Love and Romance @4-ch

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A girl with a kid (20)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 01:49 ID:JvLy8Q/k

OK /b/, I am currently fucking the hottest girl I've ever gotten with. Really attractive face, nice tits, a little skinny but it just makes for a tighter pussy. Definitely the best looking I've gotten with. She is pretty cool to hang around with, is an absolute freak, and I'm not really spending any kind of money her.

She has a kid. I am of the age where I shouldn't even be thinking of kids (19). She'll be 19 in November and the kid will be 2 around the same time

Dump immediately or just be careful to not spend any money on her or her kid?

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-12 13:07 ID:IKvkJoa3

As you get older you will start meeting women with kids. There's a lot of it these days and it goes with being single.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-13 03:25 ID:Heaven

I'd be upset with >>1's post, but being 19yo shallowness should be expected.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 03:54 ID:nD6vlKmc

You are just not sufficient for her. It depends on how you feel, but believe you might have to even go against your feelings.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 15:16 ID:JvLy8Q/k

>>9

>>It's probably the "OK /b/" at the beginning that tipped >>7 off.

Haha I can't believe I forgot to delete that. Thanks for all the advice

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 16:48 ID:FbncuV1e

leave her after kid-related-shit starts to happen, as for now, enjoy your lovely fuck friend.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 18:03 ID:BechNQyc

NOOOOO!!!

I've done this before (I'm 21), and it turned out nasty. I've also seen two friends do it too, and it's not pretty. Run while you can.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-19 02:53 ID:dKSzkmZk

Watch out for women with kids. A regular 19 year old woman can have enough issues on her own. A 2 year old can have more than an enough issues on it's own. With their powers combined, it's a severe force to be reconed with. If you're not serious about this, and you think she might be in any way, RUN! Run fast, run far. (Or, you could go the more mature route and TALK! Talk lots, make yourself clear.)

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-03-29 15:11 ID:sDD4bIGY

I look forward to reading the kid's post in this thread in a couple years. He's 12 now at least.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 20:07 ID:1MWMMnCi

Wow, the last reply is from 2 years ago, and the post before that is from 12 years ago, that's fucking crazy

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There's no such thing as love... (34)

1 Name: Zennigata : 2006-05-16 18:09 ID:IQcPey03

My heart is sorta sunk right now... Every day we shared so much. I went to bed one night thinking of my future, what I need to accomplish in order to take care of her... and the next night I fall asleep out of exhaustion... crying... wondering why she suddenly decides to move away on her own will, but instead of even giving me the chance of going with her, she turns cold blooded on me and doesn't even shead a tear of regret...

Fuck love... There's no such thing... Its only a primal emotion that no longer serves a purpose in today's world of lies, deception, and hate. Fuck it all...

25 Name: Admirable Secret!3pI2s8EqCA : 2006-05-19 04:44 ID:eqYUQTbt

Dude, honestly. If you're going to be a tripfag, do it right. You give the rest of us tripfags a bad name.

26 Name: Ulrich!b/J5P5LN4s : 2006-05-19 05:09 ID:V2t6LuP0

Sorry >_< This is my code from now on.

27 Name: Ulrich!HLtjLvv0V. : 2006-05-19 08:45 ID:SpQzeSdj

>>26
isn't the real Ulrich

28 Name: Ulrich!0PwEcPsMT. : 2006-05-19 10:16 ID:uKs7xe6Z

>>27
isn't the real Ulrich

29 Name: Ulrich : 2006-05-19 10:34 ID:7izRRTZc

>>25

These idiots are using my name to irritate me and give me a bad reputation at the same time. All they are doing is copying and pasting from my posts in my topic.

30 Name: Ulrich!zecNf/Y0YE : 2006-05-19 15:19 ID:SpQzeSdj

>>29
These idiots are using my name to irritate me and give me a bad reputation at the same time. All they are doing is copying and pasting from my posts in my topic.

31 Name: Ulrich!b/J5P5LN4s : 2006-05-19 18:21 ID:QbHaGeYv

>>30
These idiots are using my name to irritate me and give me a bad reputation at the same time. All they are doing is copying and pasting from my posts in my topic.

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-05-24 13:19 ID:+HdWtniE

>>1

Hulk smash !!!

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34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 20:01 ID:zMJQHY+6

Tripfags are universally cancerous and should not be allowed on any anonymous imageboard worth it's salt

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Sex: The point of it? (41)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-31 03:51 ID:R+WW1uHk

I need some good reasons for why ("normal") sex isn't a bad/gross thing one needs to avoid when in a loving relationship with someone, whether it be very long term (even including marriage) or shorter term.

one-night stand reasons need not apply.

None of these reasons either:

  • "(´^ิ౪^ิ) It's fun and feels good! Durrrr" (none of the too selfish, short-term reasons)
  • "To reproduce!" (this thread deals with sex that isn't supposed/likely to spawn offspring)

I would like some practical reasons for why it's actually useful for the relationship, as well as for the people involved with it. I also would like reasons for why jacking off isn't in the same league as sex within a stable and loving relationship (even though jacking off isn't a bad thing to do at all).

Most of you seem to be a clever bunch, I'd be happy and grateful for any help with this issue. I hope it isn't a too tall order.

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-25 05:47 ID:Heaven

>>29 figure out a way to reproduce with an synthetic womb
That and lolimaidbots will make women useless forever.

33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-25 07:53 ID:TQlWxESv

>>32 the inventor of lolitron will be a rich man.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-28 13:37 ID:G2lBudzO

-haha-

35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-28 13:40 ID:Heaven

haha

36 Name: N/A : 2006-08-29 06:39 ID:mHPviwcN

Humans, apart from dolphins are the only species to have sex for pleasure. it goes to show that if dolphines d it too then it cant be wrong. It is away of strengthening a bond in a relationship and of getting closer to another human being. If done right its about the closest two people can get. For some people that kind of inimacy is reasuring and in a way necessary. Everybody needs love and it is just a way of showing your love for another person that goes abve and beyond what you do to show love to friends and family. but for others its just about the sex. (the pure physical pleasure)

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-29 08:34 ID:Heaven

I like to play tennis with my friend because it's fun and it feels good. Sorry for being so selfish.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-29 16:51 ID:3jzPtOiA

>>36 Please check your sources on that one. Plenty of species have homosexual experiences for bonding or pleasure, which have nothing to do with reproducing.

39 Name: N/A : 2006-08-29 21:11 ID:mHPviwcN

>>38

I dont pretend to know everything
was just quoating a fact that i had herd, which is at least partly true. i just wanted to answere the post that sex is not just about sex...some of the time...and that for some people the point of it is the emotional connection as well as the physical pleasure.

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41 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 19:47 ID:qlvbuKr2

>>38
But that's gay, Anon

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[HelpMe] My crush isn’t responding to my texts or emails! (8)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 06:50 ID:s04kBFCm

So, there’s this girl I go to school with, let’s call her Rachel. We exchanged numbers and emails for a school project, and still occasionally message each other. But recently, she hasn’t been responding to my emails or texts!
Do you think Rachel is okay? Should I call her?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 10:01 ID:omcs5aq2

dicks out for Harambe

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 16:52 ID:s04kBFCm

Be serious, please!

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-23 00:55 ID:Heaven

Threaten to kill her family until she responds.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-10-12 09:41 ID:wKjvdkm9

Threaten to kill another gorilla until she responds.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-02-21 04:42 ID:B3eg3Bqv

Incidentally mine has the same name, and she had blocked me, since all she was doing was leading me on, until I was sick of it and texted her about it. These days we're on okay terms and still I try to charm her in hopes of winning her heart. She still hasn't unblocked me; she must think she has me wrapped around her finger. It's true.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 04:34 ID:E45hy73G

>>6
Stop being such a fucking loser and get some balls, man.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 17:15 ID:eGYTWqcK

>>6
Rape her you faggot
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Weird Girl Calls Herself "Asexual" (8)

1 Name: 9 : 2019-10-12 12:01 ID:u1A8MdGg

I am familiar with this girl who lives not too far from where I live. We encountered each other in a D&D group some time ago, although that D&D group stopped being a thing fairly quickly. Still, we kept in touch, occasionally sending each other phone messages about random stuff. I have no issue with talking to her about my obsession with Japan and my morbid dreams for some reason and she doesn't seem to mind. As it turns out, despite not caring for anime, she goes to some anime conventions, so whenever those happen I go together with her. Being with her makes being around all of those annoying people kind of bearable.
As it turns out, I kind of enjoy being around her. She speaks in a weird way, as though she doesn't know exactly what she wants to say. I find that to be moe. She finds the fact that I have absolutely no friends and am okay with that to be very interesting. She also claims that the fact that I'm extremely honest is a positive trait which I shouldn't regret having and the fact that I always wear the exact same clothes to be very strange. But all that being said, as we sat on the bus together and I was telling her about the complex emotions I feel towards the world, she informed me that she is asexual. I'm not sure if that means that she's not into boys, isn't interested in sex, was just saying that as a defense mechanism or is actually some kind of alien creature that reproduces by itself, but I still want to try. As it turns out, I've always found the idea of sex to be kind of disgusting while still being interested in girls, although I missed my chance to say that. I felt like it might come off as me attempting to lie to her in order to make her like me, even though she already acknowledged that I'm an unusually honest person.

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-10-14 04:57 ID:eHnyZgGk

nigger

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-10-21 16:44 ID:zBlbNHRp

ok virgin

4 Name: 9 : 2019-10-23 10:13 ID:u1A8MdGg

Never mind. She revealed her true nature of being really messed up in the head and actually feels dangerous to be around. At least I learned a bit about relationships. I still haven't given up on my plan though, and will try again the next time I find myself in a similar situation.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-10-24 00:00 ID:gVY7/KIF

>>4
Tell us the story behind it. We want the dirt. All four of us.

6 Name: 9 : 2019-10-24 10:49 ID:u1A8MdGg

>>5
At the most recent anime convention, I took note of all of the girls cosplaying as male characters and decided to talk to her about my favorite male anime characters. I had a feeling that talking about that might allow me to understand how she really feels about men and was exactly on point. As I explained why Toki from HnK was so awesome and inspirational, she cut me off and told me outright that she actually HATES men while making a pretty serious face. I didn't expect her to be so direct. She then brought up another male from the D&D group, explaining how he was very bad to her without going into detail. This triggered something in my brain. I knew that the D&D group stopped being a thing fairly quickly but I didn't know the specific reason why the DM suddenly informed me that the group split, but now I have sufficient information to understand roughly what happened. At that point I also remembered how I read on the internet that certain girls accuse innocent men of rape for nefarious purposes and realized that this girl who openly hates men would have a pretty reasonable motive for doing something like that. While I mostly act fairly mellow, my goal was to marry a girl, which is one of the manliest things one can do, meaning that it would trigger red flags for her no matter how interested I actually am in sex. I figure that at best she would just distance herself from me.
At the convention I also saw some weirdo wearing a communist uniform and she informed me that she "believes it". I'm not a political person, but I know full well that communism killed loads of people and has no upsides beyond holding back overpopulation.
After these two events and a few more minor ones, I informed her that I'm going on a "personal journey to find myself" and went to a place where she wasn't. In truth, I sort of felt threatened. Maybe I'm just a coward, but I can't honestly see myself living with such a person.

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7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-11-02 17:28 ID:a2LECeF/

>>6
I meant to say somethig earlier (I swear I posted something but I must not have actually hit reply) about the fact that anyone broadcasting their lack of sexual desire in public has some screws loose, but I'm glad you figured it out on your own. Even though I avoid women on principle and wouldn't go near one willingly I hope you have good luck with the other girl. Make sure to listen to a few Patrice O'neal videos on relationships, it's going to be hard to control a woman without sex unless you get incredibly lucky somehow or just have really good fingerblasting skillz.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-11-27 20:29 ID:sv8EczXq

>>6
So what happened with the first girl? Did you simply ditch her at the convention? Did you simply stop talking texting/returning any texts? Seems odd that someone would basically mutually ghost each other without prior agreement.

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Densha Otoko (3)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-06-17 05:52 ID:mxthu+6S

Thread to talk about actor Densha Otoko

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-08-23 00:50 ID:R/BN6ELZ

I thought he was great in The Wolf of Wall Street

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-11-21 05:35 ID:Cr/dIq5I

Me too, definitely one of his best roles.
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I've been waiting.... (784)

1 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-08 06:46 ID:rBmL8F/W

I'm usualy just a lurker around the board, but today i have a story... recently i been posting about long distance relationship because I really like this girl that lives in japan. but i live in australia so its really hard if i want to confess to her.. well this is how it all started...

Around 2005 April, i was picked on by some people at school because of my hobby, which is movie making. I'm really like a movie otaku, i love watching movies thats why my dream is to become a film director. most of the girls i knew, i told them about my hobby and they would all ne like "isn't that like really immature??" and later on wont ever talk to me.. it was around November when i was on a japanese pen pal website where i met the japanese girl, her name was Aya. we started emailing each other talking about school and life style ect. then i asked her if she used skype and she said she uses it so we added each other. we started talking in skype, (to those who doesn't know its like msn but you use microphone to talk). for the first time, i told her i'm into film making... she unlike the other girls was actualy intrested in it.. she asked me when can i show her my movie.

we talked almost everyday, mostly for 2 hours and we can always talk about anything like movies, anime, school, music ect.. then one night... we talked for 6 hours! i only had 2 hour sleep because i had to wake up for tennis lessons >"< we got more close after that. for christmas i bought her a bracelet and air mailed it to her, she liked it alot. one day i got her email but was really surprised... usualy at the end of the email she would just write "from Aya" but this time she wrote "Love from Aya". i had this feeling when i saw it. after that, i didn't hear from her for 2 weeks and then one night i got her email asking when can i talk to her... but after that... I've waited for a month and stil counting on... I emailed her before saying i have something to tell her because i planned to confess to her next time we talk.. but now i dont think i can do it because i reckon its highly likely i may get rejected since we are so far away _| ̄|○" the feeling with this girl is different from all the other girls i liked. should i confess or not??

775 Name: 映画男 : 2017-06-27 06:34 ID:KyBe68c7

its been so long since i posted and so much has happened.
but long story short i managed to pick my self up in the end, I found out Miya actually got together with someone else last year and is getting married soon which was super shocking for me.
What really helped me get better was i started gyming last year and it really helped me mentally and physically.
I've been hanging out with a lot of friends who came back from melbourne and met a few nice people.

Will find time to update, sorry i disappeared for so long.

776 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-09-27 11:28 ID:gxRnV2sw

Take care of yourself Eiga!

777 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-09-27 19:27 ID:R17RJeHy

dicks out for Harambe

778 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 16:51 ID:mnMwLx42

EIGA WHATS GOING ON

779 Name: 映画男 : 2018-06-09 09:58 ID:nX6JtAy+

hey there, just to let you guys know i'm still alive

i moved to china last year and started a new life again, been here for 7 months.
I'm actually about to start dating with a women who's 5 years older then me.

780 Name: Beck : 2019-03-03 08:05 ID:CXEXBreq

Sweet Jesus, this epic thread has been going on for 10 years, and I enjoy every moment of it.

So how's it going so far, keep us updated bro!

781 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-08-23 00:55 ID:mP4GlHRq

>>779
my man, you're a 4-ch original. you have got to be 50 years old by now. back in 2006 i was still sucking on titties. i was 20 at the time.

782 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-10-07 16:59 ID:7zVxT7rI

I wish I had been born earlier so I could've experienced this amazing thread :/

783 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-11-27 20:37 ID:Heaven

>>782
You can.
Just forget you read the thread, and wait equal amounts of time between each post. So for the first reply, you wait 1 hour and you should be monitoring this thread for 13 years before you get back to this point. It'll basically be the same, right?

784 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-02 18:17 ID:Heaven

>>783 Oh shoot, how have I never thought of this before?
Thanks, you're a lifesaver.

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Race Preferences? (15)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-05 12:03 ID:U2v1Bz3S

Somehow, I find that different races tend to have different preferences. I'm a Vietnamese girl, but I find that Chinese guys tend to prefer girls who are more docile, shy, short, and skinny.
Then I find that Vietnamese guys have a less focused preference, but generally the same thing.
Lastly, I find that white people (sorry for the generalization) tend to like taller girls with lighter hair and a little more meat than what the Chinese guys do. Is this just my imagination...?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-11-08 18:47 ID:lzH2MORC

dicks out for Harambe

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-01-17 18:25 ID:ySvKodMz

>>5
Only if they are fresh off the boat.
Americanized Asians are the worst

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-01-18 07:52 ID:UiYFnMBb

>>7
I agree, it's just wrong. I hate other cultures being "Americanized" I mean what's so fucking great about America anyways? It's a "shithole" if you ask me.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-03-10 01:34 ID:sAx5ykrL

I'm currently seeing a girl who is mixed Mexican and German. It's a combination I never even thought of, when I think mixed race girls I'm usually a fan of European-Indian or European-Asian girls. I'm so inexperienced with a mix like this that I don't know if they're all as cute as her, or she's the exception. She almost looks like a hapa in some ways, especially her eyes and that rosiness to her cheeks/nose.

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11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-04-16 16:46 ID:qmcUzh21

>>9
Mexican-German is common in Texas.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-05-13 15:33 ID:xXxe26zJ

>>11
That's intriguing, a lot of her family is actually from the South. Maybe I've just lived in the wrong part of the world to experience it often.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-06-26 10:16 ID:LxI4c4GN

The human race.
And by that I mean anything but nigger.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-08-23 00:49 ID:FltvClal

OP was probably the last girl to ever grace this website. Sad!

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-09-15 04:39 ID:X9+qriRZ

>>1
A country's culture is an influence in what your preferences are.

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How Do I find a flesh and blood woman With a Fart Fetish (4)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-07-07 20:50 ID:7i3G08NP

How can I find a girl that will fart on my face? The very few amount of girls that have this fetish are all either dykes, taken by some guy already or all the way across the world. I've thought about going on tinder/a dating site to find a date and secretly give them laxatives. That's all I can think of at this point

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-07-21 19:04 ID:7Xv7Crpf

Get a sex change. Then you'll be a flesh and blood woman with a fart fetish.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-07-25 01:27 ID:jDot5mzz

>>1
The simplest solution would be to stop being subhuman.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-08-23 00:48 ID:xQ6Fitt8

Go to Germany. They fucking love shit and farts there. They breathe it. They designed toilets where you shit onto a flat platform so you can check out your turd before you flush. They are crazy about shit and turds over there.

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SHE LEFT (5)

1 Name: SHE LEFT : 2019-04-03 01:53 ID:V1yRtjAX

SHE LEFT

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2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-04-28 02:15 ID:vAWT6ZnQ

YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS AS DEAD AS 4channel

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-05-07 01:20 ID:Heaven

this is so sad

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-05-10 03:57 ID:Heaven

SHE LEFT her iphone on vibrate

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-06-16 05:32 ID:BlZ6wZ8i

Shmad >:)

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