I have recently gotten into a very interesting situation that seems like a blessing, but could also be very painful; wanna hear your input...
I dated a girl for 3 1/2 years during high school (we dated from freshman year to about midway through our senior year), and we have known each other since we were both 10-11... she broke up with me to get with another guy about 2 years ago, and then she moved to New Zealand.
Fast forward to 2006: my ex and I are still good friends, albeit long-distance friends now due to her overseas romp. A few months ago, she broke up with her boyfriend, and she is planning to move back to America... and she has been calling me (yes, international calls!), IMing me, emailing, etc. a LOT more often than she usually does, has been flirting with me intensely, speaking nostalgically of our past relationship and how she's still kinda in love with me... you get the picture.
There's a catch though: she's moving back to America, yes, but there's a good chance she'll be going to college on the opposite coast. Now, she'll be in the same city as all my relatives live in, so it'll be feasible to visit her often, but it will still be difficult and expensive.
So I've got a situation: she's on the other side of the country, and it's going to be insanely difficult to do anything about that, but at the same time, this could be the chance to be back together again with my first love... What should I do?
Hi! This is the same guy who posted the Unfaithful thread. The way I see it, is if she's willing to deal with a long distance relationship, and your love is strong enough for it, as well as her's, go all out! It will also be a chance to be creative because of the distance. If you haven't been in a long distance relationship before, you can get a webcam to help see each other a bit more.
i don't know how strong your love is for echother but if its strong enough it will most likely survive any distance.
hmmm... yeah.....
well anyway i assume you dont have the $ to meet up with her alot...
well i guess you could spend some of your vacations or other days off with your reltives, like spending your vacation with your family, a good way to see her.
sorry i don't think my comment was really usefull but im just sharing my own piece of wisdom.
good luck