I'm 22 and look good. Why have I never had a date/girlfriend? (85)

18 Name: Mysteryman : 2006-02-25 04:42 ID:OH9JcS3J

Thanks for some of the advice.

>>14 What you said about the creep radar absolutly makes sense. But it doesn't apply to me. I'm not a walking advertisement for anime. I talk about all sorts of stuff.

>>12 I wish there was a caving society here (I live in the midwest in a major city). What the heck I live in St Louis. I basically already messed up my anonomous status in my first post with the headshot. I just googled caving club and found an explorers club. But judging by the pictures it doesn't look like anyone my age is in it. Or anyone under 50 for that matter. http://www.explorers.org/stl/photo_gallery.php

I am searching avidly for some resemblence of a club with people my age in it I would find interesting. I like tennis. And there isn't a tennis club at my university. If I wanted to create one I would need to wait until summer for the school to approve of it not mentioning how hard it would be to find ppl. Can anyone help me search for a club on the internet that is in the st louis area?

Btw, today at work there was a very hot 24 year old woman that came in and bought speakers from me. We need to go through collecting information for each customer. We ask in this order. Name, Address, City, State, Zip, and email address. We seemed to have an ok vibe going on while I was showing her the speakers . The strange thing is after she gave me her address she gave me her phone number. I can still remember exactly how she said it. "And my phone number is ***". Thing is, being out of it as usual, I didn't act on it other than type it in when she said her phone number. Should I even have acted on it? I can't even remember if she had just regular rings on her hands or a wedding ring.

While I was trying to sell her the speakers I mentioned something about how the cheaper ones might be better if she lived in an apartment. She said she lives in a house. So I'm guessing she is married. But brings me to the question that if she is married why the heck did she voluntarily give me her phone number without me even asking for it? I asked the guys at work and they said they have never had a customer just give them their phone number, since we never ask for it.

She also said that her mom had the bose (one she went with), and that she liked it. She wanted speakers she could blast so she could hear them in the shower. Danget though why do I remember all this? I guess it was because today was rather uneventful other than this.

So i'm left with a predicament. Should I call her back tomorrow at work? I was thinking of calling and making up some stupid bs like we forgot to give her the receipt (even though i gave it to her) and if she comes down we can reprint her one. Please help me out by tomorrow I need some advice. Thanks again everyone for the advice soo far.

By the way, Mardi Gras is in St Louis tomorrow. Today at work this guy I work with who has a girlfriend (they are basicaly married), asked again what I was doing this weekend. I hate when people ask me that because I have absolutly no way of not making myself look like a complete looser. And if asking me that is some code way of inviting me to come along with them how do I respond if I want to? Plus, wouldn't it be weird for me to go alone with them and the ppl they know?

Again, I apologize for the long post, but I had a lot to get off my mind.

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