Best Friend (11)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-12 03:40 ID:OgHaocnI

Around April I told my best friend that I liked her. She reacted very surprised and walked off only saying 'Feelings are not returned'. She later apologized and said she could only see me as a friend. I was like 'ok, cool' The follwing days were ok, I was worried she would avoid me or something. Then she stopped talking to me and about two weeks after that she told me she needed some space and that she was gonna stay away from me for a while. She blocked me from everything and deleted all the pics of me in her site. Two months passed. I gave her the space she needed and I said hello every now and then. I haven't talked to her since like April. I never wanted this to happen. School is coming up soon. I don't know if I should try to talk to her, I don't feel the same way anymore. Or just forget about it. I don't know how she feels about not talking to me. I don't know what to do but I don't to lose a friend. Not like this.

By the way, is there a way to delete threads here?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-13 01:23 ID:W/WfcAp7

just forget about it.

3 Name: THE UNDENIABLE U2K : 2006-08-21 18:18 ID:YWTufbg9

move on. sage

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-21 18:41 ID:U1lhrgwe

>Then she stopped talking to me and about two weeks after that she told me she needed some space and that she was gonna stay away from me for a while. She blocked me from everything and deleted all the pics of me in her site.

Is there something here that you're not telling us?

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-23 11:37 ID:EpE7jG88

>>4
ie: link to site pls.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-24 00:45 ID:FdJaK5W0

it's sad... I've been through that.. and yeah.. if she doesn't wanna talk to you anymore just move on.. it should be hard to start with it.. but yeah, get new friends...

that actually happened to me lots of times.. last time she still talked to me after I told her that I liked her...

results: after almost a year, she told me that she liked me back... not at that time, but she learned to... because she wanted to... it's weird, but worked for me...

sorry to tell you that.. but don't force up a conversation if she doesn't want to...

try to say hello... but I think she won't talk to you again cause she thinks it will bring your feelings to the surface again...

resuming it all: move on :/

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-08-24 02:53 ID:+UoeWi0k

just convince her that you realy only want to be a friend

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-01 22:16 ID:Heaven

tell her, you don't like her anymore in that way.

might work..

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 20:36 ID:UyqfSE8n

I started to talk to her casually to her a few days ago, onnline though. She was cool with it and we talked like nothing had ever happened, like two good old friends. I have yet to talk to her, I am sure it'd be alright. I am so fucking happy.

I think she was waiting for me to talk to her.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-15 22:27 ID:bjVMc05X

my best friend confessed to me a few months ago, I told her that it wasnt going to happen, coz we are friends..

luckily, we're still friends, and all is ok :3

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-16 07:00 ID:VmKU0KYI

>>1
"By the way, is there a way to delete threads here?"

Not that I'm aware of.

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