>>3 Exactly, it is a woman's part to be hard to get. There is something wrong with a man who wants to play as a woman.

Women do not bother with men who play hard to get. It implies that they are overly full of themselves or they are cold. If you date a girl to make another jealous, she will think you are an ass and you lose. She also won't bother with you because she will think you are already with someone.