I like the word anorgasmic.

Knowing this kind of stuff probably makes me quite the perv, but here are some tips. It would be better if a girl were to answer this though.
-An orgasm is something personal, not shared, so you need to focus a lot on yourself to get one. Basically you need to keep track of the good feeling in your vagina and make it grow. An orgasm is not an explosion of happines, but the climax of stimulation.

-If you are gonna have consensual sex, you'd better wholeheartedly stand behind it. Do you have sex now because you cant save your virginity anyway, because of that crazy bathroom scene? not really a good reason. Do you have sex because your boyfriend wants it? Not really good, but not really bad either. It would be best if you had sex not only because you love each other(s bodies), but also because you want to feel good.

-Remember that Jesus never said anything about virginity at all. The main reasons why christians even bothered about virginity was because 1) they wanted to set themselves apart from the rampantly promiscuous romans. 2) Jewish influences (with their strict laws) 3) The idolisation of the virgin mary.
So if you were planning to be a shining light in a pagan society, you should be a little ashamed, but otherwise nothing bad.

-They say that women who want to get an orgasm are best to practice how to get one on their own by masturbation. This should be done in a relaxed place where you won't be disturbed for at least an hour. Don't fixate yourself on orgasming, that is way too tiring, but do focus on the good feeling, and experiment with how you can make the feeling larger.

Oh yes. You are idiots for having sex without a condom. Seriously.