All three gospel passages say the same thing. Married people should not divorce unless there's a really good reason. I'd like to point out btw that it seems as if only the man can divorce his wife, not the other way round.

Let me next assure you that I am not out here to refute you, or the bible. I search for truth. It may be difficult for me to find truth in the bible because I am not christian though.

These passages are clear about the status of married people. But what about unmarried people? I can read for myself what Paul wrote to the Corinthians, a very promiscuous people btw - requiring a tough words to make christianity work, but there again he mainly talks about marriage. >>1 however is not married. Now I'm not sure, but I don't think the bible really calls sex before marriage inappropriate. Does it? And does it make a difference a couple likely to marry, and a couple not likely to? Wherein lies the holiness of marriage anyway?