Incapable of being loved (41)

24 Name: Not A Secret Admirer : 2006-04-17 16:16 ID:Heaven

>>23
These are problems? Heh. If you're actually not interested in a relationship right now, then why do you care if she thinks you're gay? If girls thought you were gay, maybe they'd stop asking you, or maybe not, heh. Either way, if you're not going to be in a relationship you need to start getting used to being self-reliant and self-confident and independent and all that stuff. Part of that includes being able to shrug off other people's opinions of you, good or bad. You shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone, and anyone who gives you a hard time about it isn't worth your time.

Of course, regardless of relationship status, emotional baggage will weigh you down anyway. Even if you never go out with someone again, it's still important to be able to put that stuff behind you. Letting go of that stuff can be difficult and even painful for a while, but letting it weigh you down is also painful and will last you your whole life.

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