>>5
Don't get too worked up. I also fell in love and lost 12 kg....that's not going to help you or anyone else, so relax
>>8
Mmmmh, it's kinda hard to go casual to a restaurant, that's why cafes are better during the day, and bars during the night.
>>7
It's not that hard, just find a cafe which seems comfortable enough to chill in. I mean no busy ones where there are constantly people rushing and out, like Starbucks or whatever. If you can't find one, just ask your work colleagues really casual, for example "Ah damn, where the hell are there some nice cafes in this town? Yo Steve, can you recommend a nice comfortable one to chill around in?"