How is grinding sexual assault(I'm not going to get into specific legal definitions)? If you read my most, I was totally not defending the guy. I was just saying that we do not have enough information to go on to be yelling OMG HE RAPED YOU CALL TEH COPS!!!!1111ONEOENOENOEENOENEOENEZERO

I think i'm just going to stay out of the whole "how do you make a move" debate. If people could just be honest with their feelings and shit, it would be easy. But apparently, no one wants it that way. Do you always ask a girl before kissing her? If you don't ask some will be pissed and if you do ask some will be pissed because you aren't assertive enough!