I was just using it as an example. I'm actually thrilled that that person hurt me so, because in doing so I figured out the love I wanted was right in front of my face, I just didn't know it. Heartbreaks are part of life. I'm just saying that I think Ulrich has had his heart hurt and it has scorned him. Its hardened him to what we have now. If he would realize this and that love is so scarce he would feel alot better and see that love is visa versa of what he says. Love is the whole and lust and mess like that is the piece.