Oh my god, get over yourselves.
Just because I am not going to be an enabler for your pining, whining, moping and pussywhippedness...
This man getting a Job and ceasing his hippie ways will benefit him in more ways than one.
I am just offering a different viewpoint. If you just want another lonely virgin saying:
"Oh my god man, I feel you. You should follow your heart and true love will prevail like in the animes. It is soooooo kewl your g/f is Japanese, if you got married you could have a japanese wedding and name your son Gohan and your daughter Kasumi. Ever see densha otoko it could be just like that your story would make a good manga. Did you remember to confess your love to her?"
LAME! Mixed relationships rarely work anyways.
Whatever....