I had convinced myself that this year I'd confess to him. On Valentines day. But we talked and... I couldn't say it. It was a normal conversation.
I'm too shy. ;__;
write a letter
get a friend to hint it to him
Grow some balls and tell him when you're both alone. You'll regret it later if you don't do it now.
I agree. you just gotta give it your all :)
>Grow some balls
He may not like that :(
Seriously though, even if you cannot work up the words... what is wrong with a handwritten letter?
>>7
yeah its actually fine for girls, but guys cant
so is 1 a guy or a girl?
>>1 is either gay or a girl, my bet was on girl, thus the letter
I have no clue if a letter would work for a gay guy though
I would love to receive a SHORT letter telling me how somebody feels. Long letters can be creepy.
If you really feel that you have a chance, let him know. The usual thing is for a guy to confess but if a girl does it, thats...wow. I wish more girls would be like you. Its all personal gut, if you feel that he would like you or feel the same way, do some investigation ask around. BUt if you already know or just want to tell him, I suggest you do it asap. The more you wait the smaller the chance gets. and the harder it gets.
Good lUck
I'm a girl. :)
But, see, I don't think I'll end up telling him. It was a nice idea, but when it comes down to it, I'm almost positive that he doesn't like me back.
what makes you say that? :(
You can't know for certain until you do it.
yeah, you could give it a shot. you are a girl, at least. it's a lot harder when you're gay and you know the target of your affections isn't :/
>>17
What do you mean, it's harder for guys? I'm a girl, and I've asked guys out and I have been turned down repeatedly (and I've had to turn guys down) and each time it was really painful, on both me and the guy. Let's not generalize here.
>>1
That's not to say that you shouldn't try, you should if that's how you feel! Maybe ask around, or get a friend to find out how he feels indirectly. This has worked for me, a friend blurted out my feelings to the guy I liked, and later he asked me out. I think you'll regret it later if you say nothing. At least if if doesn't work out, you can know for sure that it wasn't because you didn't have the courage to try.
I think what 17 meant is that at least when guys are rejected by girls, there's always a chance she might change her mind in the future. but if the person you like doesn't like your sex, then you're screwed.
not in a good way
You will never know until you ask. Isn't it better for you to ask and know either way and prolonging whatever is coming to you? Imagine if he did say yes and you two would be together this instant! Go and find out now! Good luck!
i say go for it, whay do u have to lose?
I am a guy, and I recieved a handwritten letter from a girl that I would have been to shy to ask myself, it was quite a bit of a coincidence. So even if it dosn't appear like he would, you should just try.