Love and Romance @4-ch

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1: save me from myself (gay guy) (5) 2: WAIFUCHAN.ORG IS YOUR FRIEND C: (1) 3: I'm very full of hate. (47) 4: penis borg (1) 5: When is it too late to get into the relationship game? (81) 6: The myth of the evil nice guy (6) 7: how to give a blowjob with braces? (134) 8: gaynal sex (1) 9: Where's the love? (7) 10: How to date a Japanese girl? (80) 11: Nothing but questions. (6) 12: Girlfriend has lower sex drive than me (5) 13: Vagina Diagram (5) 14: FOR SALE HIGH QUALITY US,UK,CANADA DRIVER LICENSE,IDs,PASSPORTS,VISAS (6) 15: buzzed flirting? (4) 16: What she has in mind (3) 17: I don't know what's going on... (4) 18: Questions about marriage (2) 19: Flirty girlfriend, i trust her but it hurts anyway. (47) 20: Questions about marriage (1) 21: japanese boyfriend (111) 22: Does there exist true love? (46) 23: Am I reading too much into this? (8) 24: I'm do I get a white girlfriend? (36) 25: I've been waiting.... (750) 26: Seriously Questioning My Relationship For The First Time (9) 27: Short short story idea (2) 28: I want to be more sexually attracted to my gf (9) 29: Does she feel the same? (25) 30: new densha otoko (276) 31: Is he worth it? (3) 32: Singles Rant Thread, 3rd Edition (191) 33: [Advice] DQN-kun's Advice Column [DQN] (18) 34: Please help me talk to this girl (2) 35: Obsession (9) 36: I'm going on a date Friday at 11AM. My first. HELP! (41) 37: All the time busy (4) 38: Will I end up alone? (11) 39: Me and my girlfriend decided to take a break...but she slept... (26) 40: Looking for a girlfriend (11)

save me from myself (gay guy) (5)

1 Name: keonkarma : 2012-10-21 19:30 ID:Tn5vFjDg

I'm a semi-closeted gay guy (Indian descent).
I'm mentally dying each day.
I'm looking for a man who can save me from all this.
Because I don't want my parents to get hurt, I don't want to run away.
SO I'm looking for someone who could fake my getting a job abroad idea, so I can go away and live in peace.
My parents are poor, I want to help them by making a lot of money abroad.

The man that will help me, can expect to have me forever in his feet as a slave, I will be indebted forever and after that death.

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-10-23 22:13 ID:HThQiCXl

Life is hard. Deal with it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-10-25 23:43 ID:Pwu0jTE6

How big of a taboo is homosexuality where you live?

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-26 23:29 ID:4gCHQrlQ

gooby plz

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-29 17:56 ID:5e5hwiOY

Gay okay

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1 Name: WAIFUCHAN.ORG IS YOUR FRIEND C: : 2014-09-25 04:50 ID:ODMygQnA


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I'm very full of hate. (47)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-03 19:47 ID:UBYkJ2wZ

I HATE women. I never had a girlfriend and never will. The only times I got laid was when I paid a woman or promised her something. I'm never going to hold hands with a chick, kiss a girl intimately because we're in love, or any of the other shit that human beings were made to do. I guess that I'm suppose to be happy masturbating every fucking night. I'm a man with sexual urges and can't get with a female. I'm suppose to be alright with that? THERE IS A FUCKING CURSE ON MY LIFE. A CURSE THAT PREVENTS ANY FEMALE FROM LIKING ME. Oh I forgot, I do get interest from fat chicks and I'm not attracted to fat chicks.
I don't give a fuck anymore. I'm going to become the biggest asshole in the world. I tried the whole being considerate thing and it got me nowhere. If people can't handle my newfound harshness, then bring it on. BECAUSE I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK.
I get happy when I hear about some college slut getting murdered or injured in a hit and run. "oh she was a beautiful and talented girl, how could this happen." I don't know but I'm glad it did.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-02-10 01:56 ID:vbO2CJNE

>>35 >>35 >>35 >>35
Women are okay, I have no problem with women. But love is a piece of shit. It is ridiculous.


Hard work, despite being a fucking ungifted idiot, which ultimately results in some sliver of success is the only drop of happiness I'll ever taste in this world.

Exercise, Study, Build.

I want to cut my balls of and mutilate the part of my brain responsible for romantic attraction.

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-02-10 19:37 ID:6druimAH

>>38 It gets better

40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-06-11 17:45 ID:geOWDypf

Read "Apollo's Song" (a manga by Ozuma Tezuka). Tell me not one time you were abused, ignored, or something else bad happened to you with women...then we'll consider your feelings.

41 Name: lol : 2012-08-02 20:38 ID:ysOA7RlL


42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-04 06:10 ID:J1wh1vjA

The only people who say this kind of thing are those for whom love has not been a serious problem. If you have a good relationship and normal, healthy ideas and thoughts about romance, good for you. I don't, and I don't see how I ever will. So fuck off with your "so sad". It's sad, sure, but you don't know anything about it.

43 Name: 4 : 2012-08-07 23:22 ID:VjnyVfs7

I hate a lot of shit and a lot of people.

44 Name: fuck em and bag em : 2012-10-09 15:04 ID:1N50HMaJ

i hope your deside to go kill a woman your self, i hate em to hate the hole world, and i dont care if i got a problem, i can feel that im building up to my own first rape/murder, and i get happy feelings from that, i guss some ppl werent ment for willing love, and whos to say that its wrong. good luck and hope you dont get cought

45 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-10-09 22:20 ID:znV902E+


46 Name: fartman : 2013-05-09 16:00 ID:uOAGPmFK

ok. keep wanking forever. who cares...?

47 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-22 22:55 ID:sp1TXo0C

I agree, OP. All women are whores/sluts and aren't good for anything besides being cum buckets.

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penis borg (1)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-14 22:56 ID:bzjpGPKf

penis borg

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When is it too late to get into the relationship game? (81)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-05 11:07 ID:tt2SK8W6

Im 20 years old and have never been in a relationship. i've had boys tell me they like me but it was at a bad time (senior year of high school and i was moving to another country for college) or we were too close of friends and it was too weird for me. I've never dated, kissed or even held hands in a romantic kinda way. I've had a lot of friends who are guys so its not because i never talk to boys or anything like that. Is it weird for me to be 20 and never had a relationship?? When did you start dating? When do you think is too old to start?

72 Name: girls love alphas : 2013-05-10 15:31 ID:pQCe4/mG

omegas like u put teh pussy on teh pedestal when u treat due to insecurity. weather u like it or not ur placed n a group based on ur genes and that would b omega 4 u do 2 having weak. i am alpha cuz i have teh strongest genes. face it, u have nothing 2 offer girls witch is y u "hate" pussy. now i know y they call u handsome. lmfao

73 Name: Hate Male Losers : 2013-07-04 01:02 ID:3676F1iO

Experience does not include sexual experience. As a mattwr of fact the only experience male losers like yoy have are one night stands and short term relationships because that is all you are interested in. The requirement of a LTR that has lasted longer than a hockey season is there to weed out losers like you or the "omega" type losers.

Well that is you choice, just as long as you don't come whining later on that women won't give you the time of day.

74 Name: Graham : 2014-02-23 19:12 ID:m967l5F6

Hate Male Losers - You are a Narcissistic bitch.

75 Name: Graham : 2014-02-23 19:13 ID:m967l5F6

Hate Male Losers - You are a Narcissistic bitch.

76 Name: Ernesto : 2014-08-05 08:04 ID:l05+vbTR

Worth to try man, but is Ok. Some people can think it's boring to have sex with a girl but it's not as bad as seems to be. When you have sex you can play games (I won couple of FIFA matches) or chat with friends. Cam sex is boring too but you can try. Just visit chatroulete or or facebook, but when you see nude girl with huge tits - oh, man, give it a rest! it's better to watch spider-man movie or harry potter really. Sex is boring

77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-05 15:24 ID:+7OVxRet

Do you know the difference between a conversation and rape?

No? Let's go upstairs and have a talk.

78 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-26 21:27 ID:369mi+YM

I am too lazy to get into relationship game..
And to be honest I dont enjoy sex at all
Yeah seeing all couples makes me envious some time but still I am okay with masturbation
Why bother...
I dont like girls at all, they are loud and stupid

79 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-26 23:01 ID:369mi+YM

I can not stand girls
Fuck off from my life, okay

80 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-10 20:20 ID:AEJQp13O

If you think love is a game you're going to lose just by playing you know. Try to take another angle.

81 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-13 02:40 ID:GqLlMlN5

It's not too late. You're fucking 20, not 80. You got a good couple decades on you before you're officially screwed.

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The myth of the evil nice guy (6)

1 Name: Mu : 2013-07-05 19:02 ID:GeIJ9YTd

I find the criticism of nice guys idea to be somewhat of a misrepresentation. On the one hand, identifying the label "nice guy" as a title that's shown, not self-imposed, is understandable; being a "nice guy" should reveal itself through one's conduct. However, the way that the material on this site portrays the average nice guy would both make it seem as if those who are truly kind are simply being underhanded and therefore don't deserve to "get the girl," and those who are in fact using "niceness" as a facade to get girls are somehow more reprehensible than those females who manipulate men and are cheered on for it. Conversely, those who have no regard for the feelings of women, and no respect for women, that is to say, "jerks," are seen as real men and truly genuine, because men apparently only act like sub-human neanderthals, thus any man who does not act this way is automatically trying to get into bed with a woman. Or he's gay

Allow me to elaborate. A person who is confident, directed, respectful and considerate toward women, and fairly attractive could be considered a good potential boyfriend, except he's not as interesting as someone who's on the wrong side of the law or enjoys causing pain and suffering, like, say, a jerk. As much as the nice guy has going for him, he doesn't have enough novelty for a girl to be attracted to him, and thus a girl will choose the jerk. And then, two months later, she'll come to the guy who actually cares about her well-being and tell him how she regrets having made that decision. As a person who's been in this situation, I can say that it's frustrating to hear that she's having problems like this, especially if one has offered her the chance for a healthy relationship and she turned it down

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2 Name: Mu : 2013-07-05 19:03 ID:GeIJ9YTd


And then if you do somehow make it past all the testing, you virtually get no green light to go ahead. Unless the girl really wants to jump your bones, she makes no show of attraction, and since the nicer guys tend to respect a girl's feelings and don't want to go further than they are allowed, they end up with nothing. It's no longer just a fear of rejection; it's a fear of being arrested. However, women continue to believe that the half-hearted, intentionally deceptive "signals" they give are good enough, since any guy who likes them enough will ask them out regardless of possible consequences. However, even though guys are required to do this, it never seems to cross a girl's mind to show similar respect and maybe throw him a bone or two

It simply seems as if a nice guy will never be attractive to a woman. Any woman. And it seems as if it's all because he's nice. Respect used to be valuable, but it seems so cheap now, thanks to these types of actions. Perhaps, given the fact that you probably wouldn't have much reason to be dishonest, I will find some answers from you

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-07-21 19:26 ID:onAzden4

I don't see why it's necessarily the case that nice guys lack novelty. The novelty of the jerk (to use your phrase) is that he is, in some way, a challenge. The woman wants his attention, and this gives the relationship momentum. However, I don't think that momentum need come from challenge, nor that "jerks" are the only ones capable of providing novelty.

If a woman isn't attracted to a nice guy who has looks, money, direction and confident, and who is respectful of her, it may be because, save for the last, none of these are necessary or sufficient for a relationship. A nice guy with those things may be at first blush interesting, even attractive, but if there's nothing that intrigues the woman behind those things, then the guy's just some guy who's respectful toward her. "Jerks", however bad they may be, at least have an interesting personality, even if the woman ultimately wants to change it.

I would add that the "evil" nice guy is a thing. You see, "nice guys" blame women for not being attracted to them, whereas nice guys accept that they won't be attractive to everyone, and that if they do want to be attractive to a lot of women, they may need to change certain parts of who they are.

4 Name: Mu : 2013-07-29 18:19 ID:GeIJ9YTd

Then that only seems to say that women aren't interested in stable relationships, or at the very least have a chronic appreciation for dysfunctional traits some of the time, if they go for jerks at all. It shouldn't be an issue. It would be like ignoring the nice girl at the bookstore in favor of a hooker, because at least the hooker knows how to shake her ass. No one should gravitate to such an extreme to begin with, in the case of long-term relationships, when women go to such trouble to change jerks.

As for nice guys, it's a bit biased to say they blame women. They can bitch about women all they want, because heaven forbid someone have trouble in relationships. Women do it all the time with men. It's like saying people aren't allowed to complain about people. In the case of the nice guy/jerk dichotomy, it can be frustration that she would be with these types of people at all, or just simple unrequited love. For that matter, the evil nice guy myth assumes that there is a problem with the nice guy to begin with. I've seen people go onto complain that nice guys are covert rapists, lying to themselves about everything in their lives, etc, to the point that if a nice guy is too shy to ask a woman out or simply doesn't want to get arrested because of how vindictive women can be today, he's a liar or not a real man, but women are accepted for the same cowardly behavior. Short of being Buddha, decency pales in comparison to shitty behavior when it comes to attracting women. There are guys that do have inferiority complexes or whatever in their overeager attempts to impress women, but to say this is a broad spectrum of males or the most dominant personality trait in men trying to respect women is just pure sexism. Really, blaming oneself and trying to change for that one person can be seen as a sign of an inferiority complex or blaming the object of attraction can be seen as a sign of confidence and moving on with your life away from worshipping your love. We've come full circle. The nice guy is still good/bad just because of [insert reason here]. But jerks, let alone wife beaters/alcoholics, etc. never get this type of treatment.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-08-11 14:49 ID:qHnGOCWd

I can't find it, but it's been scientifically proven though that most women seek out the jerk initially as an evolutionary trait. There was an article I read that basically stated women seek out the alpha male to mate with and have a child with the best genes, of course, but then leave him and seek out a beta, because he's more stable and a more reliable father to her child. It really threw me for a loop that this kind of devious evolutionary psychology has been programmed into women since the dawn of time.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-10 20:42 ID:XcC3ZBd2

That's an interesting theory but it doesn't account for how that evolutionary trait appeared (I'd like to read that article if you don't mind finding it). I imagine, entertaining this theory somewhat, that early experiences, like prenatal experiences. The stability of the family, whether the father or mother died before adulthood, among some things - these things affect personality in general though so it might not seem like a definitive explanation in this case... but it definitely affects who the woman will partner up with later on, and it may bring forward a unfortunate environmental conditions for the child who is going to be reared in a dysfunctional family.

I strongly believe women who seek out "dominating" (as in, a-holes) men have had a bad father-figure while growing up. It's similar to how abused women find excuses for their abusers - it might be that they do not understand what constitutes a normal healthy relationship, it might be self blame/shame/hatred. I don't think that every human being is inevitably hard wired to favor abuse or abusers, I think that's something of a festering malicious circle.

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how to give a blowjob with braces? (134)

1 Name: uh-oh : 2007-01-27 23:25 ID:cCzJMi6y

yeah, basically what i said in the heading. how do you do it without...well, hurting the package?

125 Name: Pimptastic pimp : 2012-10-05 04:03 ID:TCcDVvQN

I'm 14 and my gf just got braces a month ago and she wants to give me head and she had to rubber band things in the side of her mouth and just normal braces....

126 Name: TrainTracks : 2012-10-08 16:36 ID:d62qcbis

I have braces, im 13. and i have solutions for other train tracked people :)
1) wax. it covers the sharpness and you can still please him.
2) cover your teeth with your lips
3) dont do it if you dont trust yourself, if you cant trust yourself, how can he?

i hope this helped :)
it helped me and it feels awesome for him.
the texturof the braces under the wax, might actually turn him on :0 who knows? :p

127 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-12-08 10:14 ID:R6EbA857

it's not so bad to receive head...but if it's too fast...then it hurts! :(

128 Name: Alexander : 2013-02-23 16:17 ID:pAaoQnEE

My girfriend used to have braces and i got head all the time without problems. She got them removed a few months ago and i can honestly say it feels the same. I Love her so much<3 Shes my life

129 Name: obvioustruth : 2013-09-16 04:10 ID:/JkyjETf

wtf are the people in this thread talking about, feminists love giving head, because they are control freaks, they love having men vulnerable in their hands. they are on top, they can show no mercy to the penis, bite the balls, bite the penis, control the man, its something feminists love doing! trust me! but a real girl gives head without biting, and also lets you suck her pussy as well. remember the song "you wanna suck my pussy, pussy, well let me suck your dick, you don't own me bastard.", sung by a female musician, mind you! women who are feminists are the ones to suck dick.

130 Name: obvioustruth : 2013-09-16 14:15 ID:/JkyjETf

@#5, wtf are you smoking? lsd? girls love guys as much as guys love girls, its how we were made, girls feel its worse only when guys don't ask questions and communicate in that way.

131 Name: obvioustruth : 2013-09-16 17:14 ID:/JkyjETf

dudes who are robot viruses, a girl has a far more chance of getting hiv, I.e. eazy e, magic Johnson got in trouble as a result etc. a girl knows how clean the penis is, because it doesn't require near as much cleaning as a pussy does. its filtration system is awesome, which is why girls love to suck dick and drink cum, its almost impossible to have unhealthy cum. cum is really healthy, and syphilis is something contracted by a girl's teeth, but its a lot easier to get hiv from a nasty girl's pussy so you guys out there be careful, in response to #3, or 4 I think. whatever, but this is the case.

132 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-09-20 05:58 ID:jx8aK8Qq

>>131 is a troll. Don't listen to him.

133 Name: Secret Admirer : 2013-11-23 13:52 ID:jYbzzt+q

134 Name: A 12 year old : 2014-09-06 11:27 ID:KbJhwbg9

My gf gave me one and it huRt no thank u

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gaynal sex (1)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-21 00:01 ID:wUaNuzzI

gaynal sex

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Where's the love? (7)

1 Name: Otakun : 2014-07-29 21:05 ID:0UwN6hbY

Long ago I came to these boards looking for help in my love life. For those interested in a 6 year old thread here's the link:

Even though that chapter of love didn't work out as well as I had hoped, all the lessons I learned those days eventually did help me find the love of my life.

My question is where is all the posts of people that need help or encouragement? Let's help everyone that comes here! :)

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-07-31 21:42 ID:mJcKWvWQ

Well after having a few letdowns I kinda feel extremely devoid of emotions and I no longer want to find love. I just want to be bad to people like they've been bad to me.

I found out, after deciding on changing my behavior, that soon all my 'friends' cut ties with me. It was that easy: each and every one of them neglected me on the first 'bad' thing I did to them. They didn't bother talking to me about it; they didn't want to know why I did what I did. It did not surprise them at all that all these years I've been 100% there for them and suddenly I changed my behavior. They used me for as long as they had to; as soon as I turned my back on them, they turned their back on me.

I won't have any more shit by anyone, no more. Anyone who is coming my way is going to get their ass handed to them properly.

Unfortunately, this sort of reasoning leaves no place for love. I don't need it in the first place. I hope you read this post. I really want your opinion on this. I know this is Love and Romance and that my post is borderline off-topic, but that's just the sort of post yours provoked.

3 Name: Otakun : 2014-08-02 07:56 ID:0UwN6hbY


You're absolutely right. You have no room for love for others if you started hating parts of yourself enough to do such a drastic change. In all honesty I was at the same point myself where: "if nobody really cared about me why should I care about them?" The only problem was that it cut out anybody who really who did or would care about you/me.

Believe me when I say that trusting takes time. From the sounds of it you were also one of those nice people that may have been taken advantage of. Rather than getting back at the world for its wrongs may I suggest focusing inwards and improving yourself? Take up a hobby, work out, read books, anything to discover the true you. Eventually you'll find some true friends and/or the love of your life hopefully.

Personally, it takes too much time and energy being angry... Just try to move onto better times. I hope that helps. I'll be lurking around :)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-03 20:56 ID:Heaven

i dont care who says theyre hot or they arent id still put it in all their holes

5 Name: Otakun : 2014-08-04 01:59 ID:0UwN6hbY


That's horrible. At least get to know them first!

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-08-15 04:54 ID:PPffmxYb

Thanks >>3

7 Name: Otakun : 2014-08-16 03:57 ID:0UwN6hbY

No prob >>6. I like to help.

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How to date a Japanese girl? (80)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-27 14:32 ID:+0Z1XWt2

So I live in the countryside of Japan. Not many opportunities to meet pretty girls out here, but I have met one. The problem is, outside of hand holding, she has been very non-commital. But whenever I give up on her, she emails me saying she really wants to do something with me.
I'm not sure about the rules in Japan. Does one just go for the gusto, like in the Japanese movies? Somehow I doubt life is like the fiction. I'm a relatively shy guy that got tired of being burned, so my progress is glacial to say the least.
Does one have to admit one has feelings, ala densha otoko? How do I move to the next stage.

Supplementary: she is six years older than me. Maybe she sees that as a problem.

71 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-02 04:42 ID:Heaven

your words are at odds with your actions

72 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-05-10 11:10 ID:Dghv3CGi

OK Japanese women are just like any other women, they all want the same thing, kindness, protection and providence from their man. A girl may already like you and is hoping that you do to, so they wait for you to do want thing, and that's to confess to them, because they're afraid that you might not like them back, so if you really love this girl confess to her and she'll tell you what she wants, unlike the US, Japanese woman are very considerate and will accept your feelings, but they'll tell you that they're not interested if they don't like you. My apologies for this being late, I just found this site.

73 Name: ham : 2012-06-06 18:30 ID:cWeLLa/n

hm... really? i thought jap babes usually are the more forward types who will confess their feelings for you like those cliched jap high school movies? and give handmade goodies on valentines too?
i also here they are a bit more materialistic? is that true?

74 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-06-11 04:20 ID:RllnNF0k

【Japan is being in a critical situation】
In spite of this is an important time for Japan to revive, Japanese Government keeps trying to profit China and Korea.
So China has been invading Japan, and Korea has been eating at Japan.
On politically, socially, mentally and many sides or insides of things.

Many Chinese and Korean are living in Japan now.
Why do they only see this situation without a single word for the interests
of Japan?
If this situation is going on, Japan as what Japan is would not last much
Do they really want like that?

If Chinese people who live in Japan don't face the fact of their mother
country, they would lost nowaday's their freedom and wealth.

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75 Name: Wolf : 2013-08-14 14:52 ID:I51loVbF

The Japanese are very reserved with their romance. They tend towards subtle flirting with gestures, body language, and indirect statements much more than western cultures which emphasis bravely pursuing a kiss or embrace. While they MAY find western bluntness some what endearing they will also shy away from it if they feel it is too much too soon or too fast. The Japanese do tend to put a lot of importance on the social bonds they form with others and as such take longer to reach a level of even friendship with others. The most you can do is be yourself but moderate some of your affectionate behavior so you're not "coming on too strong" and just take your time. Eventually when you've known each other for a good amount of time I think a minimum of a 1/2 a year would be ok you should admit how you feel and ask her on a date. There are some culture differences but women like feeling special and that's universal.

76 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-27 16:06 ID:I60K8yIh

Japanese Cute Girls Photo

77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-03-27 17:51 ID:4SPAXk6j

They DO NOT date otakus and freaks.

78 Name: Anonymous : 2014-06-09 07:27 ID:8s/YwKFq

you need to do her in the butt

79 Name: gorrillaconvention : 2014-08-03 20:58 ID:Heaven

i dont care who says theyre hot or they arent id still put it in all their holes

80 Name: Ernesto : 2014-08-05 06:25 ID:xzrR3YTL

Try online dating like POF eg. The simplest way facebook or video-chats like dating-chat and so on. There is nothing difficult man. A friend of mine met girl from RUSSIA on such a site. He even moved to Russia to met her IRL. I think it's easier to meet girl from Japan.

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