when I was a child. I had a perfectly normal childhood.

The problem with me is that once I put a guy in my friend's zone, I can't see them anything but a friend--- nothing more, nothing less. I just enjoy their company.

When I said "special", I didn't mean to sound like I'm looking for my Mr. Right (which I don't believe in). I guess what I mean is someone that I can share a connection with-- someone who I feel like I can like genuinely and not feeling like I'm playing him. It's difficult for me because I haven't met someone who I can share that connection yet. I know it sounds weird but that's how I feel.

I know exactly what my issue is.. I'm scared to really like someone or potentially fall in love with someone. When I start to like someone, something inside me pulls me back. I don't know if that means I'm not ready or if I'm searching for something else.. It just happens. I know I can probably try to fix it but I don't really know how.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-18 15:56 ID:ZZYrEPDz


>your first kiss is not special
>losing your virginity is not a special occasion
>any guy who isnt a loser will be very turned off by you still being a virgin

lol, wut?

I respectfully disagree. There are at least two different kinds of people when it comes to love/relationships/sex: the first is a group of people who are capable of having one night stands and meaningless "relationships" of no substance, content with bouncing from one throw-away warm bodied place holder to another without any thought or regret. The other is a group of people who require actual love, connectedness, and commitment in their relationships to thrive in them. People that want the person they are with to be both their lover and their best friend at the same time. Objectively, one doesn't need to have more or less value than the other, but subjectively, everyone values the two types differently.

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8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-02-06 07:27 ID:1t3FfIkE

9 Name: 43 : 2013-03-24 05:25 ID:fFNm1Bb9

Don't listen to >>4

The media put too much emphasis on relationships and love as the must be goal for everyone.

Even if you were to find "him" doesn't mean you'll be happy with him.

You might change your approach and give each person a chance, one date. The results might surprise you, they might be better than what you expected. You'll also find rotten apples like >>4.

Good luck

10 Name: mindofBM : 2013-03-24 14:12 ID:8Z7wL5Rx

dont worry so much about it. you will get somewhere

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12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-11 00:39 ID:1DvrzyvP


13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-11 02:38 ID:Kq+OQu7M

We all die alone.

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I'm very full of hate. (49)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-03 19:47 ID:UBYkJ2wZ

I HATE women. I never had a girlfriend and never will. The only times I got laid was when I paid a woman or promised her something. I'm never going to hold hands with a chick, kiss a girl intimately because we're in love, or any of the other shit that human beings were made to do. I guess that I'm suppose to be happy masturbating every fucking night. I'm a man with sexual urges and can't get with a female. I'm suppose to be alright with that? THERE IS A FUCKING CURSE ON MY LIFE. A CURSE THAT PREVENTS ANY FEMALE FROM LIKING ME. Oh I forgot, I do get interest from fat chicks and I'm not attracted to fat chicks.
I don't give a fuck anymore. I'm going to become the biggest asshole in the world. I tried the whole being considerate thing and it got me nowhere. If people can't handle my newfound harshness, then bring it on. BECAUSE I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK.
I get happy when I hear about some college slut getting murdered or injured in a hit and run. "oh she was a beautiful and talented girl, how could this happen." I don't know but I'm glad it did.

40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-06-11 17:45 ID:geOWDypf

Read "Apollo's Song" (a manga by Ozuma Tezuka). Tell me not one time you were abused, ignored, or something else bad happened to you with women...then we'll consider your feelings.

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42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-04 06:10 ID:J1wh1vjA

The only people who say this kind of thing are those for whom love has not been a serious problem. If you have a good relationship and normal, healthy ideas and thoughts about romance, good for you. I don't, and I don't see how I ever will. So fuck off with your "so sad". It's sad, sure, but you don't know anything about it.

43 Name: 4 : 2012-08-07 23:22 ID:VjnyVfs7

I hate a lot of shit and a lot of people.

44 Name: fuck em and bag em : 2012-10-09 15:04 ID:1N50HMaJ

i hope your deside to go kill a woman your self, i hate em to hate the hole world, and i dont care if i got a problem, i can feel that im building up to my own first rape/murder, and i get happy feelings from that, i guss some ppl werent ment for willing love, and whos to say that its wrong. good luck and hope you dont get cought

45 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-10-09 22:20 ID:znV902E+


46 Name: fartman : 2013-05-09 16:00 ID:uOAGPmFK

ok. keep wanking forever. who cares...?

47 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-22 22:55 ID:sp1TXo0C

I agree, OP. All women are whores/sluts and aren't good for anything besides being cum buckets.

48 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-06 16:32 ID:+sXdZyrX

Calm down

49 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-10 13:19 ID:Ob4WQoLl

gooby plz

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new densha otoko (277)

1 Name: Densha : 2007-02-01 12:43 ID:KA2WnSRe

I am afraid i am the new densha otoko. Today i rescued a pretty girl who was harrassed by a drunk on the train.

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269 Name: mars7 : 2010-08-08 09:20 ID:pgnU05M1

seems like she wasn't meat for me .. T^T

270 Name: 電車男 : 2011-05-12 02:57 ID:Heaven

Why is this in my favorites?

271 Name: Secret Admirerer : 2012-08-15 07:35 ID:1m2IrzU3

Because OP is idiot

272 Name: i : 2012-08-16 03:21 ID:UszZ3FXc


Present for you acount

273 Name: hermes : 2013-06-13 12:35 ID:3MZE2JrD

today i dumped densha.. densha baka! kirai!

274 Name: masaaki shikanai : 2013-06-19 04:21 ID:ccUzo8nE

My name is Shikanai Masaaki. Born May 27 1978.
I have been gang stalking to Soka Gakkai employee from around the 11th September 2011.
I was abducted Kazuko Yamaguchi them.The name of the main culprit is Kenji Kimura.
She has been confined to the Soka Gakkai.
She is my classmate.
We were in love with each other since childhood.
We were apart until 33 years old.And we were going to get married at 33 years old.
I was confined to a mental hospital after being arrested for trying to help her.
I am still a virgin.

And stolen the machine of me to them.I have stolen them all.
And I was confined to them. I also have been tortured in the machine to them.

And they are repeat violent crime. Japanese police have become their slaves.

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275 Name: gokiburi : 2013-07-02 00:52 ID:R8RJAbS6

276 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-07-11 18:17 ID:35LOn5Qq

Hello everyone in the United States
I have come to the propaganda of the yukata from Japan

Airport sales No1!!
Pattern of high quality and traditional
Children and parents, to themselves
Made in Japan of the relief of course

277 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-06 19:00 ID:J8VT3c+4

I think it was all just a hoax started by greedy TV producers

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save me from myself (gay guy) (6)

1 Name: keonkarma : 2012-10-21 19:30 ID:Tn5vFjDg

I'm a semi-closeted gay guy (Indian descent).
I'm mentally dying each day.
I'm looking for a man who can save me from all this.
Because I don't want my parents to get hurt, I don't want to run away.
SO I'm looking for someone who could fake my getting a job abroad idea, so I can go away and live in peace.
My parents are poor, I want to help them by making a lot of money abroad.

The man that will help me, can expect to have me forever in his feet as a slave, I will be indebted forever and after that death.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-10-23 22:13 ID:HThQiCXl

Life is hard. Deal with it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-10-25 23:43 ID:Pwu0jTE6

How big of a taboo is homosexuality where you live?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-26 23:29 ID:4gCHQrlQ

gooby plz

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-29 17:56 ID:5e5hwiOY

Gay okay

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-02 20:53 ID:CsjURnxe

Life is hard in India and Russia, in the west life is like cake.

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1 Name: WAIFUCHAN.ORG IS YOUR FRIEND C: : 2014-09-25 04:50 ID:ODMygQnA


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penis borg (1)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-14 22:56 ID:bzjpGPKf

penis borg

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When is it too late to get into the relationship game? (81)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-05 11:07 ID:tt2SK8W6

Im 20 years old and have never been in a relationship. i've had boys tell me they like me but it was at a bad time (senior year of high school and i was moving to another country for college) or we were too close of friends and it was too weird for me. I've never dated, kissed or even held hands in a romantic kinda way. I've had a lot of friends who are guys so its not because i never talk to boys or anything like that. Is it weird for me to be 20 and never had a relationship?? When did you start dating? When do you think is too old to start?

72 Name: girls love alphas : 2013-05-10 15:31 ID:pQCe4/mG

omegas like u put teh pussy on teh pedestal when u treat due to insecurity. weather u like it or not ur placed n a group based on ur genes and that would b omega 4 u do 2 having weak. i am alpha cuz i have teh strongest genes. face it, u have nothing 2 offer girls witch is y u "hate" pussy. now i know y they call u handsome. lmfao

73 Name: Hate Male Losers : 2013-07-04 01:02 ID:3676F1iO

Experience does not include sexual experience. As a mattwr of fact the only experience male losers like yoy have are one night stands and short term relationships because that is all you are interested in. The requirement of a LTR that has lasted longer than a hockey season is there to weed out losers like you or the "omega" type losers.

Well that is you choice, just as long as you don't come whining later on that women won't give you the time of day.

74 Name: Graham : 2014-02-23 19:12 ID:m967l5F6

Hate Male Losers - You are a Narcissistic bitch.

75 Name: Graham : 2014-02-23 19:13 ID:m967l5F6

Hate Male Losers - You are a Narcissistic bitch.

76 Name: Ernesto : 2014-08-05 08:04 ID:l05+vbTR

Worth to try man, but is Ok. Some people can think it's boring to have sex with a girl but it's not as bad as seems to be. When you have sex you can play games (I won couple of FIFA matches) or chat with friends. Cam sex is boring too but you can try. Just visit chatroulete or or facebook, but when you see nude girl with huge tits - oh, man, give it a rest! it's better to watch spider-man movie or harry potter really. Sex is boring

77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-05 15:24 ID:+7OVxRet

Do you know the difference between a conversation and rape?

No? Let's go upstairs and have a talk.

78 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-26 21:27 ID:369mi+YM

I am too lazy to get into relationship game..
And to be honest I dont enjoy sex at all
Yeah seeing all couples makes me envious some time but still I am okay with masturbation
Why bother...
I dont like girls at all, they are loud and stupid

79 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-26 23:01 ID:369mi+YM

I can not stand girls
Fuck off from my life, okay

80 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-10 20:20 ID:AEJQp13O

If you think love is a game you're going to lose just by playing you know. Try to take another angle.

81 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-13 02:40 ID:GqLlMlN5

It's not too late. You're fucking 20, not 80. You got a good couple decades on you before you're officially screwed.

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