Love and Romance @4-ch

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At what point does penis size become a problem? (8)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-02 06:07 ID:DlGDQ7zy

So, gals, how small can a penis be before it's an issue in bed logistics wise?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-02 09:16 ID:Heaven

So, how come you missed the sexuality board?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-08 22:27 ID:BISNrDlJ

anything less than 5inches.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-07-09 05:54 ID:4KErSokN

It depends on how small her pussy is. Also, length is not everything--width is good. I masturbated for year with the handle of a mag-lite flashlight, so anything too much smaller than that is a problem for me. But I have a friend who is very small, and could not fit said mag-lite without much pain. Things that I would find too small to be very pleasurable she would find just right.

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6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 18:47 ID:mUaaO4Ts

dicks out for Harambe

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-27 21:07 ID:Heaven

Well done >>6! For once in your, you've managed to understand the thread you've spammed to, congratulations!

8 Name: Ashamed >>7 : 2017-11-27 21:07 ID:Heaven

l-l-life that is
for once in your life

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Race Preferences? (6)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-05 12:03 ID:U2v1Bz3S

Somehow, I find that different races tend to have different preferences. I'm a Vietnamese girl, but I find that Chinese guys tend to prefer girls who are more docile, shy, short, and skinny.
Then I find that Vietnamese guys have a less focused preference, but generally the same thing.
Lastly, I find that white people (sorry for the generalization) tend to like taller girls with lighter hair and a little more meat than what the Chinese guys do. Is this just my imagination...?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-05 13:38 ID:lSLCNv9F

I doubt it's just your imagination.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-05 14:06 ID:RTnsM3ov

I think it is definately hard to generalise in that way. Personally I have LOTS of preferences, i am a White English/Polish tall, blonde dude.... but i find Chinese, Japanese and asian women in general very attractive. However i could say the same sometimes about any girl i meet who is pretty. Although you may have a type who you tend to prefer its strange how rarely you actually end up dating someone who is of that type... my girlfriend is danish :)

A lot of people will have race preferences for what they feel most comfortable with or people of the same race as them but in a city like London you see so many different types of people its impossible to stick to being attracted to only one!


4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-05 21:25 ID:Heaven

It's not the question of race, just personal preference.
I'm a white guy and I like short and slim girls and I like black or brown hair more than blonde.
And I too find eastern (Chinese, Korean, Japanese) women attractive too.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-06 14:28 ID:Heaven


Vietnamese girls?

Aren't they are sucker to white guys?

Most Vietnamese girls would even marry to those old white men for security and money, and having luxury of being white.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 18:47 ID:lzH2MORC

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Oh dear god (16)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-22 18:36 ID:kpIoOp5I

Right better get started.

On the third i arrived back home but my girlfrined then (of two years) had changed, her whole personality changed.. she then split up with me on the saturday and i was devastated cause i came home thinking of the girl i fell in love with. since then ive been going out with friends and ive been seeing some girls about and i think i like them but i still think of my ex... last night Me and a girl (whos also had a fucked up time with some guys) asked me to have sex with her on this friday... although i feel like this is making me being used and i dont want that... i have never met this girl in person but my friends have and they dont think to highly of her and im still not over my ex... stupid me agreeded to it... Now im not wanting to do it... im going to give myself plenty of time to recover from the last i think and just have a laugh with my friends as i have been doing for the past few weeks... I just dont know how to explain this to this girl and i know she cuts herself because she doesnt get what she wants.... i dont want her to do that obviously.

I just want to get out of this complication so i can carry on...

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-23 13:24 ID:dRRC29os


Today I saw an overreaction on the internet.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-23 14:24 ID:hKL/Epgh

People who cut themselves are FUCKING NUTS. You do not need that in your life.

Run, Forrest, run!

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-23 15:02 ID:kpIoOp5I

>>8 haha yea ive just run and im going to the pub instead.. oh well thread over :D

>>4 Sorry I usually Speak french so My english is not good

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-23 18:04 ID:Heaven


>People who cut themselves are FUCKING ATTENTION WHORES. You do not need that in your life.


11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-23 18:49 ID:p2prI5NS

both apply!

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-24 11:27 ID:Heaven


13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-25 11:12 ID:379AdfcH

i was showing OP an example of a real troll so he doesn't cry wolf next time.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-25 16:05 ID:Heaven


There are trolls
There are just plain idiots

Both may draw harsh reactions

The "Broken sentence homg ADD hor sumthang!"-shit indicates either one or both. Was it a crude joke or something?

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-26 14:35 ID:kd4jQXgO

hahah probably...

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 18:46 ID:vagOmo4Q

dicks out for Harambe

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Sex: The point of it? (40)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-31 03:51 ID:R+WW1uHk

I need some good reasons for why ("normal") sex isn't a bad/gross thing one needs to avoid when in a loving relationship with someone, whether it be very long term (even including marriage) or shorter term.

one-night stand reasons need not apply.

None of these reasons either:

  • "(´^ิ౪^ิ) It's fun and feels good! Durrrr" (none of the too selfish, short-term reasons)
  • "To reproduce!" (this thread deals with sex that isn't supposed/likely to spawn offspring)

I would like some practical reasons for why it's actually useful for the relationship, as well as for the people involved with it. I also would like reasons for why jacking off isn't in the same league as sex within a stable and loving relationship (even though jacking off isn't a bad thing to do at all).

Most of you seem to be a clever bunch, I'd be happy and grateful for any help with this issue. I hope it isn't a too tall order.

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-24 23:46 ID:TQlWxESv

damn straight. I bet the shoe would be more responsive too.

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-25 05:47 ID:Heaven

>>29 figure out a way to reproduce with an synthetic womb
That and lolimaidbots will make women useless forever.

33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-25 07:53 ID:TQlWxESv

>>32 the inventor of lolitron will be a rich man.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-28 13:37 ID:G2lBudzO


35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-28 13:40 ID:Heaven


36 Name: N/A : 2006-08-29 06:39 ID:mHPviwcN

Humans, apart from dolphins are the only species to have sex for pleasure. it goes to show that if dolphines d it too then it cant be wrong. It is away of strengthening a bond in a relationship and of getting closer to another human being. If done right its about the closest two people can get. For some people that kind of inimacy is reasuring and in a way necessary. Everybody needs love and it is just a way of showing your love for another person that goes abve and beyond what you do to show love to friends and family. but for others its just about the sex. (the pure physical pleasure)

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-29 08:34 ID:Heaven

I like to play tennis with my friend because it's fun and it feels good. Sorry for being so selfish.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-29 16:51 ID:3jzPtOiA

>>36 Please check your sources on that one. Plenty of species have homosexual experiences for bonding or pleasure, which have nothing to do with reproducing.

39 Name: N/A : 2006-08-29 21:11 ID:mHPviwcN


I dont pretend to know everything
was just quoating a fact that i had herd, which is at least partly true. i just wanted to answere the post that sex is not just about sex...some of the time...and that for some people the point of it is the emotional connection as well as the physical pleasure.

40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 18:45 ID:7J9D7dd/

dicks out for Harambe

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I've been waiting.... (778)

1 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-08 06:46 ID:rBmL8F/W

I'm usualy just a lurker around the board, but today i have a story... recently i been posting about long distance relationship because I really like this girl that lives in japan. but i live in australia so its really hard if i want to confess to her.. well this is how it all started...

Around 2005 April, i was picked on by some people at school because of my hobby, which is movie making. I'm really like a movie otaku, i love watching movies thats why my dream is to become a film director. most of the girls i knew, i told them about my hobby and they would all ne like "isn't that like really immature??" and later on wont ever talk to me.. it was around November when i was on a japanese pen pal website where i met the japanese girl, her name was Aya. we started emailing each other talking about school and life style ect. then i asked her if she used skype and she said she uses it so we added each other. we started talking in skype, (to those who doesn't know its like msn but you use microphone to talk). for the first time, i told her i'm into film making... she unlike the other girls was actualy intrested in it.. she asked me when can i show her my movie.

we talked almost everyday, mostly for 2 hours and we can always talk about anything like movies, anime, school, music ect.. then one night... we talked for 6 hours! i only had 2 hour sleep because i had to wake up for tennis lessons >"< we got more close after that. for christmas i bought her a bracelet and air mailed it to her, she liked it alot. one day i got her email but was really surprised... usualy at the end of the email she would just write "from Aya" but this time she wrote "Love from Aya". i had this feeling when i saw it. after that, i didn't hear from her for 2 weeks and then one night i got her email asking when can i talk to her... but after that... I've waited for a month and stil counting on... I emailed her before saying i have something to tell her because i planned to confess to her next time we talk.. but now i dont think i can do it because i reckon its highly likely i may get rejected since we are so far away _| ̄|○" the feeling with this girl is different from all the other girls i liked. should i confess or not??

769 Name: Secret Admirer : 2016-07-12 04:42 ID:/LE4BJpy

you're a living legend, eiga otoko

770 Name: Secret Admirer : 2016-08-27 05:25 ID:jcIMly5d

Why didn't I discover this thread sooner?!!

771 Name: 映画男 : 2016-10-05 07:11 ID:xFgyl7WD

Sigh I just went through two months of literally hell in June when i moved back to melbourne , will find time to update everyone

772 Name: Secret Admirer : 2016-11-02 04:28 ID:6Pk/4yBt

I hope things are going well my friend.

773 Post deleted.

774 Name: Secret Admirer : 2016-11-25 10:16 ID:znN+X0Q7

benson, you do it wrong. after 10y you have to know it.
i recommend read:
mark manson - models - a comprehensive guide to attracting women
mark manson - the subtle art of not giving a fuck

775 Name: 映画男 : 2017-06-27 06:34 ID:KyBe68c7

its been so long since i posted and so much has happened.
but long story short i managed to pick my self up in the end, I found out Miya actually got together with someone else last year and is getting married soon which was super shocking for me.
What really helped me get better was i started gyming last year and it really helped me mentally and physically.
I've been hanging out with a lot of friends who came back from melbourne and met a few nice people.

Will find time to update, sorry i disappeared for so long.

776 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-09-27 11:28 ID:gxRnV2sw

Take care of yourself Eiga!

777 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-09-27 19:27 ID:R17RJeHy

dicks out for Harambe

778 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 16:51 ID:mnMwLx42


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monopoly (6)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-25 19:30 ID:OfxsV9M8

I have made a horrible discovery. Devastating in scale and impact on humanity, I have realized the existence of an age-old conspiricy against mankind. I am talking about a massive monopoly power, whose power stretches over the whole earth and whose influence is directly known by every man. Deadweight losses (an economic term, sorry for that) are tremendous:

This will come as a shock, but womanity (female humans) has a monopoly on sex. They use cultural mechanisms to bar men from suitable alternatives such as: goats, rodents, sheep, various other barnyard animals, willing men, and right as well as left hands. This reduces the sexual alleviation supply to only all women on earth multiplied by their average sexual availability.

Obviously, this pales in comparison to the sexual demand from men. Because of their feindish control of cultural restraints however, women are able to extract a price from their service far above the competitive equilibrium. Unfortunately, this reinforces their control on cultural restraints. The downside of this institution is a massive group of men whose demands are insufficiently or not at all satisfied. This calls for action.

Whereas some monopolies need to exist, for example to exploit economies of scale, this monopoly power is completely detrimental to male society. Therefore, my fellow comrades, let us bring down this heinous crime against mankind. Now is the time to stand up for our rights. SPEAK OUT TO THE WORLD!!! YOUR OPINION MATTERS, BECAUSE YOU ARE RIGHT!!!!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-25 20:14 ID:Heaven

We have rape. End of discussion.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-26 03:10 ID:Heaven


4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-26 04:11 ID:Heaven

What the fuck kind of argument is this? Saged.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-26 09:24 ID:Heaven

irony bump!

oh wait no.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 15:18 ID:1XhNN89i

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Life is a sadist :P (5)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-18 23:25 ID:zT3wKI9B


lets make this thread to post stories of the real life. The cruel, fucking life, we all love to live and hate. I'm not an emofag btw, I hate emofags, razorblades and black eye-pencils..

So lets get to the topic:

Have you ever felt that life was unfair with you? That you deserver a better future, especially in the love sector? Have you ever thought that life could be actually lurking in /b/?

I'll start with my story:

I was in love with a girl for 5-6months. She turned me down. I became a fag, an anti-social for a while, I fucked it up (I used the worst way to be good with that girl, a thing that I mustnt have done, but this is another story) but after 2 months from the rejection, I was ok (thats arround 3weeks ago)... The funny thing is that I've never had a relationship before, mostly because I never wanted something to happen with any girls up till now. But that girl, she was so beautiful, I was in love both from her looks and character.. Anyway, so she was the only girl in the world I wanted at that particular time...

Post too long. Click to view the whole post or the thread page.

2 Name: I/FAIL\IT!anzteOw4H6!!hD8noMhp : 2006-07-19 02:41 ID:7tgcT6Ue


Self-pity leads to stagnation.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-19 03:07 ID:iLq/Zig7

Dude, get a dick. Seriously.

If you don't grow a penis pretty soon, well there'll just be no hope for you ever.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-19 07:43 ID:Heaven

> I used the worst way to be good with that girl, a thing that I mustnt have done

Told her you were gay?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-06 16:55 ID:m4aFgnFU

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[HelpMe] My crush isn’t responding to my texts or emails! (4)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 06:50 ID:s04kBFCm

So, there’s this girl I go to school with, let’s call her Rachel. We exchanged numbers and emails for a school project, and still occasionally message each other. But recently, she hasn’t been responding to my emails or texts!
Do you think Rachel is okay? Should I call her?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 10:01 ID:omcs5aq2

dicks out for Harambe

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 16:52 ID:s04kBFCm

Be serious, please!

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-23 00:55 ID:Heaven

Threaten to kill her family until she responds.

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1 Name: THE FUTURE OF TEXTBOARDS, IN !!PLn6PKe7 : 2017-04-11 01:32 ID:I44U057E


2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-21 08:04 ID:mfMlwBMb

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[Advice] DQN-kun's Advice Column [DQN] (23)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-11 06:57 ID:36PeWhq1

       /(●)(●)   ask me any question about love and romance!
       | トェェェイ/   I offer only the best advice!
       | /`ニニ´    
       // | |      
      U  .U   
 _,,..-―'"⌒"~ ̄"~⌒゙゙"★                
゙~,,,....-=-‐√"゙゙T"~ ̄Y"゙=ミ
T  |   l,_,,/\ ,,/l  |
,.-r '"l\,,j  /  |/  L,,,/
,,/|,/\,/ _,|\_,i_,,,/ /
_V\ ,,/\,|  ,,∧,,|_/

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-13 22:49 ID:dTCr8a9w

  /(●)(●)   >>11, it's a myth that you need to stay hydrated! I always try to keep
  | トェェェイ/    myself at optimal dehydration (80%). Marinara sauce helps but you
  | /`ニニ´     should also bring some beef jerky. That will keep you alive and dehydrated.
  // | |      
 U  .U   

  /(●)(●)   >>12, I know exactly where you're coming from. It's frustrating to deal with girls that keep changing from day to day.
  | トェェェイ/   But fear not! If you like her other dimensions you can simulate removing the fourth one through petrification. There are
  | /`ニニ´    all sorts of ways of petrifying girls but finding a basilisk or medusa head is probably the easiest. SOLID ADVICE!
  // | |      
 U  .U   

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-14 03:28 ID:KpXVEzRM

How does one go about making an anime/manga character real, and making her fall in love with me?

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-17 07:40 ID:j57RZtQz

DQN-kun! All the women I know make me wish I were a homosexual. Where do I find the kind of woman for me?

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-06-07 11:43 ID:Qr5E/zTQ

How do I chat up a cute girl who works in a library? Or more importantly where do I find another one? Things didn't go well last time...

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-06-07 23:12 ID:ENZfgW8N

  /(●)(●)   >>15, you've got it all wrong! Instead of making her real, you have to make yourself fictional.
  | トェェェイ/    Try writing a short novel about yourself and your potential waifu.
  | /`ニニ´    
  // | |      >>16, you should read more visual novels.
 U  .U

  /(●)(●)   >>17, cute librarian girls are an elusive race. Once they've nested in a library, however, they
  | トェェェイ/   rarely leave, so search any libraries you find thoroughly. They may be found hanging from the rafters
  | /`ニニ´    or nestled behind bookshelves. As for chatting them up, here are a few potential topics of conversation:
  // | |      The weather, Stalinism, fluid mechanics, gynaecology, the Jacobian conjecture.
 U  .U 

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2015-09-25 02:51 ID:5LFNsvpr

Hey DQN-kun, how do I go about getting myself a friends-with-benefits? I don't know how to breach the subject!

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2015-12-20 08:36 ID:dYXwtzR6

Hey DQN-kun, how do I become a masculine super alpha male?

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-08-17 05:29 ID:iKJPam0v

  /(●)(●)   >>19, they say "if you want a friend-with-benefits,
  | トェェェイ/    be a friend-with-benefits." Start a new benefit system
  | /`ニニ´     with your friend by giving them a card and stamping it
  // | |      every time you see them. When they get 10 stamps you fuck.
 U  .U

  | トェェェイ/    >>20 MARINARA SAUCE
  | /`ニニ´    
  // | |   
 U  .U

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-09-26 20:23 ID:DHlEEORC

dicks out for Harambe

23 Name: Billard Quross : 2017-10-17 16:22 ID:lBhhciY3

hey anon-kun i fell in love with a kangaroo how should i approach him UWU

“If you're afraid - don't do it, - if you're doing it - don't be afraid!”

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