I am a pre-op female to male transgender. I am bi and a seme type of peron, which doesn't work too well in male relation ships, unless I find the ocational guy who doesn't want to admit to himself he's gay (which, obviously, isn't going to work out in the long run).

So how do I get gay guys to get past the "ew vagina" factor and actualy get to know me? Other than not telling them about the vagina till later, I wouldn't do that.