Virgin Thread (333)

1 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-04 01:21 ID:VJ744lXT

So, how many we got here?. I'll start with myself.

2 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-04 01:26 ID:YfY4gtaW

cough cough...

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-04 03:05 ID:lOTX+XEc

21.5 years old. But it looks like I may lose it within a year.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-04 03:11 ID:uVVKwiXX

right here...sigh....

5 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-04 03:44 ID:VJ744lXT

Can you guarantee you'll lose it within a year? or are you just saying that because now you have a relationship where you see a possibility of the chance?

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-04 03:49 ID:Heaven


7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-04 05:11 ID:uVVKwiXX

lol, did you hire a prostitute for a certain day and already paid in advance? cuz, i suppose thats the only way to be, ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY sure....hahaha

8 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-04 05:21 ID:VJ744lXT

LOL @ #7

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-04 15:16 ID:Heaven


working on it.... goddammit.

10 Name: akomu : 2006-01-05 05:12 ID:XzPDLUv+

Been virgin for 20 years now.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-05 06:42 ID:uAKVdmBk

Developing relationship.
While physically lonely, I wouldn't go out and lose my virginity just to lose it. So, I can't guarantee.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-06 17:33 ID:Heaven

Just having a rollcall is kinda boring. Is there anything to discuss here?

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-07 18:31 ID:O5Rwb8vc

24.75 and counting..

14 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-07 21:04 ID:VJ744lXT

Well, I guess we can discuss why we're still virgins.
Is it a choice we made?, were we just not interested in sex during high school?, or have we never been in a relationship where sex was a possibility?.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-07 22:24 ID:Heaven

I wasn't interested, but then, I almost entirely avoided socializing in high school.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-07 23:12 ID:4rrBKzqR

Age = years without a girlfriend. I need to get out more.

17 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-07 23:25 ID:xbMTL/Sn

I have about a thousand reasons, but I'll only list a few...
1) I don't get out a whole lot.
2) When I do get out, I'm too shy to talk to people.
3) When I talk, people always comment on how monotone my voice is, which pisses me off to the point of telling them to fuck off.
4) I'm a very impatient person, which often results in #4.
5) Even though I'm in high school (senior), I don't like high school girls. However, despite the fact that I like older women, older women don't take me seriously.
6) I'm generally 'too whiny' for most women.
7) I still live with my parents.
8) Too cheap for a girlfriend. (Read: no money, no job)
9) I've pretty much just stopped trying.

18 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-07 23:26 ID:xbMTL/Sn

Umm...on number four, I meant to say "which results in number 3".

19 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-08 01:42 ID:VJ744lXT

yeah, I agree with you on not being interested in High School girls, some of them really need to grow up. I'd work on the monotone thing though I started practicing to up my voice a little bit a day a few months back I think I sound a more confident man now rather than a little shy boy.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-08 04:01 ID:Ea3XQYW2

Thanks for numbering. I'm with you on #1, #7, #8, #9. Also #4 is hilarious, it's like a Douglas Hofstadter quote.

My main reasons are
10) Not really interested in the short term
11) Can't relate to most people because I work on my computer all day, have a strongly intuitive personality, don't watch TV, etc.

21 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-08 06:18 ID:VJ744lXT

uhg, I'm with you there #20. Trying to relate to any girl is hard for me. This one I've chatted up seemed to be the right one, both were kinda smart, very sarcastic and easy going, but she's still fucking her EX! and I really don't feel like having sloppy seconds.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-08 06:26 ID:F4hJclJH

Isn't it only sloppy seconds if you're literally seconds after the other guy? :P In any case, you can use >>20 to refer to #20, it makes it easier; you can click on their number in the thread to bring it into the textbox~

>>17, you sound just like a friend of mine.

I'm not interested in having a relationship with a highschool girl, usually; they are just too immature, and in them I see some of the major faults of women-kind. However, having sex with one of them, would surely be ideal! You only get this chance legally for a small period of your lifetime /(;-_-)

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-08 16:18 ID:Heaven

I imagine that having sex without having a relationship is rather like eating sugar by the spoonful. It may superficially please you, but there's no flavor and you won't feel nourished afterwards.

24 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-08 18:30 ID:UQM3zJDt

And that's exactly why we're all here...

25 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-08 18:32 ID:UQM3zJDt

Yeah, trust me, if I had a chance to have sex with a high school girl, I'd do it. Only problem being, they won't give me the fucking time of day.

26 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-08 23:42 ID:VJ744lXT

I have a friend who always bugs me and asks when I'm going to college already, because apparently there I'll get laid like a champ.

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-09 00:44 ID:rSYE4ewt


College was just three straight years of blue balls for me. Rumours of college girl promiscuity are greatly overrated.

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-09 00:51 ID:Vl4LDPTX

nothings certain, cant definitely rely that youll POSITIVELY ABSOLUTELY get cant say that about anything, it all depends on you....

29 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-11 00:03 ID:rSYE4ewt

Maybe it's time for enjo-kosai to become popular outside of Japan.

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-14 03:29 ID:P7BkBRuE

Reporting for duty, sir.
Twenty-one years of nothing.

I look too young for my age (My appearance seem 16-ish), so girls my age don't take me seriously.
Any girl that has been interested in me (or vice versa) was already in a relationship.
I don't get out much, and since I don't really have RL friends after moving, I'm pretty much SOL. (´・ω・`)

31 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-14 19:16 ID:1cY1s+Ve

18, no prior experience with girls romantically at all, much less sex. and >>30, I feel your pain, cos I'm babyfaced too. I probably could pass off as 15.

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-14 19:50 ID:W7oXeuYH

Yeah, I most definitely belong in this thread. About four or so months ago, I met this completely awesome girl, you know, the kind of chick you love to talk to, love to be around, and most definitely love to get close to?

Yeah, so she's already had a boyfriend, even when I first met her... actually, then she was also cheating on her boyfriend, but I didn't really think any less of her for it. I figure that's all because I thought that if she just went ahead on cheated on both of them with me I certainly wouldn't mind at all.

She told me all of her troubles when we hung out, and I tried to give her the best advice a semi-rational, straightforward-ish and pretty much totally in love guy could give without completely betraying her or anything. She tended to say 'I love you' to me a lot, though, so pretty soon I started replying to it instead of just being completely confused. She'd also started saying that she wished she could've met me before she met these other two guys, that I'd be so much more fun to be with, etc, etc... she even kissed me at one point. That's pretty much the best moment of my life, right there.

She broke things off with the other guy, told her boyfriend and everything. I was kinda shocked that she did that all of a sudden and all, but they ended up sticking together and I was at least glad she'd made the right choice and all. But still, damn, she kept saying 'I love you', kept wishing out loud that she could just go out with me and all that... pretty soon I was wishing out loud that she'd go out with me, too. I didn't wanna force her into anything, though, so I still tried to keep a little distance.

Recently, I stayed over at her place, woke up too damn early, and suddenly ended up really depressed for no damn reason at all. While we tried to figure out why the hell I was so down, she mentioned that she'd decided to stay with her boyfriend forever and ever, and that made me feel worse for some reason. Maybe because three or four days before she'd said to a friend of mine that she most definitely wanted out of her relationship?

So yeah, 'sup 4-ch, I'm anonymous and I'm stupid in love with a girl I'll probably never ever be with. I figure you guys would have some horribly perceptive things to say, or at least some mean and/or funny things to say, since both the girl in question and my best friend have no idea how to handle this, or even what's going on in my mind. But... I'd rather they not get that last part, it's annoying as shit to decipher all that.

33 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-14 19:53 ID:iAWc30YC


Girl needs to get her head straight.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-14 20:06 ID:Heaven

>>32 It's cool that you like her, but from what you're saying this girl is nothing but trouble. If she's going from wanting out of her relationship to wanting to stay in it forever, she's probably not someone you want to be in a relationship with -- I can smell the potential drama.

Girls are probably going to attack me for saying this, but you should probably distance yourself from her for a while. Not because boo hoo she won't date me so I won't be her friend, but because her saying "I love you" (I dunno about this girl but some girls will say that to anyone) and being so open with you is, correct me if I'm wrong, making you feel like it's more than "friendship"? (´・ω・`) And it's likely that even though she's decided to "stay with her boyfriend forever", which it she'll probably change her mind about in a week from what I've heard, you'll still be hoping she'll come to you if you stay this close to her. Even if you WANT to just be her "best friend", it's simply not as easy as deciding to not have or ignore those deeper feelings. Usually it takes a really long time for them to go away.

Just take some time off from her, chillax, do some stuff to take your mind off her for AT LEAST a week.

Also, you should probably tell her how indecisive and confusing she's being. Though that would probably be a really hard thing for you to do.

35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-14 21:21 ID:W7oXeuYH

Hmm... My problem is that even if I find a girl that I like. I usually get to overthinking about what possible negatives could come out of the situation, of trying to talk to her... I have some friends who are girls but then im always affraid to try to move anything beyond the friendship stage and possibly make things uncomfrotable between us.

I always try to "live life without regrets" or some other noble example of the same idea. However this part with females is somehow entirely different somehow and i cant seem to take that same mentality toward women that i like, and might possibly want to be more serious with.

I can't really say i want sex out of a relationship. I seek companionship more, but maybe that is another drawback considering im in my early 20's.

I guess there isnt much of a question more than a telling of my own stupidity, but suggestions to help me to talk to various girls or good places to go to talk to them... Sure im going to college but that doesnt seem like a very good place to talk to girls considering my college is mostly a "commuter" college".

and i lament.

36 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-15 05:29 ID:zfAY3qgu

Well, I tried to work on the monotone thing...can't do it. So, I'm pretty much stuck with a monotone voice and I'll continue to tell old ladies to fuck off. That's why I'm now a hikikomori. Yup, never leaving my house again. Fucking outside world...

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-15 08:55 ID:2wrD6V5/


You might want to do something about that, I have a friend who is not very social and has a monotone voice, but he gets around well enough.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-16 01:11 ID:rSYE4ewt


You might clean up when you're older. Man, you will have the pick of all the high school girls. :-)

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-17 04:39 ID:pIrN+Xyo

Your problem is that you think. Don't think, just do. One thing I have learned is that girls will foul up any well laid plan to ask them out, because they are magical like that. So right before you are going to ask out a girl, stop thinking, forget everything you know except for what you like about her, and go for the "kill"

40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-17 23:11 ID:zjm6/c0Q

The first few times I got laid, it was pretty bad.

Only the first awesome time really counts, IMHO.

41 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-18 05:02 ID:Heaven

I second that motion orz I still feel like a virgin myself.

42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-18 06:07 ID:qzh5U7rU

Though had I been more sociable in high school I probably could have gotten laid (oh how stupid I've been, so many opportunities lost) I wouldn't have hesitated. But nowadays, still a virgin at 20, I don't want sex as much as I want a relationship. And I've kinda concluded that I'll save myself for marriage. Sadly, I have lots of girl "friends" but never in my life a true "girl friend". All are taken..and school gets in the way. I know this borders on singles rant but its on topic.

43 Name: Loveless : 2006-01-27 18:23 ID:WQh5pJsT

21 years and counting. I've never had a real relationship and don't want to jump into bed with just anybody. Not that I've had that many chances to do that - I've had to turn a girl down only once. It was because even though she was pretty, her personality wasn't the type I can see myself involved with for a long time. Currently I'm not even seriously looking for anyone, but if the right girl happens to walk into my life, who knows what might happen. Until then I have Miss Right. Oh, and her twin sister Left.

44 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-27 20:33 ID:apoYye08

Hay guyz virgins are lovely and romantic.

Anyway, 26 years and counting and I'm in the same boat as >>43. Let's have sex, >>43.

45 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-28 03:26 ID:GHadbseM

so what do you guys consider a virgin? How far do into it do you draw the line and still be considered a virgin?

46 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-28 06:10 ID:apoYye08

47 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-28 10:58 ID:utMASaHJ

Virgin is a guy/girl who did not had a proper sex. Petting is not a real sex. Anyway, I was a virgin till I was 19 and in my opinion it was way too long. I did not became less romantic after that...

48 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-29 00:48 ID:GHadbseM

well as long as blowjobs aren't considered real sex i'm still a virgin

49 Name: BENOIST : 2006-01-29 01:47 ID:KYE1Sil2

I'm a complete virgin. No BJ's, no petting, hell, not even a kiss on the lips.

50 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-29 03:16 ID:GHadbseM

I'll love you :P

51 Name: Tac-Tics : 2006-01-29 08:03 ID:hfLECPws

Does having sex with only one girl, but her being a total bitch who totally used you count?

There's nothing shameful in being a virgin. Just make sure when the time comes (heh, comes), your "bark" (how much you profess to know about sex) is indeed as bad as your "bite" (your sexual abilities)

52 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-01-29 08:51 ID:yIGvX/PJ

>>47, that was obvious. >>45 basically asked where you draw the line between petting and sex.

>>51... I think know what you mean. Not about the woman being a total bitch, but only being with one girl ever. I have only been with one girl ever (although many times ;-)) so I feel about as inexperienced as I did while I was a virgin. So I don't see a point in making the distinction, really.

53 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-02 09:33 ID:w6FS08X4

19 years and ongoing. Was more interested in a relationship, but apparently other people weren't. College is more of the same. Not interested in getting hammered and having sex with a last resort sorority girl.

I'm also hideous. I'm the only person who will touch me.

54 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-02 10:53 ID:rf4tHioN

well im a virgin in a way, i had my heart broken years ago and i stop trying to get into relationship, i just go around sampling "escort" from different races.

long story short i fuck lotsa hooker but never been kissed

55 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-02 12:45 ID:gpQbRYff

>>54 lol you sound like a loser. Can't do anything about it if you don't even try... You can either find the love of your life or be a miserable shit... If you'll choose the 2nd option you may as well kill yourself now. I hate people that give up easly.

56 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-02 14:18 ID:DcCoFp4E

love of your life or miserable shit
is a false dichotomy

57 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-02 19:12 ID:2AWcqqe3


right there with ya, but add to that a double major and family problems that drag me off for hours on end any day of the week and i'm in a worse boat than you. =^_^=

58 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-03 05:45 ID:GFSDDCOi


Bumped for truth.

59 Name: BENOIST : 2006-02-04 20:09 ID:RskkdGEK

-sigh- I'm depressed now. I think I'll just smoke a hookah and go to bed...

60 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-05 15:16 ID:titd8VCA

The only reason I'm still a virgin is because there are no women good enough for me. I am an Elitist. I like Heckler and Koch firearms, Audi and Porsche automobiles, and high end science and mathematics. To me, settling for less is not an option. Plus to all the gentlemen here, do not worry. There are no expiration dates on men. It is the WOMEN who need to worry. It is entirely possibly that the women you will "love" may not have even been born yet and you have another 18 years to go. There are more women in the world than men, so I shouldn't worry were I you.

Besides, if all you wish is recreational sex, wait until you have excellent jobs and can write your own check. Women like security.

Besides, everyone puts too much importance on virginity and the lack thereof. There are more important things in the world to worry about.

Because what if the ONE girl you "lost your virginity to" had a venereal disease? Or you got her pregnant? Hmm? Do you really want a child with a girl you probably didn't even really like, much less love, in the long run? Condoms and contraceptives aren't always effective.

My advice, live your life, do your own thing. If you happen upon a rose, smell it. If you happen upon a clear spring, drink. If you see a day of sunshine, bask and delight. Don't worry about these skewed, "modernized" social mores and qualms about recreational sex. It will always be there and as a male, it is ALWAYS to your advantage. Men don't have menopause.

61 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-06 08:37 ID:zAWXPLp9


Indeed. From my experience I can say that having a lover is not so necessary as having a companion. I got a dog a few months after a huge break up, and although I was well over it by then, I don't think I could have fully forgotten about it without this companion of mine.

62 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-06 11:53 ID:Heaven

>>may not have even been born yet and you have another 12 years to go

Good post >>60!
I'm going back to DQN...

63 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-07 02:41 ID:rSYE4ewt

16 years is enough, IMO.

64 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-08 16:57 ID:Heaven

Twenty year old virgin!
I live alone (no parents around), am good looking, have girlfriend (officially of five months/unofficially of about eight), etc etc etc. I guess, though, it seems that I just don't care enough. I love the girl I am with so much but no sex has happened and I don't mind at all. I'd much rather spend quality time with people than bother with sex. People always seem to find this idea rather strange..

And of course, before having a girlfriend.. a mixture of shyness and just not wanting to go to parties or anywhere where I would meet any new people.

Perhaps a bit asexual?

65 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-09 11:22 ID:5ky5mWTV

i wish i was a virgin... does that count? im quite embarrased to admit to being desperate enough to date and sleep with my 2 exs. i hate it when my friends bring it up, especially around girls. it makes me feel so pathetic and dirty...

seriously guys, you dont have to wait for marrage, but at least wait for someone who means something to you

66 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-09 18:54 ID:pOA/2sii

I don't think that's abnormal at all! It's great that you're in a fulfilling relationship, and sex will come in time. My boyfriend and I waited practically two years before moving to the next step, and I never felt like we were intentionally holding things back. You've just got to move at your own pace -- connecting at a physical level can be extremely important in a relationship, but not as much as meeting on a personal and emotional level.

67 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-10 08:27 ID:MEtt65Vk

Yeah because inserting a digit into another person's orifice is really important in the broad scheme of things.

If I was a girl, I wouldn't have sex with a man either. And no I wouldn't "lez out". Think about it, some GUY is sticking something into your body that could possibly impregnate you with a parasitic life form that will one day grow large enough to require PAINFUL extrication from aforementioned orifice. Then you gotta feed it, bathe it, clothe it and listen to it scream. THEN it gets older and you still do those things only know it is INTENTIONALLY ungrateful...then fast forward a couple more years and he is now wrecking your car, getting locked up for stupid shit, AND wants to repeat the same damned mistake you made several years ago....

DNA is a virus ladies and gentleman...a communicable disease. Try your best not to spread it.

Not trying to troll or anything, but really whining because you haven't done the deed....go read a book.

68 Name: akomu : 2006-02-11 00:05 ID:XzPDLUv+

I think I am worrying too much about being alone.
But I feel that I would like too have a personal friendship with a girl, but I feel that I make girls unsecure sometimes.
I also really want an intimate sexual relationship with a girl, but sometimes after I orgasm. I feel no need of having a intimate relationship, since I have pr0n. But I realize that's foolish, because I'm just consoleing myself with pr0n.
I feel like a fool for being desperate to have an intimate relationship. But fact is that I really never had a female friend or other kind of relationship with women, except my mother of course.
Yes I know you see me as an immature person. I will let you think such of me.
But I'm not really whining about it. I just feel depressed, and should probably contact a therapist.
But I just feel an urge to have some intimacy.
And it grows stronger the more I think about it.
And I don't know how to come in contact with girls, who have the similar urge.
Any suggestions?

btw I'm 20 y.o. and male.

69 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 20:34 ID:2WARsQGO

What's virginty?
A very good page that I actually have to agree with.

I lost my virginity mentally years and years before I ever had sex, so physically "losing my virginity" really didn't feel special at all, since it was pretty much exactly what i knew it would be like. A year later though, the first time with second boyfriend, that felt so very special, and he pretty much had me "blushing like a virgin". :-p

Don't worry about not wanting to rush into sex. Do whatever feels natural to you. You're you, just because you're not like a horny nympho on fire doesn't mean your pace is wrong.

70 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 19:46 ID:E8C+9ivX

is it normal to be 17 years old and never have had a kiss? tell me, my anonymous friends...

71 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 20:44 ID:TxFXgzMU


I had my first kiss when I was 17, share with someone you actually care for. It might not be as dramatic as losing your virginity, but all the same, it's who you share the kiss with yanno :) It's great to think back fondly at first anythings.

And in short, no, there's nothing wrong with that.

72 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 17:39 ID:eKRXEAfb

My first kiss was at age 21.7

73 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 18:27 ID:Heaven

I had my first kiss at 18, almost 19. I then got a girlfriend and we had a superb sexlife and all of a sudden tons of girls started liking me, so there's hope for you too.

74 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-07 03:50 ID:L107hGgw

my first kiss was with a guy, ugh, it was at a party, some stupid ass game, ewww ugh, why?!?!!?!?! i really really wouldve wished it to be with a girl. if its on the cheek, does it count?

75 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-07 06:19 ID:dphA43qL

i feel bad for you (a guy?)so im going to say it didnt count

76 Name: Not A Secret Admirer : 2006-03-07 08:16 ID:Heaven

Sex is overrated. Children are the poor man's way of reaching "immortality" through passing on his genes, the basis for the carnal sex drive. Others can settle for swapping fluids with other pedestrian humans, give me a weapon to carve my name as a scar in the Earth.

77 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-07 17:09 ID:Heaven


No need to be bitter and jealous that no woman would ever want to have children with you.

78 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-08 00:17 ID:Heaven

Children are overrated anyway. The world has more than enough population as it is. I'm with 76, give me a weapon and we'll solve two problems at once.

79 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-08 07:19 ID:TgYm1SP7

Ah, yes! A thread that appreciates ( or is depreciate ) the value of virginity. Interesting, indeeds. Well, I'm a bit over 27 years of age, and am still a virgin, physically. Mentally, I can be one of the most perverted people here ( currently at work, waiting on work ), but only when in a conversation and when there's a door that was left open by someone else. Fun to get those jabs in, I'll tell you.

Let's see, the reason why I stayed a virgin for this long ( and most likely until my physical form drops dead from age, breathing its last breath ), was really not because virginity is a "virtue". Virginity can easily be quite the opposite. Instead of using the ideal as a way to "save oneself for another", it can be easily turned into "save oneself to die slowly"... of course, add in a dash of "haven't dated at all" or more can make the dish so more deserving to be served cold.

I don't want to stake a claim in this existence, like #76; rather, I would rather be lost in a faceless crowd. I would rather just slowly ebb out of this mortal plane, than to leave a mark that stays for eternity. No children, no wife, no blood line; just end it here and now. Yeah, emo indeed, but that's the way I had rebuilt myself mentally, over all these years ( started when I was 5 ).

I know this had basically turned into a "poor me" kinda post ( never intend it to be turned that way, just a bit of explanation ), but the fact of the matter is, virignity is not always something to be striving for, especially if you turn it against yourself. Just see within yourself, and find out whether virginity is a blessing or a curse.

80 Name: BENOIST : 2006-03-09 01:06 ID:k2OUtbzH

It's a curse...especially when watching porn...OW! My balls!

81 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 02:04 ID:pIrN+Xyo

virginity can be a blessing if you consider VD a curse

82 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 04:57 ID:umBvuNSV

I am 17 and still a virgin...I am starting to become very embarassed by it. I decided that if I do not lose my virginity by the time I turn 18 then I will just wait until marriage. It is just a matter of finding the right moment and the right man.

It is not that I am desperate for sex, I just feel that what I have to offer to a man will be no good if things do not start to hurry along.

83 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 06:45 ID:GHadbseM


if you're a girl, you should know being a virgin is hawt. definatly no rush. guys like virgins

84 Name: Not A Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 11:03 ID:Heaven

Eh, don't feel too sorry for yourself. When the moment comes for you to die, whenever it may happen, you'll realize that like anything else you've done, any kids you had, any sex you had, or didn't have; your experiences leave this world with you. If you care about making the world a better place, even if it's just for those around you, then devote your life to that and die in peace. If you care about the fleeting pleasures of the world, pursue those; live fast, die young. If you're just waiting to die, then you might as well take it easy and relax; it'll happen eventually.

The road I've chosen probably seems unattainable, even ridiculous to many. Perhaps that's why people like #77 think it's just an excuse to cover up bitterness or jealousy. The fact is, I simply can't accept a lesser fate. What makes me bitter is the thought of living a mundane, average life, dying at a ripe old age, and being remembered for a short while before the only record of my existence standing out as opposed to anyone else's is some DNA floating around in a few other people and a gravestone that reads, "He Was a Good Man", just like thousands of other stones in the cemeteries. I'll admit, there's a good chance that I'll fail; for every Mother Teresa and Osama bin Laden out there there are hundreds of thousands of community volunteers and two-bit crooks out there whom most will never care about and no one will remember eventually. I don't even have the whole plan together yet; right now I'm just focusing on building resources and intelligence so that, when I figure out just what I'm going to do, I'll have the chance to do it. But then, what is life if not to follow your dreams?

To the rest of you virgins I say, don't worry about it; assuming you're somewhat close to my age (and I would wager that 90% of those here are), you've got plenty of time that, if you decide it's going to be one of your life's goals, you can work towards molding yourself into some kind of attractive sex fiend (or at least make enough money to hire plenty of prostitutes, heh). Or, better yet, you could search for one person in the billion or so people of the gender(s) of your preference that you could put up with for the rest of your life. Or two or three, whatever. If you ask me though, there are more important things in this world to strive for. People who stress over it, who think virgins are losers or failures be it themselves or others; buy into the lie if you wish. I'll take the rough, less-travelled road.

85 Name: Secret Admirer !iIqeepKh9g : 2006-03-10 04:12 ID:FQK75XCg

Funny thing is, my virginity is just a consequence of what I have done, not a cause. I know for a fact I will never leave an impact, that my existence had somehow blessed someone else. It is not sorrow that I feel towards myself, it's disgust. And while I await for the end of me to come, so will my life be filled with bitterness and anger and pain. My choice, so the only lamentation I have is that part of my that's more human than the rest... the part that looks for "the one", that hopes for the best. The rest of me just brutally smothers it... although, every once in a while, it fights back.

Blueballing is not virginity as a blessing or a curse, it's a consequence, a side effect. The curse of virginity is using the ideal, the morality, of virginity itself against oneself, to condemn one's life because of it. Even though #84 had used it in different context, "take it easy and relax."

Remember, though, this is just my opinion over this subject.

86 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-10 11:29 ID:Heaven


87 Name: Secret Admirer !iIqeepKh9g : 2006-03-11 04:20 ID:PkivSVu+

>>86 Kinda, but less Linkin Park, and more of this:

Pull me out of body don't want it don't want in,
Feeble frail and rotting descending I'm lost in,
A structure that's collapsing don't want it cast into,
Maker take the body don't want it wants me.

88 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-11 12:18 ID:zQm+qXDA

yay mudvayne
saw them live a mont or so ago too... fucking awesome

89 Name: Trance : 2006-03-12 06:10 ID:941moILn

I'm a virgin, but then again, I'm 15, so it's illegal for me to have sex. >_>

However, I plan to stay a virgin until I'm married.

I do NOT want some little baby running around my house. >_<

90 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-12 07:24 ID:J6jHtOxy

its not illegal for you to have sex, you can have sex as long as the person isnt over the age of consent.

91 Name: Knick Knack : 2006-03-25 04:25 ID:Vhd4ltfp

17 and, technically-speaking, still a virgin. I prefer to keep it that way until whenever I feel truly ready.

92 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-25 14:05 ID:tdYWKnu7

16 and obviousely stil a virgin xD! havn't thought of when to have sex lol! properly stay til get married xD

93 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-25 17:31 ID:Heaven

I feel sorry for anyone who's virginity has become a "cause" rather than a "consequence" in their life. tl;dr, but I thought I'd express some sentiment along the lines of "GJ"

94 Name: kitty-ko : 2006-03-26 07:22 ID:Y40QAg2/

17, female, and anti-virgin. Seriously, though, I don't see the big deal about getting laid. That's what masturbation's for. Gawd. (...And escorts?)

95 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-26 14:31 ID:Heaven

Well, a lot of people want to get laid for all the wrong reasons.
Like trying to decide their selfworth based on how many chicks/guys they can score. Using others as masturbation tools is wrong too, unless the sex-partner is aware of and agreeing to interaction on those terms.

Why virginity is a big deal:
"Magical cups, bloody brides - virginity in context"
"20 Questions About Virginity"

and wiki is always shiny:

96 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-26 14:57 ID:Qhz339zU

Hmm I don't really see the big deal in being a virgin or not seriously I rather wait till I find the right person before losting my virginity that loosing it to some random freak town the street.

97 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-27 12:54 ID:dmTx3tol

I've lost my virginity long time ago and never really thought about it as it was something special... Something that I could miss...

98 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-29 20:14 ID:FKfHbxuj

I'm as virgin as one can be. 24 y/o male, never even kissed someone. I stopped caring a few years ago, although it bothers me a bit that I will probably die alone. :/
My contribution to the world will be of work, not of kids, it seems.

99 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-30 04:53 ID:ZoZIbB11

i think that as long as you dont just "throw it away"(for lack of a better term), then its fine. i mean, as long as you love the person

100 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-30 13:30 ID:Heaven

I claim 100GET in the name of virgins worldwide


101 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 15:28 ID:2tJB9pQw


> shiny


102 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 21:50 ID:qLS7ebkj

it's like saying
well, a lot of people want to eat for all the wrong reasons.
well, a lot of people want to go to school for all the wrong reasons.
well, a lot of people want to do 4ch for all the wrong reasons.

people have different reasons.
and that's why this world is fun. so i appreciate some people say
"a lot of people want to get laid for all the wrong reasons."

103 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 23:03 ID:Heaven

a lot of people appreciate people who want to do stuff for the wrong reasons for the wrong reasons?

104 Name: lost it : 2006-03-31 23:08 ID:Ey93Rr2C

I'm 24, and just lost my virginity last month. Totally great, but complicates relationships immensely.

105 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-01 21:21 ID:eND5fzu0

By wrong reasons, I meant harmful reasons when it comes to the bigger picture.
If you by your actions efficiently backstab that person (and/or yourself?) then you're having sex for the wrong reason.

106 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-02 20:20 ID:qLS7ebkj

i just meant
it'be extremely boring if everyone has the same moral value and ethics

first time you drive a car
first time you take sat
first time you go to a hairdresser
first time you wear tux
first time you get your own pc
first time you sleep on the king size bed
first time you drink
first time you have sex

any "first time" can be special and exclusive experience
and this is somehow religeous

it's interesting to see some geek who think having his own pc is the most religeous thing. usually we wouldn't get mad at them, i think.

107 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-03 10:45 ID:Heaven

If you backstab yourself you're doing it wrong.

108 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-13 01:17 ID:khwO62z+

Thank the motherfucking lArd!

I thought I was the most pitiful person on this board.

109 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-13 05:34 ID:dXrP1PmU

almost a quarter of a century old and still single for the entire time and STILL a virgin but I don't find it being problematic in any way.

110 Name: the spi : 2006-04-28 07:06 ID:g7ECfGy3

two decades of sex prohabition. Hoping a bill gets passed but I doubt my congress can pass it.

111 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-28 11:29 ID:C8S1dQ+j

22, virgin, and dont really give a damn about the word either way.
if it somehow gave me more money or power, maybe i'd consider it.

112 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-29 15:38 ID:Heaven

18 virgin
I don't think I could visit a prostitute. Maybe, but it's unlikely.

113 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-08 21:37 ID:1TIhAEZr

Age = years without a girlfriend

i'm 18 ...

114 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-09 01:52 ID:HTCEgg4o

I'm 15, I have a girlfriend, and I think we're gonna wait until we're 18.

115 Name: アニメお宅 : 2006-07-09 02:58 ID:u2FYuN7w

i'm 21 few days ago
i often got girlfriend, but for me, sex is somehow sacred, so i wanna wait till i get married ^_^
but a bit petting is, well, >:)

116 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 00:57 ID:B7x02z4V

117 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 09:12 ID:kSPmNSF6

23.45 years, still virgin.
Had a girlfriend for 10 months. Didn't have sex. The chance was given, but I was afraid to step forward. Had only one "real" chance, but at the last moment the girl said that she isn't ready for it yet.
I'm interested in sex, I just don't have luck with girls and I lack in self-confidence too.

But, I'm dating a girl. We're not in love but I may lose it with her. She's younger than me, but have much more experience.

118 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 10:13 ID:kSPmNSF6


> I always try to "live life without regrets" or some other noble example of the same idea.

Yes, I know this. I'm pretty much the same. I'm indecisive and I tend to avoid situations that bear some risks. And because of this I can't easily talk to girls. I always look stiff and cautious.

> I don't want sex as much as I want a relationship

Me too. I want a real love relationship much more than I want sex. Sure they belong together, but I think sex without love is worse than love without sex (I've experienced the latter but not the former...)

> I also really want an intimate sexual relationship with a girl, but sometimes after I orgasm. I feel no need of having a intimate relationship, since
> I have pr0n. But I realize that's foolish, because I'm just consoleing myself with pr0n.

I's the same with me

119 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 10:42 ID:kSPmNSF6

I'ts perfectly normal. I had my first kiss at the age of 18. It was with my second-cousin... she was my "kissing teacher" :P

120 Name: 28 : 2006-07-10 10:48 ID:1TIhAEZr

didn't you think it weird to have your first kiss with somebody of your own family...?

121 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 11:12 ID:kSPmNSF6

Maybe it's weird, but she's not a very close relative and of course, we didn't have sex.
Anyway I never had a girlfriend before, I only dated a few girls but always got turned down. Then she came to a visit for 2 months and I found her very attractive (she was 16 back then, cute red hair girl). She used to sleep in my room and I slept in the living rm.
One night we were in my room, listening to some music and talking. Then I started to fondle her hair and hands after a few minutes she grabbed my head and kissed me, so it was HER who started it, and I just went with the flow. Anyway I have no regrets, she taught me how to kiss and I had more confidence afterwards.

122 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-10 19:26 ID:EJzgTcVp

im 27 virgin guys but dont tell me i know for society standars im a loser and for that i must die now

but its not my fault

123 Name: 電気男 : 2006-07-11 05:58 ID:qzh5U7rU

Me and my current (and very first) girlfriend both believe in saving sex for marriage, but whether she is the one I will wed is to be determined. She is so damn fine though, its tough to control myself but I've managed thus far....

124 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-11 06:08 ID:J6jHtOxy

You could drink alot, that should surpress the urges, if not you still have your hands.

125 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-11 08:49 ID:1TIhAEZr


Don't you know that society standars are shit !

126 Name: Otaku Hikki : 2006-07-15 02:44 ID:IUIqH30E

I have a lot say about myself, but I'm 25 and about to turn 26. I'm still a virgin. I never kissed a girl nor have anything to do with them. I never had female friends in my life, not even friends of the same sex, if you don't count childhood friends as ones, but they are gone. Never personally chatted with a girl. The only contact I have is my mother and sister, but they left. You people should be grateful that you have a friend, I have none, to even have a female friend, is a blessing.

127 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-15 02:47 ID:dgGQU/lM

18 year old male

first kiss 15 with a 14 year old girl
first err what you call 2nd base(touching and stuff) 16
then studying 17-18

and now 18 waiting to get into university still a virgin

128 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-15 05:47 ID:pLJdvZBS

I am 23 and a hardcore gamer and anime fan D:
I spend most of my money, time, and life playing games and watching anime or going to conventions besides going to class and when I am in class, I usually keep to myself.
Being a virgin and being stuck in a town where the majority of the women do not find me very attractive or appealing and I cannot have sex just for the sake of having sex, nor do I want to have sex for the sake of having sex or even have sex with a drunk girl that cannot make a decision for herself.

That is my story.

129 Name: WarezKing : 2006-07-15 12:48 ID:a4/yv4uL

I want a girl like me who likes to stay @home watching anime and movies and playing games and knows stuff about computers & science fiction...

130 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-15 13:16 ID:pLJdvZBS


Any girl who likes to stay at home watching anime, movies, and game will be in the same situation as you are currently in.

If you stay at home, you won't meet anyone new! Internet does not count.

131 Name: WarezKing : 2006-07-15 14:43 ID:+pPzCQhJ

Why must it be like this?? If a girl like that existed I should have already met her on the net. I only met a GUY instead who was like me and we had those nice night conversations which I should have had with a girl. Fuck man, fuck it all!!!!! I think I'm gonna cut my penis off now and feed it to the cat. Fuck.

132 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-15 15:28 ID:pLJdvZBS

>> 131

1: It's easier to communicate with someone of the same gender like that because we feel more comfortable and confident. There is nothing pressuring behind to take it further.

2: There are more males that enjoys that sort of "watching anime, movies, and gaming" then females on the internet.

133 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-16 01:45 ID:Heaven

3: There are no females on the internet.

134 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-16 18:38 ID:LSwwDxCv

uguu... :(

135 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-17 17:39 ID:I6FO3KC/


Wow, don't be so mad that you haven't got laid yet, you fucking virgin.

136 Name: Animegirl aka Prototype Angel : 2006-07-17 18:09 ID:E9xbFWe7

21 and still a virgin. Never had a boyfriend in my life or even kissed a guy. It seem that I can only have boys as a friend but never had any feelings for them. I guess I'm afraid of commitmend or that every guys I've meet they are only interested on being my friend. I just don't know if they are interested in me or not. I'm not pretty nor ugly. Is there something wrong with me?

137 Name: The Prof : 2006-07-17 18:50 ID:ncbpqLjd

You're probably the "good friend" type of girl, that guys like to hang out with but nothing serious.
I have a friend like this. She always plays cool and she's a good friend but she's friendly with all guys and I think nobody can have REAL chances at her.
So, if you want to break the circle, just "choose a guy" and show him that you like him. He'll probably respond and the rest is up to you two. :)

138 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-17 20:34 ID:UjrA9F0v

sigh...19, virgin. I live in an area where the colleges are filled with nothing but uptight fat weeaboo chicks and anorexic emo bitches. I might have had a couple of chances in High School (I had money, but I look like a fat slob) but I don't like high school girls because they're all a bunch of money-grubbing whores. I really like older women (25 & up) but they don't take me seriously because I'm "just a stupid kid". I'm seriously thinking about ditching college, scraping together all my savings, and going to Amsterdam just to lose my virginity. Am I really as pathetic a loser that my friends and peers make me out to be?

139 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-17 22:01 ID:2XSruWod

I just recently started cumming on my girlfriend's face. Its pretty damned fun! She asks me how to make it better too, and watches porn to pick up techniques. God damn im lucky. I was a virgin until i was almost 18 years old. So, the moral is ITS GOING TO PICK UP! Don't worry about it.

140 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-18 12:36 ID:vmQec8bP

Going to Amsterdam's red light district to lose your virginity? Yes, you're pathetic... You just CAN'T be this desperate man!
Wait util you find a girl who you trust or even love. Don't lose your virginity just to brag about it to your friends. And if you really can't hold it back, there's your right hand...
I'm 23, still virgin and I don't care that my friends aren't.

141 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-18 20:02 ID:Heaven


You're just going to make the people older than 18 feel worse, asshat.

142 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-18 22:38 ID:p3AAMutq

going all the way to amsterdam is stupid. there are hookers in your town too!

143 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-18 22:53 ID:o2qKtKuR

Yes, lot lizards. The foulest, skankiest hoes to prowl the parking lot.

144 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-18 22:56 ID:o2qKtKuR

I'm not seeking a so-called "meaningful relationship". I have no need for such things. I just want to appreciate one of the finer things in life that I have yet to experience.

145 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-19 10:32 ID:DGj4OIJ5

But it doesn't have to be with a hooker.
You should be able to pick up a "casual" girl of your age at the local disco. There are girls who only want sex and they can be yours for a night... and also you'll get it cheaper.
Btw, why don't you want a real relationship? Are you afraid of it?

146 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-19 18:54 ID:hiOEwctF

>>145's hard to explain. It's not that I'm afraid of a real relationship, per se. It's just that I'm not really interested. I'm your average intellectual (or psuedo-intellectual) who lives inside his own head. I have read about, heard about, and seen (As in, watched through a hole in the wall!) sex. Now, I just want a little taste of what it's like. I have about 20 gigs (Still growing!) worth of hentai and live-action porn sitting on my hard drive. But, my left hand can only hold me off for so long. And before anyone says "Stop looking at porn, then!!1", I want to make it very clear that I can't. I'm addicted to the feeling, but I want so much more.

If that doesn't clear up my meaning, I don't know what will.

147 Name: Animegirl aka Prototype Angel : 2006-07-19 22:48 ID:m4N3H1EZ

*sigh*...You are really a sad and pathetic loser after all. I don't have nothing else to say about.

148 Name: Animegirl aka Prototype Angel : 2006-07-20 00:02 ID:a6l/rYVj

I lolled

149 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-20 00:46 ID:+wkiMEww

I understand that some people may hold the general agreed opinion that I am, indeed, a social leper. However, I figure maybe there is someone out there that is open-minded enough to accept my story with a blind eye. But, then again...

150 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-20 06:35 ID:J6jHtOxy


If you really want to get laid join a frat, or at least go to a frat party. Drink 'til you get beer goggles, and fuck the first horny girl you see.

Btw, if you join a frat, you might lose your virginity to a goat, just warning you.

151 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-20 09:42 ID:Heaven

Are you trying to imply one can't have a loving and meaningful relationship with a goat?

152 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-20 20:11 ID:J6jHtOxy


Not the frat kind, they are all whores.

153 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-21 16:39 ID:eND5fzu0

Why are you of the opinion/under the impression that lack of sex is the same as being a loser?

I lost my virginity at the age of 20, three years ago. Not because I was "saving" myself, but because I'm not interested in randomly having sex with random anyone (I had multiple opportunities for casual sex), but having sex as a way of expressing my emotions for someone. I might as well go jack off if all I wanted was just sex, in my opinion.
Just because one might have higher standards than just wanting to shove ones cock into random human in order to not having to "feel ashamed" because of the "ZOMG I CAN'T EVEN GET A GIRL/GUY TO FUCK ME! I AM WORTHLESS WITHOUT GIRLS/GUYS" mentality so many adhere to like sheep... It doesn't mean one is a loser.

By this I am not stating that people who have one-night stands are in any way pathetic nor pitiful. If people have consensual sex on mutually agreed terms and nothing more, because they want to have sex - huzzah for them. Consensual sex is good. It's the people who have sex for the sake of not being a virgin any more that irks me.

154 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-21 17:49 ID:gainUi39


>> I might as well go jack off if all I wanted was just sex, in my opinion.

Doesn't always work that way, my friend.

155 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-22 04:47 ID:yIvbRiee


>> I can't decide if I'm gay irl or not. Most probably I am but im a good christian and I don't want to go to hell.


156 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-22 23:06 ID:p3AAMutq

>>153 wins the thread. So virginity isn't the point. the point is the prerequisite to losing it: a woman willing to help you there.

Dûh, most of us want a long term relation. thanks for stating the obvious and no thanks for bragging

157 Name: Troll : 2006-07-27 05:01 ID:AnVjXbeq

>>113, I share the same sentiments with you man.

21 here.

>>153, nice post man.

>>136, nope, there's nothing wrong with you, i'm 21, single all my life and a virgin as well. I don't mind at all, I have many girls waiting for me anyway. grins and pities self for ego You're just different, and different individuals are those who really make a mark in life. ;)

>>126, that's pretty hard man, well, try to get a friend, a girl friend (not a girlfriend). There are many girls in this world and there's a big chance that you'll be a really good friend to some of them, it's a start.

>>115, that's a really good way of putting it.

>>111, maybe i'd do the same for money and power. :D

I'm a really horny and lusty person so it's really hard to suppress my desires but then I want to give my virginity to my future wife, I don't care what other people think about that. It's one of my wedding gifts man, it just shows how I sacrificed a lot and how much I love her to wait for her and give her that.

158 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-29 06:40 ID:MhDERQxT

I choose celibacy, thanks.

159 Name: Love fiasco-guy : 2006-07-29 10:26 ID:wHIuX4ve

I just turned 18 2 days ago. I was a freakish kid when I was younger, so I didn't have much social skills and contact with girls. Then I kinda changed with age, but still failed 2 times to get a hardon with a hooker my friends bought me because I was too nervous and drunk. Almost got my lucky day when I was on a vacation in Spain, but oh woe is me, she was a rape victim and wasn't very fond of this idea. That's ok, I guess. I still get nervous with girls a bit. Not nervous as in "can't speak with them", but nervous as in "can't move conversation and her thoughts in "that" direction".

160 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-31 01:33 ID:itR8XRsN

31 and virgin. I've had 3 opportunities and refused them all. I'm waiting for marriage, otherwise it's probably overrated anyway.

161 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-31 09:08 ID:Heaven

good luck with that

162 Name: Troll!!6MhJ5+eg : 2006-07-31 23:13 ID:AnVjXbeq

I got a 34 year old roommate 3 years ago that's a virgin, I wonder what happened to him... He wasn't gay or anything, he's interested in girls too, I think his only mistake is that he's too much of a nice guy and sticks too much in his principles, he's also shy I guess... But now and then I see his profile in friendster hoping that he found a girl, it must be lonely (I think), he loves his mom though and I think he's happy.

163 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-05 18:26 ID:D1OSRkpV

Sounds suspicious to me.

23, virgin, no relationships, never dated, never kissed.

Plenty of girl friends though.

...Please shoot me.

164 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-05 22:30 ID:R0FAi8mp


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165 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-06 21:46 ID:FSjaWyeK

I am totally fine being a virgin. In fact, I like it. Gives me one less thing I have in common with all the dickheads I went to school with. They can keep their sex and drugs and I will take my anime and my films that strangely tend to involve sex and drugs...

166 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-09 07:05 ID:ayzIi0qj

never been laid, never been kissed, but somehow I've gotten to grope someone. I confused

167 Name: Memedic Legacy : 2006-08-11 17:38 ID:xPMbQOK7


I think the point, here, isn't about virginity - it's about being genetically wanted. It is a drive hardwired into every human being to be seen as having good genetic qualities and passing them along. When this instinct goes unfulfilled, the subconscious actively causes mental discomfort - prompting you to find a mate.

168 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-11 22:51 ID:D1OSRkpV

This person is on to something here. I wouldn't say it's the whole picture though. We just can't tell what's hardwired into our brains anymore because of media, save for survival instincts, stuff like that.

169 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-12 23:09 ID:eND5fzu0

Hmm. You've got a point.
Thanks for reminding me about that.

I don't know about the media, but I've noticed too often that people think that they have to be with people, or preferably have a harem of people who desire them, to be worth more than some loser. Which is efficiently tossing aside a lot of very important accomplishments. "Hmm? Say what? You won the Nobel prize? But then again, I get wayy more pootang than you! Oooh, burn!"
I don't like it when people choose to focus on a single feature rather than looking at people holistically. For instance, a plain guy who gets a fuckload of chicks because he manipulates them a lot is seen as better than a nice guy (who's only had a few dates albeit tons of friends and does well), by too many people. There are too many people who never grow out of this attitude. It worries me greatly.

170 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-13 12:04 ID:D1OSRkpV

Worry not, it's not worth the time and energy. By the way, if you win a Nobel Prize, I'm sure there are plenty of intellectual women that would sleep with you on a moment's notice. Then there are actually those who remain intellectual despite your achievements.

171 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-13 23:24 ID:eND5fzu0

I wasn't talking about myself, though. I'm off the market, being engaged and all. I just waste too much time worrying about the world. A nasty old habit. And people say watching the news as a small kid won't fuck the kid up... Pfft, my ass.

172 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 00:45 ID:ncbpqLjd

I'm 23. I was on a holiday with my "girlfriend", my sister and one of my friends (who's actually interested in my sister :P)
We spent one week in the mountains, at a small but comfortable guest house, where we had separate rooms (one room for my friend and sister and one for me and my girl)...
...and yet I'm still a virgin...
The girl gave me a handjob - I was fast ;(
I was in the mood and wanted to step forward but then she noticed that her sleepwear was stained. She got mad at me and totally ruined the mood. :(
Next night I only accidentally touched her stomach with my dick and she got mad again despite it was only a small amount of pre-ejaculate... she destroyed the mood again... X(

...hell I'm gonna be asexual!

173 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 14:49 ID:D1OSRkpV

Chill, I know you weren't talking about yourself.

I doubt it matters that you were fast. It's not like you were having intercourse, but if you want to communicate to her what you want to do, use other parts of your body or speak up. Don't wave you dick in front of her face. Girls hate that.

174 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 20:33 ID:ncbpqLjd

My underpants were still on, she just grabbed my dick. And I even told her that I'm going to cum. Honestly that stain wasn't that big and it wasn't on "dangerous" place. But she put the blame on me for it.
I was trying to find her clit with my hands. I'm very inexperienced and asked her for a little help but she told me that it's my job and she cannot help me. She even never takes the initiative. When I do, she returns it but she never even give a kiss by herself, it's always me who starts it.
Communication could be better between us. Anyway this isn't love...

175 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 22:09 ID:ncbpqLjd

Oh yes, and she said one thing that really irritates me:
"If I had known that this would happen, I'd never play with it!" - just how should I interpret this sentence?

176 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-14 23:34 ID:Heaven

I lolled.

177 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-15 09:12 ID:Heaven

dump that shit, she ain't worth it man.

178 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-15 14:02 ID:T/LqqkZh


Break it off and tell her you'll consider starting the relationship up again when she can learn to deal with sex like a proper adult.

179 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-15 16:35 ID:D1OSRkpV

If she won't communicate you have no hope. Communication is necessary in a relationship, and most guys need to be "trained" how to please a woman and every woman is different, so they have to be "retrained" every time. I wouldn't break it off just yet, but you need to talk to her about this, and if she still doesn't care, then you can say goodbye.

180 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-15 23:41 ID:p3AAMutq

>>179 giddyap!

181 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-22 13:29 ID:cHZ3m7cb

I figure that after 19 years of being a virgin, I may as well wait until I am married.

182 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-22 14:24 ID:r+A0krJt


Bah. This is utter and complete bullshit, and when you get the chance, you will take it, and be better off for it.

183 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-22 15:13 ID:2uY6o2sa

18 and I don't have a problem with it, seeing as most of my friends are virgins too. Most Asian girls seem to be..

184 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-22 20:29 ID:0ThnD3ce

Virgin here, but not for lack of trying. Someone teach me tact, plz?

185 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-23 03:09 ID:cgb4p3Hw

I am a virgin... for lack of trying :(

Go go social phobia! :D

186 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-23 12:28 ID:ZJLT0bk+

20 yearold virgin here. It's awwwright.

187 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-06 08:00 ID:k9/qzu8h

23 here..

i have a strange habit of attraction to women with problems, or who are already attached, and since im not prone to move on girls i dont care about i guess ill be waiting longer.

188 Name: Seraphius : 2007-04-06 18:59 ID:2DlG5zC6


Ditto here, Exact same situation. Even age.

189 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-06 19:21 ID:AUsXx0W2

20 too. 21 after the summer. weee

190 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-07 01:32 ID:gXibaR8J

191 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-09 02:13 ID:egmdJo3M

Another virgin here. At least I'm only 17, but it's still depressing considering how many 13-year-olds are out there doing it...

My girlfriend refuses to put out or even let me do anything more than make out with her.

192 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-09 02:29 ID:Dc4AOj+X

You should respect her decision. I wish more girls like her were around. Instead, I'm stuck with alot whores that put out to every guy known to man.

193 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-09 03:59 ID:Heaven


nonsense, 17 is quite young and perfectly legit.

20, here.

If it makes you feel any better, the average age for virginity-loss in China is 22. That's like 1/4th of the world right there.

194 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-10 00:00 ID:WuM4SOYZ

I lost mine at 18. (Girl here.) I mean, it was the first time I had sexual intercourse. But I felt like I'd lost my mental virginity at 15 or 16 when I gave an ex a BJ. Or maybe even younger since I'd fooled around with a friend of mine at jesus I don't know 10?

You want to lose your virginity, everyone? Lower your standards.

195 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-10 00:23 ID:Dc4AOj+X

I want to lose it, I don't wanna lower my standards to lose it.
Which is probably why I'm waiting until marriage.

196 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-10 00:34 ID:1u2kKht+

Hi, I´m 24 and still virgin, :/

i really don´t have problems with that.

197 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-10 07:17 ID:58KyTsVS

man Im 17 and still a virgin, how i long for that pussy the only action i get every firday night are hentai video from xtube

198 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-10 13:51 ID:ICbDMdcw

19 here, also because the lack of trying, and standards set too high.

199 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-10 16:16 ID:SAjLi7oD

22. My current social situation is one that doesn't have me meeting a lot of people. My standards aren't high...but then again you can't make them appear low either. That sends off waves of desperation which make the girls run, run so far awaay~.

200 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-10 22:30 ID:0Pjfdu3I

20, virgin.

The thing is i'm so highly medicated that i've lost all sexual desire as a result. I never look at porn, or think about sex and i can't remember the last time i masturbated. I understand this is a problem as well but if i just stop taking the meds i'll get really sick, along with all the problems they prevent popping up as well.

I guess at least if i can't want it i might be a bit better off then the people who do want it but can't get it.

Also 200 get.

201 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 00:08 ID:uoQADJa5

201 is a virgin, and not proud. I'm not using the shitty excuse "I'm waiting for the right moment" because truthfully it can be any time now. It's not like i want to do it in a drunk stupor at some house party. I guess I'm not even really old yet, so I'm not in the biggest hurry. Though, I would like to experience this sex...

202 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 03:03 ID:Heaven

wow, this thread is really popular.

203 Name: lolnerds : 2007-07-11 04:36 ID:Heaven


204 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 08:16 ID:ADO4MFLj

lolz at u people! I lost my virginity when i was 16. Sex is awesome! Yay for sex! All of you go have sex!

205 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 08:59 ID:Heaven

lolz gaiafag!

206 Name: Kira : 2007-07-11 09:21 ID:EQ/1p/JV

I rather not lose my virginity when I am young thanks.
People thinks losing virginity is something like trophy but really it's pathetic.
I know sex would be great thing if your in love but if you want to brag about it, then that's just sad.
Remember people getting married and having a long relationship (then having sex and such) is better than losing virginity from a girl who will leave you right away.

207 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 10:10 ID:ADO4MFLj

what means gaiafag? anyway, nothin with fag can apply to i, (204) cos i a girl :)

its not 'people' who thinks losing virginity is a trophy or something to brag about, its mostly just idiotic males that think that.
sex is definitely best if you're in love with the person, i definitely agree with that :)
about guys waiting till they get married, hmm myself and a vast amount of other females would much rather marry a guy with at least some amount of experience. they need to know what they're doing!
waiting for marriage or a really special relationship cos u genuinely want to do that is great! but there are a lot of people who just havent had a suitable opportunity and use such things as an excuse, which is dumb.

208 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 11:03 ID:Dc4AOj+X

I'd rather a female have no experience myself. Thats mostly because I think that if neither partner has experience in sex, that sexual compatibility becomes much less of a problem.

That, and I was raised with old values. And I want to marry a virgin. If I wasn't a virgin, I wouldn't bother marrying one or hunting one, since I would believe it wouldn't be fair for a potential partner and vice versa.

I remember being younger and I had my first gf online. I was naive then. If she wasn't an online gf. I would have definately lost my virginity then. But I'm glad she was, otherwise I wouldn't have the values I do have now.

209 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 12:52 ID:hWtBx2+A

>waiting for marriage or a really special relationship cos u genuinely want to do that is great! but there are a lot of people who just havent had a suitable opportunity and use such things as an excuse, which is dumb.

Exactly how is that dumb? The way I see it, is that anyone could get sex if they really wanted to. Lower their standards, even paying for it. As far as I'm concerned, in this day and age, virginity is harder to keep than to lose. The fact that people lose it, just for the sake of losing it, is dumb.

210 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 13:17 ID:3J/dUxsL

Is it okay to be virgin with 17 <__<?

211 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 14:08 ID:virHXaI7

i don't think there's necessarily a problem with wanting to keep or lose your virginity. honestly, i think you're all making way too big a deal about it. in the long run, what does it really mean? what does it matter?

personally, i think it's better for people to have a variety of experiences with a variety of people, in order to help calm the wandering minds and "what ifs" that come with settling down.

212 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 18:30 ID:Dc4AOj+X

She's not saying waiting is dumb. She's saying using it as an excuse because you haven't had an oppurtunity for it is dumb.

What does it mean? It means alot to me. It's my conviction. If I break it, I'll always have an itch in my mind about it. It'll be annoying. What-ifs don't bother me, Since all those what-ifs could be played out with a wife by my side.

213 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 22:34 ID:Heaven

waiting is probably dumb.

214 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 03:24 ID:aAHxbnA+

IMO, it's better to get some experience so that when you meet the one you really do want to keep forever, you're not completely clueless.

215 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 03:38 ID:Dc4AOj+X

People who say that honestly drive me nuts, I'm not exactly sure why. I respect that they think that. But when they say it, they say it in just a way that makes it so condescending to people who believe otherwise.

216 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 05:27 ID:hWtBx2+A

I know what she's saying. I'm saying, so what if they use that as an excuse? In my opinion, it's just the same as people who go around proudly announcing the fact that they've lost their virginity. Quoting one of her previous posts;

>lolz at u people! I lost my virginity when i was 16. Sex is awesome! Yay for sex! All of you go have sex!

It's really not a big achievement if you consider how easy it is nowadays.

217 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 06:28 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Ah, the way you sounded, I thought you misunderstood her.

And sadly, it's way to easy to lose it.

218 Name: Yuuichi Sato : 2007-07-12 07:34 ID:p0kRPoeY

I agree. I'm a virgin so it may not exactly be my place to say that but it isn't really a big achievement.

Actually it would be a bigger achievement to lose it on your wedding night.

Not that I'm waiting for that but seriously, nowadays that's really somethin'.

219 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 08:13 ID:UcihOG1A

in my opinion it's when you're making excuses out of embarassment etc that being a virgin becomes something to laugh about.

my first post, i was just lightheardetdly typing, happily thinking of sex, and now all this lol! i should think before i type, huh? i shouldn't have lol'd, but really, come on.... after that many people confessing to being virgins on a board like this...
i hadn't intended to sound like i considered it some kind of acheivement or something, but looking at what i posted, i should really read what i write before i click reply somtimes lol

220 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 08:56 ID:AjFU+3GP

Virginity, or just sex in general, should be shared with somebody you care about.

People who wait for marriage, that's okay. People who don't, that's okay also, in my opinion.

Sex feels good and it's something special to share with somebody special. I don't feel that somebody special should be a husband/wife exclusively. Just think and be smart and protect yourselves once you're ready.

I think if people waited utnil they were really sure they could trust and talk with other people about sex, then it would be okay. People always think they'll be with their first loves forever and I know it rarely happens. Also with the divorce rate as high as it is, there's not really a sanctity of marriage to think about anymore.

That's why if you're in a relationship, make it count, and love each other.

That's all

221 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 09:11 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Yea, the divorce rate. Thats why I like to go after girls who are virgins. Because if they treasure their virginity that much and worked hard to keep it. It means to me that they will do the same to a relationship.

I really don't plan on divorce either. In this day and age, it's way to rampant too.

222 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-13 09:46 ID:JOdCTJw4


I think you'd miss out on meeting great people if you only look for virgins, though. Not all people who have lost it before marriage are sluts; and they can hold relationships as well.

If you found somebody you really cared about who wasn't a virgin, would you dump them because of that?

Too much emphasis on virginity.

223 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-13 19:54 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Maybe, maybe not. But I feel I really will regret it if I don't look for it. And I don't want it gnawing the side of my head whenever I think about it. I have enough things gnawing at me.

224 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 04:35 ID:nEnMr/Xc


I'm nearly 18, female, and i've only had one boyfriend. And he was an asshole anyway. the relationship was non-exsistant. I tried to make it work, he ignored me.

I'm all for sex. Although, I'd like to know the guy fairly well first. I've gotten rather frustrated though, no guys will even approach me. It's not like I'm not an eyesore, I've had lots of people tell me i'm pretty. I started thinking of reasons why guys haven't shown any interest in me. I can be shy at times, and I have had tons of people tell me I look like I'm 12, so perhaps I appear too 'innocent'?

225 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 07:38 ID:g48Tgnxq

maybe you should dress up abit and go to a bar or something

226 Name: 43 : 2007-07-15 07:52 ID:zSpNKdfv

22 years old.

I remember back when I was 15 my best friend implied she'd pay me to have sex with her just because at the school she transferred to she was the only virgin so she just wanted to get rid of being the odd one out. I refused...

When I was 16 I had a 4 month long relationship that kept me away from my studies and I didn't really feel anything in there. After we split up she turned into a stalker and would call me twice a day. Then she implied she would do anything to have me back. I refused...

When I was 17 I had another 4 month long relationship which was particularly awkward. I had this bimbo chick who confessed to me and I said "ok" just to make her shut up 'cause i thought she was fooling around with me but she was serious. I remember she was a year older than me 'cause she had failed and also I remember I couldn't stand her conversation which was 90% about her and 10% about the thing she liked or disliked. So instead of listening to her I'd teach her maths instead. She held my hand once and that irritated me so I told her I didn't like being touched to which she replied that she had the cure for that while she held my middle finger in a suggestive way while giving me a glance with a flirting expression on her face. I refused and said stuff that I reckon made her feel bad and lowered her self-esteem as female...(i regret saying that shit BTW)

Now that I talked to some girls I met a long ago they have said they used to like me but I seemed to be unapproachable. It seems I pretty dumb for guessing people's feelings and I also lack the skill to handle such situations. Which makes me wonder, maybe there is someone who likes me at this very moment but my ineptitude wont allow me to notice. I don't care about virginity now, but I'd like to be on a relationship. Also, I'd like to go back in time and slap myself for being an asshole at that time.

227 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 10:34 ID:Heaven

That's insane. I am in the exact fucking boat.

228 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 21:40 ID:ckqB+EJ5

Come over to my place ; )

Oh, and I must ask for the obligitory PICS. You sound cute.

229 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-17 11:07 ID:aAHxbnA+

You look 12? Where do you live? What's your phone number?

230 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-22 23:15 ID:Q1MpqE6H

I'm turning 19 in December. I'm a virgin. I'm not supposed to be one, but the one time I was supposed to have sex I came too early and it was fucking embarrasing, and she dumped me a week later.

231 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-25 16:24 ID:Heaven

19 going on 20, still a virgin.
Don't worry folks-- if losing my virginity were important to me, I'd have hired a prostitute years ago!

232 Name: Rii : 2007-07-28 19:41 ID:Jl+zzL+9

Well it really is not big deal, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years so I finally let him do it-I lost mine about 2 months ago...girls the 1st time hurts like hell and it will hurt the next few times. But it will get much better ^.^

233 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-31 02:06 ID:CwjFkEaQ

19 already, still a virgin, in no hurry. Something about learn to masturbate, come in handy.

234 Name: uemei : 2007-08-02 03:17 ID:m3102R9f

26 years old. I don't think that with 0 Exp. I can be loved for my sexual performance. I don't want to be 'trained' to do sex the way an experienced woman wants me to, but rather to learn how to with some one of my own Lv.

I've considered foreign romance, but allot of the times traditional values are accompanied by traditional gender roles, and I don't want to be with some one who is content in their life being a brood mare.

In America only 1 in 20 women maintain their virginity to adulthood, and that number declines sharply between 25, and 27, which are the average ages of 'initial' marriage in the US.

Surveys list sex, or a euphemism there of, as the number one thing people would do if the world was going to end. I'm not sure I would, because I want to REALLY be loved, and want to inspire actual sexual attraction in my hypothetical lover.

235 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-02 04:32 ID:rSYE4ewt

Good luck finding love in a pinch when the world is about to end.

On the other hand, it seems like the brothels would crowd up too so sex may not really be an option either.

236 Name: Sweet memory : 2007-08-16 11:09 ID:XGP3cC0n

well.. this year i'm 18, and i still virgin.. proud of that though i don't know exactly why ^^; maybe because of my east culture ^^ it's a little bit taboo in my country ^^

237 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-16 12:54 ID:cISWFKyl

This year 21, still virgin.

0! (=Zero) experience with girls/women. And no chance for getting one in the future.

Even to ashamed to go to a brothel or hire a prostitute :(

Well i think i will stay abstinent for the rest of my (hopefully short) life ;(.

238 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-16 13:42 ID:P4AsCPSA


Shit, man, that's not really how love works. It was more than just the damn looks. She was a really nice, likeable person, one of those people that can really understand someone. And that's not even a good picture of her. Here's a video of her for your benefit:

(hint: she's the chick in the bunny girl suit fucking up "God Knows")

And yeah, you're probably right that she's overrated, but Jesus Christ, what a mess I was when I fell in love with her. I don't really understand why I did it. But it's messing me up hard, and as hard as I try and as busy as I keep myself, I can't really get her out of my head. It's like, no matter how busy I can keep myself with 4chan, work, and video games, she always comes up in my mind to remind me that I fucked up spectacularly. It doesn't help that I'm going to the same university as her in the fall.

Right now, I just either want to get back with her again, but I know that'll never happen.

239 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-17 00:42 ID:HR+hdcdn

24, a decent amount of experience with women, but no sex. Damned 40 Old Virgin Movie comes out, jokes about my virginity increase exponentially. Planning to put a revolver in my mouth soon.

240 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-17 03:51 ID:mGpjzL2V

25, virgin, never been with a girl. I don't feel sad about missing out on fucking, really, sometimes I just feel lonely.

It's not that I'm ugly, stupid, boring or anything like that, I just seem to be too different. People don't know what to make of me. I don't talk much, I save speaking for when I have something I feel is worth saying, but then I'm not awkward about it.

I like being on my own mostly, but it's also nice chilling with friends, but whenever we go out it's like I cannot get it in my system to look for and approach girls. I just stay cool, hang out and have fun.

Several times girls have been trying to get my attention, especially after they have gotten to know me, but when that happens it's like I don't understand until way later.
I've started to get a bit tired of being lonely, but then again I don't know if it would be that much better with someone?

Maybe I'm just the kind of person who is suited for being alone.

241 Name: Sweet memory : 2007-08-18 14:11 ID:TF9DJG18

just do it when you ready and you are going to make in love with the person who you really love.

don't do it because curiosity or because you think "it's the time i must do that" =.=

no feeling no soul and useless

242 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-19 07:00 ID:N8oW1leR

recently 18, virgin
I've had all of one girlfriend, it lasted three months. She decided to become a whore only AFTER we had broken up, though I suppose that's for the best.

243 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-19 15:53 ID:fxGVl59M

21 years old virgin, chain-smoking compulsive gambler. I've had a couple of girlfriends in the past, but they were short-lived and never got far.
I actually had a whole lot of stuff to say but then I scrolled up and saw >>167 who actually put everything I wanted to say and as well as answered some of my questions in those 2 lines. Everyone take notes.

244 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-22 18:51 ID:UjdcIJyt

if you're gonna have sex, i don't suggest doing it with a prostitute.
they're dirty...
and sex is such a passionate thing to do, why would you do it with somebody random who has slept with all these other blokes?
no offence to any prostitutes on the board

18/virgin and i'm okay with that
i've got traditional views in regards to sex
like the whole, "no sex before marriage stuff"
the possibility of pregnancy haunts me

>>70 my first kiss was so sudden. it felt gross ><
i feel so stupid to have my first kiss taken away by some guy who has been given a BJ ;______________;

245 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-22 22:58 ID:HC9ZC4nL

I'm 19, a virgin, and I've never so much as even been on a date or anything. Being a pedophile doesn't help any...

246 Name: TS : 2007-08-23 07:20 ID:dLGxnUNT

20, virgin.

unless your right hand counts, which i believe doesnt.

247 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 08:41 ID:hXkRj+x7

Turning 28 in a few days, virgin male. Not even a kiss.

I don't have any particular problem with it, aside from the irrational fears about never finding love and what not. Though this one girl, upon finding out I was a virgin, apparently began to like me (I later found out that she refuses to even consider someone who's not a virgin). That really bothered me. The same way I don't want to be liked solely for my looks or for how well off I am/what I do, etc. Call it a deep-seated insecurity if you will, but I want to find someone that really likes me for me - the whole package - and I want to find someone for whom I feel the same.

Hang in there kids, be proud of who you are, virgin or no. Or at the least, don't start worrying until you're old and wrinkly like me. :D

248 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 09:12 ID:Dc4AOj+X

One thing you should look at towards that girl, is if she's a virgin herself. If she is, she's probably happy that there is a male just like her.

If she isn't, She could either greatly admire your determination, or is just after your cherry.

It really depends on the girl. Thats why you gotta get to know them ya know.

249 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 10:25 ID:AJUEcDeF


Don't feel bad at all... I'm turning 27 in week or two, and I'm in the exact same case, not even a kiss... You're not the only one who's feeling scared about being "old"...

250 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 13:01 ID:mWnDRu4g

18, virgin.

I once had the chance when I was 15 with this beautiful girl, we had been friends for quite some time and I really liked her, but when she started coming on to me I got scared of ruining our friendship so I refused her, and then I did something I still can't figure out why. I told her we shouldn't see each other anymore.

Ever since then I've had this feeling I don't deserve anybody else, I still feel that way, I'm sure she got really hurt as well so I cant really forgive myself.

251 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 05:48 ID:u79U4WQj

20 year old virgin. Bisexual that feels that both genders is fine, but goes after love before sex. Probably why he's still one. Not to mention the fact that he can't really hear that well so he doesn't socialize.

Is dating someone that lost theirs at 18. Person is a year younger than him, and he feels this eating away at his heart feeling. Doesn't know what to do, but that's not for this thread I'm sure.

252 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 08:50 ID:hXkRj+x7

Have you thought about talking to her about it? Maybe that would help you resolve some of that guilt that weighs so heavily on you still. But you know what? Sometimes people hurt each other, even if they have the best of intentions. You just can't help what your heart feels and sometimes that means another heart gets broken as a result. That doesn't mean you're not a good person - you are. And you deserve to forgive yourself. I think maybe she already did, years ago. And if she hasn't, I'm sure she certainly would, if she knew why you did what you did.

I got to know her pretty well over a year or so. And yes, she was a virgin herself. But she told me even if she wasn't a virgin anymore, her thinking wouldn't change. The reason why she didn't want to be with a non-virgin is because she couldn't stand the idea that he'd been inside someone else (her words) - to her he'd be 'dirty'. I thought that was a really selfish and irrational way of thinking. I'm supposed to be 'clean' because I've never been with another woman before? And as a result, desirable? Anyway, it's a bit of a story in itself, her and I, but that's for another time, not for this thread.

Do you worry that it's a red flag for a girl that finds out? I do, sometimes. But I guess that's part of the package, isn't it? And if it's an issue for the girl, then I guess she's not the right one eh? Keep your head up bud, I'm cheering you on! And happy birthday, go out and celebrate :)

253 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 10:04 ID:Dc4AOj+X

haha, you should read another thread on this board. The girlfriend wanting to have sex or not thread. Very similar stuff for what the girls says about virgins and all.

254 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 11:34 ID:iNvYs0DU

45 ;_;

255 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-27 08:28 ID:J2QMXpqW

I was starting to get in her, leaning in.
But she was tight, too tight, it hurt her.
So we stopped. Next day I left for home, relation suspended.

22. I guess technically still virgin. Its really pending in grey area though :(

256 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 20:58 ID:6MZKJYy0

I lost mine to some dude who couldn't give less of a shit about me, but he pretended to. I'm not really sad about it...I chalk it up as experience

257 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 22:17 ID:Prv2cxTi

19 I don't even talk to people

258 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-31 03:08 ID:JabwTqHF

I was a virgin until 19 (still am 19), and I feel very happy that I waited until I found someone I loved. You don't want to do this once in a lifetime thing with someone who doesn't give a shit about you. However, I'd also venture that your relationship can't progress without sex, because it really DOES bring you a lot closer. That's all the input I have to this thread.

259 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-01 22:30 ID:SwOGr6PT

19, virgin

260 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 02:46 ID:jN0CVzhJ

When you lose it you realize its not such a big deal, so getting laid becomes much easier. This is all you need to know.

261 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 06:48 ID:7WtXWfmu

I lost it and it's a fucking big deal for me. I wish that bitch wasn't the one who devirginized me.

262 Name: uemei : 2007-09-02 07:11 ID:m3102R9f

I think keeping sex 'a big deal' would actually make it more romantic, and prevent cheating. I'm not opposed to liberal attitudes, but if sex is not treated like 'a big deal' then why is it a part of the legal, institution of marriage, and why is it people get mad when their partner 'cheats?'

The statistics do support your stance, but it's only by our own will that we can make, and keep, such things as sex, and virginity precious.

263 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 08:31 ID:7WtXWfmu

People who rarely have sex enjoy it better than those that do it casually. See, the interest only gets stronger, and so is the fun.

So basically, those who values sex actually have more fun than those who don't.

264 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 08:57 ID:uLB3JqPX

Lost my virginity at age 19 to a woman seven years older. That relationship didn't last but really glad I lost it to a more experienced person. Learned where the clit is, learned how to be a considerate lover, and experimented a lot. If you can find someone experienced, would highly recommend it. Would think it would be much better than both people being clueless.

265 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-05 09:32 ID:Wx59ewHR


Sex is not a part of the legal institution of marriage. Well, if there's a country where the law of the land says it's illegal to have extramarital sex, then I'm not aware of it.

People (especially women and their parents) used to tie sex into marriage much more back when sex meant children.. but it doesn't have to anymore which led to the erosion of that connection.

Anyway, sex is always going to mean different things to different people. Some people attach religious or spiritual meaning to it. For some, it's just part of their job. For others, it's their way of feeling superior. What does masturbation, which is essentially having sex with yourself, mean to you? If you look at virginity as just a social label, maybe you'll be able to let go.

266 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-06 22:46 ID:6B/mHPPx

28 y/o virgin male here...never kissed, never had a relationship, etc. Don't know if I ever will, but I'm not going to just go out and give myself to anyone. If I DO get married someday I don't want to be comparing my wife to other girls or 'grading' her on her 'performance'. I only want to know her and nobody else, because then I'll know it as the best, the worst, and everything in between. If I want "experience" I'll just ask for advice from people.
...Plus I don't want any part of the potential for disease, children, drama, etc. that sexual relations often bring. Forget that. Not worth it, IMO.

Unfortunately, seems like most girls who on the rare occasion showed interest in me refused to date a guy who wouldn't sleep with them. -_-; Obviously I rejected them all. Hopefully someday I'll find someone who'll respect my desire to wait.

267 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 00:06 ID:BCTPGhtX

ahh. its hard to find guys like you! =]

268 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 00:30 ID:BCTPGhtX

>>266 you're the male version of me! except 10 years older!

269 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 04:16 ID:NB+J+1xf


266 posting from home [was at work earlier.]
Indeed, I feel like I'm an endangered species sometimes. Finding girls like you is difficult, too. =[ I have no idea even where they'd even be hiding. As for me, I tend to hang out in online games [Mabinogi, TFC soon to be TF2, Follow Freeman, etc.]. Gaming isn't just my hobby, it's also my job. :P

270 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 04:32 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Don't worry, you aren't alone. It just feels like it because we are spread so far out. I'm waiting to marriage myself. Although I want neither me nor my future wife to compare each other with past sexual encounters. Even if it's unconciously.

271 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 18:33 ID:EPvSFzHF

I'm 22, never had a girlfriend, never had a date, never got kissed, never made sexy time. And it's no one's fault but my own. I'm 5'11" and slightly (or perhaps not so slightly, haven't checked in a while) over 300 lbs. I can't blame women for being disgusted and repulsed by me. Additionally, I work a dead-end tech support job, so not only do I get paid shit, 99% of the population here is male. All of my free time is spent playing MMO's or fapping to doujinshi.

There are no decent places to meet people in my area. We don't have "clubs", just blue-collar bars where low-lifes hang out. The bar down the street is actually pretty scary. It's not a gay bar (its your run-of-the-mill hick bar) but all the bull dykes who work at Harley Davidson seem to gather there.

I tried the eHarmony thing for a while (since one of my co-workers met his wife there), and wow, what a mistake that was. It was a learning experience, though. Specifically, I learned that when I can't fall back on discussions about video games and super robots, and jokes about smegma, that I am a dull, dull person. Even the desperate buttertrolls on that site rejected me.

I try not to be emo about the whole situation, and I realise that I'm still young, but I've come to the conclusion that the only way I'll ever find a woman is to win the lottery and hook up with a golddigger.

272 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 23:41 ID:fTD63c3A

Is virgin only applied to guy-girl sex? Or would you guys count oral too?

273 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 00:31 ID:7/8qc6GR


If you're going to stick to the motivation that getting a gf, getting laid and have a family or what the fuck ever is your highest purpose or goal in life you might end up being quite a sad person indeed, a very unfulfilled individual, depressed, lonely and bitter.

You might wanna change your goals, you might wanna change your lifestyle.
Stop fapping, stop playing mmorpg's, stop reading doujinshi. Your life is pathetic and you know it. You can find yourself a purpose, get involved, a higher meaning to life. You can be an asset or a burden, to yourself and others. If you are a cure and a light in your surrounding, you will be appriciated, and you might find yourself getting hooked up with someone who appriciates you.

Then, dull doesn't matter for shit, because in the end fun and games will save noone.

274 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 00:45 ID:BCTPGhtX

ahh even though you're all guys
im not alone!

275 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-17 10:30 ID:ml2x2uBD

>Isaac Newton, the mathematician and scientist (said by some to be the greatest scientist ever), was a virgin all his life.

276 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-17 12:15 ID:aAHxbnA+

I count oral because oral is like sex, only ten times better.


277 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 03:37 ID:lX6hoUd0

This speculation cannot be confirmed for several reasons, most of which should be blatantly obvious and outside the bounds of this discussion.
I think that must be the single worst sentence of misinformation I've seen on wikipedia to this date.
(Who exactly is 'some' ...and what makes him the 'greatest scientist ever'?)

278 Name: 277 : 2007-09-18 03:51 ID:lX6hoUd0

Also, Gary Coleman seems to be curiously absent from that list. For shame.

279 Name: NiP : 2008-10-23 09:10 ID:SRhs92hw


> There are no expiration dates on men. It is the WOMEN who need to worry.

Hugh Heffner lost his long time girlfriend even though he would have married her but she wanted children and he is no longer physically able to.

> There are more women in the world than men, so I shouldn't worry were I you.

If a guy is in China, there are a few million less women than men. So perhaps it's only about equal for the ratio of female to male in the world.

280 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-24 23:16 ID:GldrV3bv

I'm 18, coming on 19, and I'm still a virgin. Call it pathetic, but it really gets to me. All of my friends (the few that I have, for what it's worth) always go on about how it's one of the greatest feelings in life, and just talk about it almost religiously. They ruin it for the rest of the people I interact with, I guess, because every time I'm talking to someone else, I have it in the back of my head that they're not a virgin, then treat them differently (more of a jerk, making obnoxious remarks to them, et cetera). It's gotten to the point where I find it difficult to even listen to music written and/or performed by someone is not a virgin.

I don't know why I think of it as such a big deal. I guess it's because I'm a jealous person by nature, but it sucks to wake up every morning knowing that you're less in value because you're so fucking pathetic that no one will even take your physical presence and embrace it. Prostitutes are out of the question because there are none near me in the middle of East Bumfuck, USA.

I feel like I've been victimized by the rites of passage that society has instituted, but that knowledge doesn't make it any less painful. To put into perspective the degree of the situation, I struggle with suicidal ideation and impulses on a daily basis. It really cripples me from a health viewpoint; I'm sure I've taken off 10 years of my life at the absolute least due to strong depression and stress. Meds don't help and no professional assistance has changed anything for me from a sexual perspective, even after four years, and thus, I am doomed to live a short life as an emotional wreck due to an otherwise simple physical motion.

281 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-24 23:19 ID:GldrV3bv

Adding to this, it's not like I'm THAT bad physically, unless you consider a 6'3" 140 pound guy with blonde hair and a slim body type a hideous fuck. I get friend-zoned all the time, maybe that's my problem. Maybe I just need to start treating girls like dirt.

282 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-24 23:30 ID:ta/fB42v

Man, you really love to make things difficult for yourself. I was virgin until 19, and did not think much of it, it's not so unusual and traumatic. And guess what, once you did it the first time, you'll realize that it's nothing mystical, and anyways often the first time sucks, because you have no experience.

Now if you take things so seriously, I'm not surprised that it becomes more difficult for you. Just relax, try first to learn to relate with females, and sex will come as an added bonus.

283 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-06 20:51 ID:bvlyP9/L

My friend is ovbiously virgin. He is 23 years old. Do you think that he should buy prostitute to be adult?

284 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-07 01:40 ID:SKoPnS64

I don't think it's even legal for me to lose my virginity at my age, so count me in.

285 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-07 09:38 ID:WLlhm3yp


Yes, compound your existing issues with misanthropy and lame pop psychology like the Ladder Theory.

286 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-07 16:01 ID:um9upknQ

I'm a virgin, i used to want to loose my virginity, but then i thought i'd rather do it later and with the right person than do it now and regret it. Loosing your virginity is like a gift that you give to the person of opposite sex.

287 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-09 18:02 ID:KS4/dNUO

I'm a virgin. 24, now, have a fairly decent paying and stable job. Not unattractive, moderately fit. I used to be all bitter and have issues with it, until I realized that being a virgin isn't the worst thing that could happen. If I suck at getting girls into bed, it's not the fucking end of the world, I should probably just focus on what I'm good at, and what I can do.

288 Name: Mandy : 2008-11-11 20:19 ID:nOU0gsKH

I was virgin until my 18, i dicided to do it with my actual husband, it worth it, give your first time for the person you love the most.

It feels amazing and i really think you guys are heroes for stay virgins, because most guys have the hormons like crazy when they're that age.

And it don't worth it with a whore, because... In my humble opinion, most are too nasty and are only thinking in the money, so your virginity it's just money for them. So better, gift it or do it with someone you really love.

289 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-16 13:50 ID:+DEy6hPM


>>It feels amazing and i really think you guys are heroes for stay virgins, because most guys have the hormons like crazy when they're that age.

If you actually READ the thread, you'd know that we do have hormone surges -- we just can't do anything about it.

290 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-18 21:05 ID:Nf5e2Xgw

Depending on how narrow your definition of "virgin" is, I was probably a virgin until late in my freshman year of college--so I was nearly 19. I had oral sex a few times in high school, but not often and not skillfully. It wasn't a big deal when I finally got around to it.

In my case, it helped to get out of the house, and into a dorm full of other horny, recently-liberated-from-their-families peers. But don't freak out about it. You'll be surprised by how little a difference it makes in your life once it's over.

291 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-19 04:05 ID:WMGJ8SCT


I probably wouldn't be a virgin if I went to the dorms, but unfortunately, I went to a very difficult high school (there was an entrance exam), and as a result I ended up having to transfer into the university from a dorm-free community college and completely bypassed dorms.


There's nothing heroic about it. The way society is arranged, mating is mostly about female choice. Ignore that detail and it's called "rape". If left (or right) hands counted, I don't think anyone here would be a virgin.

292 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-10 21:14 ID:pycBzwsk

16 years old virgin...
guess that isn't too bad ><
currently in a relationship (thats almost 6 month old)

293 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-11 11:35 ID:yz2LChG3

17 year old virgin here. It's not just that I want to lose it, it's more that I want to have someone special enough with whom to lose it...D: Bawww...

294 Name: Milo-Man : 2009-01-11 14:22 ID:re/eH626


well girl, I'm glad there's still a girl like you who cheers us, virgins, in this world.

I, too am a virgin and plan to give my virginity to the one i love.

295 Name: anon : 2009-01-12 02:08 ID:yeIFbOuC

I'm 24, and I've failed it many times when I've had chances...wondered if I was gay, and tried that but wasn't into it and figured out that I'm just incredibly shy around women (not conversation-wise or socializing, just when it counts) and inept at figuring out if a woman likes me or not.

None of my friends know this, since I've had relationships, but it nevertheless eats me'd be a relief just to lose my virginity, to be honest because it's a secret I have to trot around everyday.

296 Name: yo!8NBuQ4l6uQ : 2009-01-17 07:16 ID:bN8o5kjN

i got aids from jacking off!
naw just kidding, my girl just don't want to do it yet

297 Name: Milo-Man : 2009-01-17 14:06 ID:re/eH626


Are you serious? You can get AIDS from jacking off?
oh boy, never knew I could get infected by using hand. ><...


298 Name: Milo-Man : 2009-01-17 14:10 ID:re/eH626


I'm on the same page as you. I'm 24 and a virgin as well and no girlfriend...and I haven't even lost my first kiss. My cousin has been asking me to get laid in a brothel. Heck, he would even pay for me. But I didn't take his offer because I believe losing virginity would mean a lot more when you do it with someone you love.

I'm hanging there and you should do the same. Find the one you love most and give it to her!

299 Name: yo!8NBuQ4l6uQ : 2009-01-18 04:44 ID:bN8o5kjN


haha i said i was just kidding! that'd be something though to get infected from your hand!

300 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-19 07:23 ID:jDABQzl9

24. Never had a gf before. I'm not antisocial, maybe a little quiet, but I'm pretty loud and outgoing when I'm having fun. I'm athletic, generally pretty friendly.. but I'm 5'2". I don't think I'm ugly, but my height has proven to be a serious handicap. The girls I've been attracted to in the past don't take me seriously because I look really young, and the people that know me are surprised to find out that I don't have a girlfriend, and haven't had one, period. I haven't lost hope completely, but it's gotten to the point where I've just stopped trying recently (though school also has a lot to do with that, constant rejection is the main cause of it). What am I doing wrong here?

301 Name: Kiwi : 2009-01-24 19:25 ID:CWouQERW

I'm going on 19 this Feb. Also haven't had a gf before. It's not that I'm disinterested or anything. I just have other priorities in my life right now and a relationship would be too much of a hassle. Plus, I'm waiting for marriage before sex so clearly, losing my virginity isn't very high on my to-do list.

302 Name: megane : 2009-01-25 20:18 ID:DFqzXWMf

im 21, going 22 this march... im part of the population they named "no boyfriend since birth"... and in another sense, im still virgin... :3 they all say i have an intimidating aura thats why no boy has had the guts to ask me out even though they say i have the looks... sigh

303 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-27 05:07 ID:nMp0zsMq

5'8" male, 18, no experience at all with girls. at this point I'm starting to believe my height is holding me back. f***ing garbage I tell ya, I should've been aborted...

304 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-27 10:18 ID:yN/UeKlZ

6' Male 18 no real experience what so ever. Never had a gf or anything. so yea im a virgin. Seems to me like there should be a way to pair up each of the girls and guys on here like me and then most of us would at least have some experience.

305 Name: Chou-Chan : 2009-01-27 16:59 ID:I1Kvhpwj

19, will be 20 in november. I have a bf (2 years in july) and we both are virgins. he's my 2nd bf (ex was a jerk. wanted sex lol) and i'm his first gf. so we wanna wait until wedding day.

306 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-27 16:59 ID:r3NeI+Ju

I find it kind of funny how people say they are 18/19 and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed, etc. You are still pretty young and you have a full life ahead of you. By the time you are done with college you can lose track of the number of girls you slept with or even better; graduate with a diploma and a wife. So enjoy life when you are young.

307 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-27 17:31 ID:Heaven

Silly me who thought that having a girlfriend and such was part of "enjoying life".

308 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-13 03:46 ID:7mZZeLL7


aww... that makes me feel i'm not virgin anymore...
is it true?
i have tried some oral with my friend because of my curiosity but surely know myself that i'm not a gay just because of that thing i did when i was in junior high...
then i haven't got any GF to lose my virginity until now...
and i think i still a virgin...

if those things count,
how about virgin lesbians then?
do they still count as a non virgin just because they do "licking" one to another?

309 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-13 03:52 ID:fKA1qDQa

17 years old. I almost lost it days ago, but I sort of killed the moment before it got too hot I realised when

  1. You're about to do in your gf's parents house, with the close vicinity of her relatives
  2. You have no condom

310 Name: Virgin777 : 2009-02-16 11:33 ID:OEouVlPP

Hello fellow virgins, may I ask what is --wrong-- with being a virgin?

311 Name: Demo-Man : 2009-02-16 13:00 ID:re/eH626


Close call for you!! otherwise you would be facing hell now.

312 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 14:10 ID:yqkLNfxF

Smart man. Very smart man. Losing your virginity is not worth being a baby daddy for. Some bitch tried to trick me once by claiming she was on the pill. The tablets she showed me were actually antibiotics, and she made my life hell for the next month or so until I found out she had a period since.

Never been more shit-scared in my entire life. I would not recommend it to any guy.

To all Virgins in this thread, save it for someone you really love. Don't go out there with the sole intention of getting laid, one-night stands just feel cold and empty compared to making love to someone you truly care for.

313 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-16 17:28 ID:ga69HCxR


>>one-night stands just feel cold and empty compared to making love to someone you truly care for.

Perhaps, but for some of us, this distinction is academic, as we'll never be able to experience either type of sex.

314 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-02-17 02:11 ID:raYqCN0a


Are you looking for a social, medical, or moral response?
I can answer the first two, but not the latter.

315 Name: Virgin777 : 2009-02-17 11:41 ID:OEouVlPP

My question was ambiguous so I thought it'd be replied under the same nature it was asked. However in this context, please explain to me the social purpose, because it seems to be the main concern here.

316 Name: Green Hamsterminator : 2009-02-25 07:21 ID:eTGtvvih

I'm still a virgin...
I don't think it's wrong... since getting laid just for getting laid is much more like "being a protitute" with the trademark "Free services if customers are cute".

Well getting laid easily seems like a dream to some, I find myself on the other side. Not that I have always did, but I have made some points in my life and it has come to this.

Everytime I was close to have sex, it ended up that I discovered that the girl have hide some horrible or painfull things from me. From the hidden boyfriend to the automutilation, it always ended up under the 3 months of serious relationship. (Serious relationship is when you take a lot of your time to be with her, and not only knowing her)

Maybe I'm at fault for still being a virgin, but if I check back, it would have been a mistake to give it to them since they never have been a girl which I felt in love that told me the truth about their feeling.
Maybe I felt that it wasn't the right time, back there.

But the unknown is still unknown... so that's why I'm always keeping some condom in some safe place in case the unknown become known.

I'm 21 years old and I'm friend with more girls than boys... And I'm still a virgin. (For some reason, I find myself more confortable with being with girls, than boys. But I'm a hetero-straight. (I wouldn't even want to do a 100-o-some with 98 girls and 1 guy... I would prefer to stay virgin!)

But, well, don't thrust books and stuff like that... Thrust your own feeling and try and loose as much as it's necessary until you score. (not that I'm the one who should talk)

317 Name: cocoapuffs : 2009-03-02 06:44 ID:PCuilPPN

19 year old non-ugly virgin here.

318 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-10 12:40 ID:wWGsl48g

Soon to be 20, and reporting in.
My first time asking a girl out got me stabbed in the stomach. Haven't had much balls since.

319 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-10 13:37 ID:pfwvgAi2

19 years old and still a virgin. I'm a frigging card-carrying member of the virgin club.

I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I actually don't want to do it before I find someone I really love. Plus, in a relationship, that bit of sexual tension can be fun and add a bit of spark and underlying tension. Not that I would know. ;_;

320 Name: Eager : 2009-03-10 18:29 ID:XilzW/d7

I only want sex if there's passion/love. If just for the sole purpose of losing my virginity then no.

321 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-10 20:39 ID:lsjJVR8g


Tell us your story!

322 Name: Demo_Man : 2009-03-11 09:26 ID:re/eH626

I'm almost 25 and a virgin. I'm also worried about my appearance. I appear so nerdy and fat. Social skill sucks. I haven't been able to secure a full-time job yet since I graduated 2 years ago. I've been working on casual basis. But...My life is so empty. The only thing which keeps me going every day is entertainment by playing video games. I'm very worried about my future. I'm afraid of going out at night since the local news have been bombarded with street violence almost every week.

What do i do???

323 Name: The Answer : 2009-03-11 17:28 ID:XilzW/d7


324 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-11 23:02 ID:rhVjbdFN

I'm 22 and a virgin, WHAT THE FUCK!!

325 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-13 15:20 ID:JUm5Utku


Continue to search for a job earnestly, if you do it half-hearted, you likely won't succeed. Eat healthy, do fitness, sport, whatever to lose weight.

To be honest, you sound like me when I was 18-22. I got out of this vicious circle by having the goal of getting a real life, not the pit of self-loathing and escapism my life had become.

Having a job and a real friend helped me get out of that.

Good luck.

And do some street violence if you feel lucky. But don't go unarmed.

326 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-17 16:08 ID:wWGsl48g

Was still underage B& back then, perhaps 14. My sister threw a house party and the girl that I had a crush on showed up to it. I was never into parties so much, but decided to mingle with the attendants. Long story short, I ended up trying to ask her out. The unfortunate part was the fact that she was emaciated, pissed as hell from some kind of shit happening with her boyfriend earlier that night, and carrying a pocketknife. The knife only penetrated like an inch though, perhaps less, so I was (unfortunately) ok. I think the bitch is in rehab lately, like most of the females in my area.

I do wish the story was more interesting. I've asked only three girls out since then, but no luck. I can't seem to speak to girls like they're human. (i.e. distant, overly formal, afraid to joke)

327 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-18 13:57 ID:JUm5Utku


Work on it, anon. Keep talking to girls, even if it's only small talk. You'll get over your trauma eventually. Keep trying, otherwise you'll never get what you want.

328 Name: ps : 2009-03-18 14:09 ID:1wrqJpXI


I think your story's interesting... getting stabbed, not fun definitely...

329 Name: Demo_Man : 2009-03-19 08:57 ID:re/eH626


I would have roundhouse kicked her ass!

330 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-19 09:49 ID:Heaven

I've been going to clubs, talking to girls at my school, etc. I even went to a dinner (all you can eat/drink) with one male friend and 2 other girls. I believe I'm a bit less awkward than I was 6 months ago, which is good, but I have a language barrier to get over where I am living.
I was too busy bleeding like a cunt orz

331 Name: Demo_Man : 2009-03-19 12:10 ID:re/eH626


you could at least punch her in the face. She'll know what it's like living with flattened Nose. ROFL

332 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-03-19 15:21 ID:rxGdCUA+

21 years old,
social ineptitude as a result of being a loner and a recluse for most of my childhood has lead to a state of involantery celibacy.

333 Name: Scotland : 2009-03-20 01:05 ID:tLj5zFUP

>> 326

now thats a kicker...asking a girl you had a crush on, and instead of saying no...she stabs you...

one word...


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