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Hi. I recently attended this con, and I had a lot of fun. In this con I met this girl. During the con, we hanged around a bit, and i got to know her a little better. Turns out we shared a lot in common. So, we exchanged contact info and all, and I have chatted with her for a while now..
So, it turns out I have a crush on her. She seems just the right person for me. What should I do?
you should... not waste prescious con time talking to dime a dozen anime bitches. Didnt you have a fucking panel to go to? Didnt you have shit to buy?
Dont waste your time with women until you want a kid. Life is too short to spend months seducing a girl just so you can SHOVE IT IN for 2 minutes.
Well, there's about 140 miles distance. It's not that bad though. Anyways, we both look pretty normal.
oh and I'm like densha. Age = no girlfriend
>140 mile distance
it may not seem bad, but i can get in the way. just talk to her and try to set up a date.
140 mile distance....it can get pretty much in the way, actually, but it can also be a nil factor, so I say just try it and see how it turns out..
Do NOT get a crush now, though. Like her, but do not fall for her just get, first figure things out, then go all out
Don't rush it. Casually ask her out, in a way that makes it seem like its not a date, when it really is. Make it special too. Her reaction and interactions with you will let you know if a relationship with her would work. Don't be clingy and don't rush into things, it'll make you seem desperate and will push her away. Its part of how I keep my gf around, I keep my clingyness and my other desperate tendencies at bay and try to come off as confident, its worked thus far. Good luck
>>8
Your Right about that. If you rush into it, she'll think your an obsessive pervert who wants get in her pants.
Well guys, Im seeing her soon. Thanks for the advice. And I think i need more advice for the "date"
You shouldn't get involved with girls from cons, they are all crazy. What you should do is have as much sex with them as possible during the con. Bonus points if they are underage and are getting picked up by their moms when the con is over.
There's often times where I meet a girl in such places.. but you can't expect much to come from this.
I think for a moment that.. maybe there is a chance.. but then reality snaps in. You don't know where she lives, what she does, and who she hangs around with. Just beacuse you met her at a con doesn't mean you know everything about her.
Maybe, though, if you actually took the time to get to know her at the con, you might be able to get her email.. Who knows?
But this advice may come too late.. maybe you can find her on internet forums?
If she went to Fan Expo, maybe she will decide to pull a Densha Otoko as well? Hahaha..
(^O^)
OP here, I have been chatting with her for a while, so I know a thing or two about her.
>>15
Like what? Don't leave us in the dark here.
hey ask her out, chat with her on a date
>>17
Too soon! Talking is a great way to lead to dating and what not. Since OP here saw her at a Con, that must mean she's into anime or something else! Use that to your advantage man! But don't lie about it.
>>12 Has definitely got a point. (I'd take his advice.)
I don't have experience with those kind of girls, but I would approach such girls with skepticism. They could be crazy, after all.
What's important is you're comfortable with the girl and she is with you. Only time will tell if she's a keeper. Get to know her more man. Too early.
I stick with >>12
Sex first, relationship can come after you're sure she's not into kinky sex. (You never know with anime girls.)
In a more serious note, do try to have sex with her asap. Try to keep it objective man, objective. Don't lose your mind to "crush feelings". It's the easiest way to get a deeper insight on how she is like and what she cares about.
OP Here.
I asked her out.
congrats. details??
Well, she'll be coming over here. I don't know, if I should let her come into my apartment or should we settle for a cafe?
Oh and it'll be next week. (I can't post too much information, since I know she is a /b/tard)
Let her come to the apartment for just a few minutes and then go out to a cafe together. The main benefit of doing this is that she came to your house and witnessed that you didn't make a move on your own turf, which will make her trust you more.
What if we skip the cafe part, and just hang around at my place for a while?
>>28 No way! That's just too fast to make a move!
>>27 Is right on the money! Stop by your place first like you forgot your wallet or something so she can get a quick glimpse of where you live! Then go to a cafe! And afterwards, maybe you guys could go to a comicbook store that's big! Really big! Not those small ones.
a /b/tard? uh oh, you're in deep shit.
Yeah, letting her stay at your place immediately is a bad idea. Ask her to the cafe, let her see your place, then go out to the cafe. If things are going well at that point, then you invite her to your place.
What's wrong with a /b/tard?
>a /b/tard? uh oh, you're in deep shit.
Beats me what's wrong with a /b/tard. Seems to me like it would make her more likely to be horny/kinky, and that is WIN. Also, /b/ tard type girls are less likely to be exactly like every other mainstream girl out there, and therefore much less boring.
What IS a /b/tard?
OP Here
Well.. Everything went well so far
is that you cracky-chan?