do you have friends that you feel, hates you for some reason? For me the situation, I can compare with something from Densha Otoko. We were nerds and then one of us started to go out with someone.
One time he let me talk to his girl on the phone. We chatted a lot. Who would have known she and I would have a one common hobby? Being a nerd, I've considerable knowledge about said hobby. She loved to talk with me and we did so, on numerous occasions.
Then I heard that my friend was breaking up with her. I didn't contact her awile cause I didn't want my friend to think I was an opportunist. Now, he has a new girlfriend. One time I accidentally bumped into them. Just a quick hello and hardly introduced me to his new girl...
I don't think Densha did that to his friends once he got Hermes (now, wouldn't it be funny if I typed "Herpes"), but is my friend avioding me thinking I am a threat to his new relationship or something?
talk to him about it. maybe you were involved in the breakup and you didn't even know
Some people are really, really petty. One word could destroy a friendship - or something you thought was a friendship. I've experienced it myself.
If he's really a friend, he should get over it. If he isn't, don't bother with this scum anymore.
>>2
we are on apeaking terms right now. I actually talked with him a few days ago on the phone. But it seems now he dosen't dare bring up anything about girls in general. BTW - the first girl has a new BF now. Lots of people say this new BF is a total jerk and a mutual friend told me my friend thinks the guy is a jerk too.
>>3
I don't want to lose my friend. It's just that this unspoken "thing" is driving me crazy. Do I talk to him about it? Or is it going to open up a can of worms?