So, I like a girl, but as luck would have it, she lives over ten hours away. Now, I have had a long distance relationship in the past. Suffice to say it isn't my favorite kind of relationship, but we have so much in common, connect so well, etc. that I really don't think I could find another girl I'd be better off with.

The problem is, I'm not sure if I should tell her I'd like to be her boyfriend now, or just wait until we're closer (which should happen eventually if she doesn't leave the area she's in now). Sometimes I think it's not worth putting eachother though the stress and such of a long-distance relationship, but other times I really want to tell her. I'm sure others here have had this conflict.

So although it's ultimately up to me, what would you do? Tell her now, or wait a year or two until you live a little closer to eachother? I don't think there's too much risk of her finding someone else, though it's still a frightening possibility. As for her moving to the other side of the country or something by the time I get there -- it's just a risk I thought up, she's never mentioned doing it. Still, it's a possibility that would leave me stuck there without her for a few years until I'm out of school.

I do think a long distance relationship would be worth it with her in the long run. Still, what would you do?