So, how many we got here?. I'll start with myself.
I don't think it's even legal for me to lose my virginity at my age, so count me in.
Yes, compound your existing issues with misanthropy and lame pop psychology like the Ladder Theory.
I'm a virgin, i used to want to loose my virginity, but then i thought i'd rather do it later and with the right person than do it now and regret it. Loosing your virginity is like a gift that you give to the person of opposite sex.
I'm a virgin. 24, now, have a fairly decent paying and stable job. Not unattractive, moderately fit. I used to be all bitter and have issues with it, until I realized that being a virgin isn't the worst thing that could happen. If I suck at getting girls into bed, it's not the fucking end of the world, I should probably just focus on what I'm good at, and what I can do.
I was virgin until my 18, i dicided to do it with my actual husband, it worth it, give your first time for the person you love the most.
It feels amazing and i really think you guys are heroes for stay virgins, because most guys have the hormons like crazy when they're that age.
And it don't worth it with a whore, because... In my humble opinion, most are too nasty and are only thinking in the money, so your virginity it's just money for them. So better, gift it or do it with someone you really love.
>>It feels amazing and i really think you guys are heroes for stay virgins, because most guys have the hormons like crazy when they're that age.
If you actually READ the thread, you'd know that we do have hormone surges -- we just can't do anything about it.
Depending on how narrow your definition of "virgin" is, I was probably a virgin until late in my freshman year of college--so I was nearly 19. I had oral sex a few times in high school, but not often and not skillfully. It wasn't a big deal when I finally got around to it.
In my case, it helped to get out of the house, and into a dorm full of other horny, recently-liberated-from-their-families peers. But don't freak out about it. You'll be surprised by how little a difference it makes in your life once it's over.
I probably wouldn't be a virgin if I went to the dorms, but unfortunately, I went to a very difficult high school (there was an entrance exam), and as a result I ended up having to transfer into the university from a dorm-free community college and completely bypassed dorms.
There's nothing heroic about it. The way society is arranged, mating is mostly about female choice. Ignore that detail and it's called "rape". If left (or right) hands counted, I don't think anyone here would be a virgin.
16 years old virgin...
guess that isn't too bad ><
currently in a relationship (thats almost 6 month old)
17 year old virgin here. It's not just that I want to lose it, it's more that I want to have someone special enough with whom to lose it...D: Bawww...
well girl, I'm glad there's still a girl like you who cheers us, virgins, in this world.
I, too am a virgin and plan to give my virginity to the one i love.
I'm 24, and I've failed it many times when I've had chances...wondered if I was gay, and tried that but wasn't into it and figured out that I'm just incredibly shy around women (not conversation-wise or socializing, just when it counts) and inept at figuring out if a woman likes me or not.
None of my friends know this, since I've had relationships, but it nevertheless eats me up...it'd be a relief just to lose my virginity, to be honest because it's a secret I have to trot around everyday.
i got aids from jacking off!
naw just kidding, my girl just don't want to do it yet
Are you serious? You can get AIDS from jacking off?
oh boy, never knew I could get infected by using hand. ><...
LOL
I'm on the same page as you. I'm 24 and a virgin as well and no girlfriend...and I haven't even lost my first kiss. My cousin has been asking me to get laid in a brothel. Heck, he would even pay for me. But I didn't take his offer because I believe losing virginity would mean a lot more when you do it with someone you love.
I'm hanging there and you should do the same. Find the one you love most and give it to her!
haha i said i was just kidding! that'd be something though to get infected from your hand!
24. Never had a gf before. I'm not antisocial, maybe a little quiet, but I'm pretty loud and outgoing when I'm having fun. I'm athletic, generally pretty friendly.. but I'm 5'2". I don't think I'm ugly, but my height has proven to be a serious handicap. The girls I've been attracted to in the past don't take me seriously because I look really young, and the people that know me are surprised to find out that I don't have a girlfriend, and haven't had one, period. I haven't lost hope completely, but it's gotten to the point where I've just stopped trying recently (though school also has a lot to do with that, constant rejection is the main cause of it). What am I doing wrong here?
I'm going on 19 this Feb. Also haven't had a gf before. It's not that I'm disinterested or anything. I just have other priorities in my life right now and a relationship would be too much of a hassle. Plus, I'm waiting for marriage before sex so clearly, losing my virginity isn't very high on my to-do list.
im 21, going 22 this march... im part of the population they named "no boyfriend since birth"... and in another sense, im still virgin... :3 they all say i have an intimidating aura thats why no boy has had the guts to ask me out even though they say i have the looks... sigh
5'8" male, 18, no experience at all with girls. at this point I'm starting to believe my height is holding me back. f***ing garbage I tell ya, I should've been aborted...
6' Male 18 no real experience what so ever. Never had a gf or anything. so yea im a virgin. Seems to me like there should be a way to pair up each of the girls and guys on here like me and then most of us would at least have some experience.
19, will be 20 in november. I have a bf (2 years in july) and we both are virgins. he's my 2nd bf (ex was a jerk. wanted sex lol) and i'm his first gf. so we wanna wait until wedding day.
I find it kind of funny how people say they are 18/19 and never had a girlfriend and never been kissed, etc. You are still pretty young and you have a full life ahead of you. By the time you are done with college you can lose track of the number of girls you slept with or even better; graduate with a diploma and a wife. So enjoy life when you are young.
>>306
Silly me who thought that having a girlfriend and such was part of "enjoying life".
aww... that makes me feel i'm not virgin anymore...
is it true?
i have tried some oral with my friend because of my curiosity but surely know myself that i'm not a gay just because of that thing i did when i was in junior high...
then i haven't got any GF to lose my virginity until now...
and i think i still a virgin...
if those things count,
how about virgin lesbians then?
do they still count as a non virgin just because they do "licking" one to another?
17 years old. I almost lost it days ago, but I sort of killed the moment before it got too hot I realised when
Hello fellow virgins, may I ask what is --wrong-- with being a virgin?
Close call for you!! otherwise you would be facing hell now.
>>309
Smart man. Very smart man. Losing your virginity is not worth being a baby daddy for. Some bitch tried to trick me once by claiming she was on the pill. The tablets she showed me were actually antibiotics, and she made my life hell for the next month or so until I found out she had a period since.
Never been more shit-scared in my entire life. I would not recommend it to any guy.
To all Virgins in this thread, save it for someone you really love. Don't go out there with the sole intention of getting laid, one-night stands just feel cold and empty compared to making love to someone you truly care for.
>>one-night stands just feel cold and empty compared to making love to someone you truly care for.
Perhaps, but for some of us, this distinction is academic, as we'll never be able to experience either type of sex.
Are you looking for a social, medical, or moral response?
I can answer the first two, but not the latter.
My question was ambiguous so I thought it'd be replied under the same nature it was asked. However in this context, please explain to me the social purpose, because it seems to be the main concern here.
I'm still a virgin...
I don't think it's wrong... since getting laid just for getting laid is much more like "being a protitute" with the trademark "Free services if customers are cute".
Well getting laid easily seems like a dream to some, I find myself on the other side. Not that I have always did, but I have made some points in my life and it has come to this.
Everytime I was close to have sex, it ended up that I discovered that the girl have hide some horrible or painfull things from me. From the hidden boyfriend to the automutilation, it always ended up under the 3 months of serious relationship. (Serious relationship is when you take a lot of your time to be with her, and not only knowing her)
Maybe I'm at fault for still being a virgin, but if I check back, it would have been a mistake to give it to them since they never have been a girl which I felt in love that told me the truth about their feeling.
Maybe I felt that it wasn't the right time, back there.
But the unknown is still unknown... so that's why I'm always keeping some condom in some safe place in case the unknown become known.
I'm 21 years old and I'm friend with more girls than boys... And I'm still a virgin. (For some reason, I find myself more confortable with being with girls, than boys. But I'm a hetero-straight. (I wouldn't even want to do a 100-o-some with 98 girls and 1 guy... I would prefer to stay virgin!)
But, well, don't thrust books and stuff like that... Thrust your own feeling and try and loose as much as it's necessary until you score. (not that I'm the one who should talk)
19 year old non-ugly virgin here.
Soon to be 20, and reporting in.
My first time asking a girl out got me stabbed in the stomach. Haven't had much balls since.
19 years old and still a virgin. I'm a frigging card-carrying member of the virgin club.
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I actually don't want to do it before I find someone I really love. Plus, in a relationship, that bit of sexual tension can be fun and add a bit of spark and underlying tension. Not that I would know. ;_;
I only want sex if there's passion/love. If just for the sole purpose of losing my virginity then no.
I'm almost 25 and a virgin. I'm also worried about my appearance. I appear so nerdy and fat. Social skill sucks. I haven't been able to secure a full-time job yet since I graduated 2 years ago. I've been working on casual basis. But...My life is so empty. The only thing which keeps me going every day is entertainment by playing video games. I'm very worried about my future. I'm afraid of going out at night since the local news have been bombarded with street violence almost every week.
What do i do???
E-Harmony
I'm 22 and a virgin, WHAT THE FUCK!!
Continue to search for a job earnestly, if you do it half-hearted, you likely won't succeed. Eat healthy, do fitness, sport, whatever to lose weight.
To be honest, you sound like me when I was 18-22. I got out of this vicious circle by having the goal of getting a real life, not the pit of self-loathing and escapism my life had become.
Having a job and a real friend helped me get out of that.
Good luck.
And do some street violence if you feel lucky. But don't go unarmed.
>>321
Was still underage B& back then, perhaps 14. My sister threw a house party and the girl that I had a crush on showed up to it. I was never into parties so much, but decided to mingle with the attendants. Long story short, I ended up trying to ask her out. The unfortunate part was the fact that she was emaciated, pissed as hell from some kind of shit happening with her boyfriend earlier that night, and carrying a pocketknife. The knife only penetrated like an inch though, perhaps less, so I was (unfortunately) ok. I think the bitch is in rehab lately, like most of the females in my area.
I do wish the story was more interesting. I've asked only three girls out since then, but no luck. I can't seem to speak to girls like they're human. (i.e. distant, overly formal, afraid to joke)
Work on it, anon. Keep talking to girls, even if it's only small talk. You'll get over your trauma eventually. Keep trying, otherwise you'll never get what you want.
I think your story's interesting... getting stabbed, not fun definitely...
>>327
I've been going to clubs, talking to girls at my school, etc. I even went to a dinner (all you can eat/drink) with one male friend and 2 other girls. I believe I'm a bit less awkward than I was 6 months ago, which is good, but I have a language barrier to get over where I am living.
>>329
I was too busy bleeding like a cunt orz
you could at least punch her in the face. She'll know what it's like living with flattened Nose. ROFL
21 years old,
social ineptitude as a result of being a loner and a recluse for most of my childhood has lead to a state of involantery celibacy.
>> 326
now thats a kicker...asking a girl you had a crush on, and instead of saying no...she stabs you...
one word...
Great.