>>94
Well, a lot of people want to get laid for all the wrong reasons.
Like trying to decide their selfworth based on how many chicks/guys they can score. Using others as masturbation tools is wrong too, unless the sex-partner is aware of and agreeing to interaction on those terms.

Why virginity is a big deal:
"Magical cups, bloody brides - virginity in context"
http://www.scarleteen.com/politics/virginity.html
"20 Questions About Virginity"
http://scarleteen.com/politics/virgin.html

and wiki is always shiny:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity