>>22 there seems to be a lot of people on this board that think all women are like the women they have dealt with. Yes, the way you act is important. You should just act like you want to act, and not act differently just to appeal to a girl. What's the point? If she doesn't like the way you act, what does that say about how long a relationship would last? Buying her things isn't important unless she's shallow. And I don't know about you, but I don't like shallow girls.

I get the feeling that a lot of guys here go after girls just because they're pretty and outgoing without getting to know them. Then after she rejects you because you're nothing like her or not her type, you become bitter and decide that all girls are like the girl you tried to get.