>People with your love and doves attitudes are the same people who set themselves up for failure.
Of course. You set yourself up for failure every time you ask a girl "Hey, wanna go grab a cup of coffee with me?" How the hell do you intend to find a relationship if you don't set yourself up for for failure?
>Most women are not stupid.
But in >>14, you yourself said,
>don't be so quick to give up your freedoms for some stupid girl.
Which is it, bitter brother?
You make some good points with respect to self-confidence being important in what women look for in men, but to put it simply, your attitude sucks. If you're gonna approach this whole thing with a bitter attitude, you're going to be alone and unhappy for life, especially if you stir in your sensitivity to rejection. I mean, let's be frank here; are you actually actively seeking a relationship with a woman with the attitude you have? I don't see how you could.