I like my best friend (102)

30 Name: ThaRealDensha : 2006-06-08 03:08 ID:inlK9nuE

I was in a situation like this once, but the friendship (Really strong, by the way) had developed before the love interest did. After I was finally set up to ask her out, I had found out she had
gotten' a boyfriend a month before. I knew something bad about the boyfriend that would greatly upset her...and I held it in forever. Then one day, she was upset with her boyfriend...and I told her what I knew. She was really mad and was on the brink of breaking up with him. I asked her out that night...but she had said she could not..she said that maybe if I had asked her out before, she would have said yes. She just could not. My point is, girls become very attached after a month or two, and at that point, I feel one can only let it dissolve. I have a girlfriend now, but not that girl. Why don't you show her that you can be a better boyfriend? Be funny, and witty. Do something cool in front of her. Say something deep, or mix something up in the conversation about how you see life, and maybe mention how you would treat a girl. Make her think about the fact that there may be better guys out there for her. Ganbaruze!
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