How do I reject my "nice and funny guy but not a potential BF" - status? (59)

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-07-24 09:05 ID:w0a2BdLU

> There is no man that can't get any woman. Any man can get any woman.

That sounds too idealistic. :P
I have the same problem as the OP. There's this girl. We used to hang out in a group of 4 (her, me and two other guys) but it seems that she prefers to stay only friends with us... or maybe she have a preference on one of the other guys.

Anyway, how do I get charisma and self confidence? A lot of people tells me (girls too) that I'm kind, cute and warm-hearted, but it seems that ther's no one who could actually appreciate it.
Despite that I'm already 23, I still can't just walk to a girl and accost her so I stick with online dating sites, but almost every girl disappears after the first meeting or after we swap photos...
Sure I lack self confidence very badly but how should I overcome it? I rarely get compliment from anyone.
At work, my boss constantly pisses me off, she just ridicules my work. After I get home, my father continues it, I always just get disciplined. No wonder my self confidence is torn...
Some people say that you need to impress girls with your creativity. Well I afraid I can't do that. I can't draw, my hands are clumsy. I can't write good stories or poems, I can't compose music, basically the only way to express my creativity is through AMVs or programming. But no girl would be interested when I say : "look I wrote this program", even for AMVs they say "hmm, not bad" and nothing more.
Am I pathetic?

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