So, how many we got here?. I'll start with myself.
it's like saying
well, a lot of people want to eat for all the wrong reasons.
or
well, a lot of people want to go to school for all the wrong reasons.
or
well, a lot of people want to do 4ch for all the wrong reasons.
people have different reasons.
and that's why this world is fun. so i appreciate some people say
"a lot of people want to get laid for all the wrong reasons."
a lot of people appreciate people who want to do stuff for the wrong reasons for the wrong reasons?
I'm 24, and just lost my virginity last month. Totally great, but complicates relationships immensely.
>>102
By wrong reasons, I meant harmful reasons when it comes to the bigger picture.
If you by your actions efficiently backstab that person (and/or yourself?) then you're having sex for the wrong reason.
i just meant
it'be extremely boring if everyone has the same moral value and ethics
first time you drive a car
first time you take sat
first time you go to a hairdresser
first time you wear tux
first time you get your own pc
first time you sleep on the king size bed
first time you drink
first time you have sex
any "first time" can be special and exclusive experience
and this is somehow religeous
it's interesting to see some geek who think having his own pc is the most religeous thing. usually we wouldn't get mad at them, i think.
>>105
If you backstab yourself you're doing it wrong.
>>13
Thank the motherfucking lArd!
I thought I was the most pitiful person on this board.
almost a quarter of a century old and still single for the entire time and STILL a virgin but I don't find it being problematic in any way.
two decades of sex prohabition. Hoping a bill gets passed but I doubt my congress can pass it.
22, virgin, and dont really give a damn about the word either way.
if it somehow gave me more money or power, maybe i'd consider it.
18 virgin
I don't think I could visit a prostitute. Maybe, but it's unlikely.
Age = years without a girlfriend
i'm 18 ...
I'm 15, I have a girlfriend, and I think we're gonna wait until we're 18.
i'm 21 few days ago
i often got girlfriend, but for me, sex is somehow sacred, so i wanna wait till i get married ^_^
but a bit petting is, well, >:)
23.45 years, still virgin.
Had a girlfriend for 10 months. Didn't have sex. The chance was given, but I was afraid to step forward. Had only one "real" chance, but at the last moment the girl said that she isn't ready for it yet.
I'm interested in sex, I just don't have luck with girls and I lack in self-confidence too.
But, I'm dating a girl. We're not in love but I may lose it with her. She's younger than me, but have much more experience.
> I always try to "live life without regrets" or some other noble example of the same idea.
Yes, I know this. I'm pretty much the same. I'm indecisive and I tend to avoid situations that bear some risks. And because of this I can't easily talk to girls. I always look stiff and cautious.
>>42
> I don't want sex as much as I want a relationship
Me too. I want a real love relationship much more than I want sex. Sure they belong together, but I think sex without love is worse than love without sex (I've experienced the latter but not the former...)
>>68
> I also really want an intimate sexual relationship with a girl, but sometimes after I orgasm. I feel no need of having a intimate relationship, since
> I have pr0n. But I realize that's foolish, because I'm just consoleing myself with pr0n.
I's the same with me
>>70
I'ts perfectly normal. I had my first kiss at the age of 18. It was with my second-cousin... she was my "kissing teacher" :P
didn't you think it weird to have your first kiss with somebody of your own family...?
>>120
Maybe it's weird, but she's not a very close relative and of course, we didn't have sex.
Anyway I never had a girlfriend before, I only dated a few girls but always got turned down. Then she came to a visit for 2 months and I found her very attractive (she was 16 back then, cute red hair girl). She used to sleep in my room and I slept in the living rm.
One night we were in my room, listening to some music and talking. Then I started to fondle her hair and hands after a few minutes she grabbed my head and kissed me, so it was HER who started it, and I just went with the flow. Anyway I have no regrets, she taught me how to kiss and I had more confidence afterwards.
im 27 virgin guys but dont tell me i know for society standars im a loser and for that i must die now
but its not my fault
Me and my current (and very first) girlfriend both believe in saving sex for marriage, but whether she is the one I will wed is to be determined. She is so damn fine though, its tough to control myself but I've managed thus far....
You could drink alot, that should surpress the urges, if not you still have your hands.
Don't you know that society standars are shit !
I have a lot say about myself, but I'm 25 and about to turn 26. I'm still a virgin. I never kissed a girl nor have anything to do with them. I never had female friends in my life, not even friends of the same sex, if you don't count childhood friends as ones, but they are gone. Never personally chatted with a girl. The only contact I have is my mother and sister, but they left. You people should be grateful that you have a friend, I have none, to even have a female friend, is a blessing.
18 year old male
first kiss 15 with a 14 year old girl
first err what you call 2nd base(touching and stuff) 16
then studying 17-18
and now 18 waiting to get into university still a virgin
I am 23 and a hardcore gamer and anime fan D:
I spend most of my money, time, and life playing games and watching anime or going to conventions besides going to class and when I am in class, I usually keep to myself.
Being a virgin and being stuck in a town where the majority of the women do not find me very attractive or appealing and I cannot have sex just for the sake of having sex, nor do I want to have sex for the sake of having sex or even have sex with a drunk girl that cannot make a decision for herself.
That is my story.
I want a girl like me who likes to stay @home watching anime and movies and playing games and knows stuff about computers & science fiction...
Any girl who likes to stay at home watching anime, movies, and game will be in the same situation as you are currently in.
If you stay at home, you won't meet anyone new! Internet does not count.
Why must it be like this?? If a girl like that existed I should have already met her on the net. I only met a GUY instead who was like me and we had those nice night conversations which I should have had with a girl. Fuck man, fuck it all!!!!! I think I'm gonna cut my penis off now and feed it to the cat. Fuck.
>> 131
1: It's easier to communicate with someone of the same gender like that because we feel more comfortable and confident. There is nothing pressuring behind to take it further.
and
2: There are more males that enjoys that sort of "watching anime, movies, and gaming" then females on the internet.
>>132
3: There are no females on the internet.
uguu... :(
Wow, don't be so mad that you haven't got laid yet, you fucking virgin.
21 and still a virgin. Never had a boyfriend in my life or even kissed a guy. It seem that I can only have boys as a friend but never had any feelings for them. I guess I'm afraid of commitmend or that every guys I've meet they are only interested on being my friend. I just don't know if they are interested in me or not. I'm not pretty nor ugly. Is there something wrong with me?
>>136
You're probably the "good friend" type of girl, that guys like to hang out with but nothing serious.
I have a friend like this. She always plays cool and she's a good friend but she's friendly with all guys and I think nobody can have REAL chances at her.
So, if you want to break the circle, just "choose a guy" and show him that you like him. He'll probably respond and the rest is up to you two. :)
sigh...19, virgin. I live in an area where the colleges are filled with nothing but uptight fat weeaboo chicks and anorexic emo bitches. I might have had a couple of chances in High School (I had money, but I look like a fat slob) but I don't like high school girls because they're all a bunch of money-grubbing whores. I really like older women (25 & up) but they don't take me seriously because I'm "just a stupid kid". I'm seriously thinking about ditching college, scraping together all my savings, and going to Amsterdam just to lose my virginity. Am I really as pathetic a loser that my friends and peers make me out to be?
I just recently started cumming on my girlfriend's face. Its pretty damned fun! She asks me how to make it better too, and watches porn to pick up techniques. God damn im lucky. I was a virgin until i was almost 18 years old. So, the moral is ITS GOING TO PICK UP! Don't worry about it.
>>138
Going to Amsterdam's red light district to lose your virginity? Yes, you're pathetic... You just CAN'T be this desperate man!
Wait util you find a girl who you trust or even love. Don't lose your virginity just to brag about it to your friends. And if you really can't hold it back, there's your right hand...
I'm 23, still virgin and I don't care that my friends aren't.
You're just going to make the people older than 18 feel worse, asshat.
going all the way to amsterdam is stupid. there are hookers in your town too!
>>142
Yes, lot lizards. The foulest, skankiest hoes to prowl the parking lot.
>>140
I'm not seeking a so-called "meaningful relationship". I have no need for such things. I just want to appreciate one of the finer things in life that I have yet to experience.
>>144
But it doesn't have to be with a hooker.
You should be able to pick up a "casual" girl of your age at the local disco. There are girls who only want sex and they can be yours for a night... and also you'll get it cheaper.
Btw, why don't you want a real relationship? Are you afraid of it?
>>145
Sigh...it's hard to explain. It's not that I'm afraid of a real relationship, per se. It's just that I'm not really interested. I'm your average intellectual (or psuedo-intellectual) who lives inside his own head. I have read about, heard about, and seen (As in, watched through a hole in the wall!) sex. Now, I just want a little taste of what it's like. I have about 20 gigs (Still growing!) worth of hentai and live-action porn sitting on my hard drive. But, my left hand can only hold me off for so long. And before anyone says "Stop looking at porn, then!!1", I want to make it very clear that I can't. I'm addicted to the feeling, but I want so much more.
If that doesn't clear up my meaning, I don't know what will.
I understand that some people may hold the general agreed opinion that I am, indeed, a social leper. However, I figure maybe there is someone out there that is open-minded enough to accept my story with a blind eye. But, then again...
If you really want to get laid join a frat, or at least go to a frat party. Drink 'til you get beer goggles, and fuck the first horny girl you see.
Btw, if you join a frat, you might lose your virginity to a goat, just warning you.
>>150
Are you trying to imply one can't have a loving and meaningful relationship with a goat?
Not the frat kind, they are all whores.
>>108
Why are you of the opinion/under the impression that lack of sex is the same as being a loser?
I lost my virginity at the age of 20, three years ago. Not because I was "saving" myself, but because I'm not interested in randomly having sex with random anyone (I had multiple opportunities for casual sex), but having sex as a way of expressing my emotions for someone. I might as well go jack off if all I wanted was just sex, in my opinion.
Just because one might have higher standards than just wanting to shove ones cock into random human in order to not having to "feel ashamed" because of the "ZOMG I CAN'T EVEN GET A GIRL/GUY TO FUCK ME! I AM WORTHLESS WITHOUT GIRLS/GUYS" mentality so many adhere to like sheep... It doesn't mean one is a loser.
By this I am not stating that people who have one-night stands are in any way pathetic nor pitiful. If people have consensual sex on mutually agreed terms and nothing more, because they want to have sex - huzzah for them. Consensual sex is good. It's the people who have sex for the sake of not being a virgin any more that irks me.
>> I might as well go jack off if all I wanted was just sex, in my opinion.
Doesn't always work that way, my friend.
>> I can't decide if I'm gay irl or not. Most probably I am but im a good christian and I don't want to go to hell.
Fix'd
>>153 wins the thread. So virginity isn't the point. the point is the prerequisite to losing it: a woman willing to help you there.
Dûh, most of us want a long term relation. thanks for stating the obvious and no thanks for bragging
>>113, I share the same sentiments with you man.
21 here.
>>153, nice post man.
>>136, nope, there's nothing wrong with you, i'm 21, single all my life and a virgin as well. I don't mind at all, I have many girls waiting for me anyway. grins and pities self for ego You're just different, and different individuals are those who really make a mark in life. ;)
>>126, that's pretty hard man, well, try to get a friend, a girl friend (not a girlfriend). There are many girls in this world and there's a big chance that you'll be a really good friend to some of them, it's a start.
>>115, that's a really good way of putting it.
>>111, maybe i'd do the same for money and power. :D
I'm a really horny and lusty person so it's really hard to suppress my desires but then I want to give my virginity to my future wife, I don't care what other people think about that. It's one of my wedding gifts man, it just shows how I sacrificed a lot and how much I love her to wait for her and give her that.
I choose celibacy, thanks.
I just turned 18 2 days ago. I was a freakish kid when I was younger, so I didn't have much social skills and contact with girls. Then I kinda changed with age, but still failed 2 times to get a hardon with a hooker my friends bought me because I was too nervous and drunk. Almost got my lucky day when I was on a vacation in Spain, but oh woe is me, she was a rape victim and wasn't very fond of this idea. That's ok, I guess. I still get nervous with girls a bit. Not nervous as in "can't speak with them", but nervous as in "can't move conversation and her thoughts in "that" direction".
31 and virgin. I've had 3 opportunities and refused them all. I'm waiting for marriage, otherwise it's probably overrated anyway.
>>160
good luck with that
I got a 34 year old roommate 3 years ago that's a virgin, I wonder what happened to him... He wasn't gay or anything, he's interested in girls too, I think his only mistake is that he's too much of a nice guy and sticks too much in his principles, he's also shy I guess... But now and then I see his profile in friendster hoping that he found a girl, it must be lonely (I think), he loves his mom though and I think he's happy.
>>163
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I am totally fine being a virgin. In fact, I like it. Gives me one less thing I have in common with all the dickheads I went to school with. They can keep their sex and drugs and I will take my anime and my films that strangely tend to involve sex and drugs...
never been laid, never been kissed, but somehow I've gotten to grope someone. I confused
I think the point, here, isn't about virginity - it's about being genetically wanted. It is a drive hardwired into every human being to be seen as having good genetic qualities and passing them along. When this instinct goes unfulfilled, the subconscious actively causes mental discomfort - prompting you to find a mate.
>>167
This person is on to something here. I wouldn't say it's the whole picture though. We just can't tell what's hardwired into our brains anymore because of media, save for survival instincts, stuff like that.
>>167
Hmm. You've got a point.
Thanks for reminding me about that.
>>168
I don't know about the media, but I've noticed too often that people think that they have to be with people, or preferably have a harem of people who desire them, to be worth more than some loser. Which is efficiently tossing aside a lot of very important accomplishments. "Hmm? Say what? You won the Nobel prize? But then again, I get wayy more pootang than you! Oooh, burn!"
I don't like it when people choose to focus on a single feature rather than looking at people holistically. For instance, a plain guy who gets a fuckload of chicks because he manipulates them a lot is seen as better than a nice guy (who's only had a few dates albeit tons of friends and does well), by too many people. There are too many people who never grow out of this attitude. It worries me greatly.
>>169
Worry not, it's not worth the time and energy. By the way, if you win a Nobel Prize, I'm sure there are plenty of intellectual women that would sleep with you on a moment's notice. Then there are actually those who remain intellectual despite your achievements.
>>170
I wasn't talking about myself, though. I'm off the market, being engaged and all. I just waste too much time worrying about the world. A nasty old habit. And people say watching the news as a small kid won't fuck the kid up... Pfft, my ass.
I'm 23. I was on a holiday with my "girlfriend", my sister and one of my friends (who's actually interested in my sister :P)
We spent one week in the mountains, at a small but comfortable guest house, where we had separate rooms (one room for my friend and sister and one for me and my girl)...
...and yet I'm still a virgin...
The girl gave me a handjob - I was fast ;(
I was in the mood and wanted to step forward but then she noticed that her sleepwear was stained. She got mad at me and totally ruined the mood. :(
Next night I only accidentally touched her stomach with my dick and she got mad again despite it was only a small amount of pre-ejaculate... she destroyed the mood again... X(
...hell I'm gonna be asexual!
>>171
Chill, I know you weren't talking about yourself.
>>172
I doubt it matters that you were fast. It's not like you were having intercourse, but if you want to communicate to her what you want to do, use other parts of your body or speak up. Don't wave you dick in front of her face. Girls hate that.
>>173
My underpants were still on, she just grabbed my dick. And I even told her that I'm going to cum. Honestly that stain wasn't that big and it wasn't on "dangerous" place. But she put the blame on me for it.
I was trying to find her clit with my hands. I'm very inexperienced and asked her for a little help but she told me that it's my job and she cannot help me. She even never takes the initiative. When I do, she returns it but she never even give a kiss by herself, it's always me who starts it.
Communication could be better between us. Anyway this isn't love...
>>173
Oh yes, and she said one thing that really irritates me:
"If I had known that this would happen, I'd never play with it!" - just how should I interpret this sentence?
>>175
I lolled.
>>174
dump that shit, she ain't worth it man.
Break it off and tell her you'll consider starting the relationship up again when she can learn to deal with sex like a proper adult.
>>175
If she won't communicate you have no hope. Communication is necessary in a relationship, and most guys need to be "trained" how to please a woman and every woman is different, so they have to be "retrained" every time. I wouldn't break it off just yet, but you need to talk to her about this, and if she still doesn't care, then you can say goodbye.
I figure that after 19 years of being a virgin, I may as well wait until I am married.
Bah. This is utter and complete bullshit, and when you get the chance, you will take it, and be better off for it.
18 and I don't have a problem with it, seeing as most of my friends are virgins too. Most Asian girls seem to be..
Virgin here, but not for lack of trying. Someone teach me tact, plz?
I am a virgin... for lack of trying :(
Go go social phobia! :D
>>185
ditto
20 yearold virgin here. It's awwwright.
23 here..
i have a strange habit of attraction to women with problems, or who are already attached, and since im not prone to move on girls i dont care about i guess ill be waiting longer.
Another virgin here. At least I'm only 17, but it's still depressing considering how many 13-year-olds are out there doing it...
My girlfriend refuses to put out or even let me do anything more than make out with her.
>>191
You should respect her decision. I wish more girls like her were around. Instead, I'm stuck with alot whores that put out to every guy known to man.
nonsense, 17 is quite young and perfectly legit.
20, here.
If it makes you feel any better, the average age for virginity-loss in China is 22. That's like 1/4th of the world right there.
I lost mine at 18. (Girl here.) I mean, it was the first time I had sexual intercourse. But I felt like I'd lost my mental virginity at 15 or 16 when I gave an ex a BJ. Or maybe even younger since I'd fooled around with a friend of mine at jesus I don't know 10?
You want to lose your virginity, everyone? Lower your standards.
I want to lose it, I don't wanna lower my standards to lose it.
Which is probably why I'm waiting until marriage.
Hi, I´m 24 and still virgin, :/
i really don´t have problems with that.
man Im 17 and still a virgin, how i long for that pussy the only action i get every firday night are hentai video from xtube
19 here, also because the lack of trying, and standards set too high.
22. My current social situation is one that doesn't have me meeting a lot of people. My standards aren't high...but then again you can't make them appear low either. That sends off waves of desperation which make the girls run, run so far awaay~.
20, virgin.
The thing is i'm so highly medicated that i've lost all sexual desire as a result. I never look at porn, or think about sex and i can't remember the last time i masturbated. I understand this is a problem as well but if i just stop taking the meds i'll get really sick, along with all the problems they prevent popping up as well.
I guess at least if i can't want it i might be a bit better off then the people who do want it but can't get it.
Also 200 get.