Friend has trouble meeting women (27)

21 Name: gingersoll : 2006-08-08 08:25 ID:VXFS/SsJ

I usually just some to these forums to laugh and remember what being a geeky kid was like (no internet avalible when I was in highschool...), but I have to butt in and say that in post 19, Secret Admirer, has stated something any young person who feels hopeless about girls (or boys! I've known many women who complained they were to shy/introverted to get close to men) should listen to. It isn't about failing or winning (whatever that is). It is all about trying.
I am getting on in years. But several of my friends from highschool have never had a real serious relationship still. They probably never will. "J" lives alone in a trailer and plays video games all day and downloads fucking loli doujins. "C" makes a lot of money in programming, but he hasn't had a girlfriend since his second year of college (a controlling bitch who cheated and stole from him again and again). Both these guys are smart and not bad looking. Now they are very regretful and lonely individuals. They were always too shy and too protective of themselves to open up and give it a go. It is a sad and depressing thing for both them and me (who has been listening to their sob stories for many years now).
So go out and get embarassed and evetually get lucky and live while you can. Who knows who you'll find. I was also deathly shy as a kid, but even I got lucky and found someone who is honest and caring and not only allows me to indulge in my hobbies, but also enjoys them too.

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