You fool.
what if she gets rid of her boyfriend for you, what are the chances she will get rid of you one day for another guy?

anyway. every minute you are with her and her boyfriend is there too, its a signal every minute that you are ok with them being in love with each other. don't go if want her. wait it out.

sorry for being so negative, but I have no hope for you with this girl. however sweet she may be..............................
do what benson did. make her a sweet memory.