Ever since I dumped my horrific ex-boyfriend, I've been eyeing a guy at work. He's very nice, polite, patient and an overall sweetheart. I've never seen him lose his temper, and even his Myspace is clean of any sort of oddness (I know, "lol myspaces"). Anyway, I wanted to know if I should try and ask him out. So far, we've just been casually friendly with one another. We don't hang out or see each other outside of work. I've heard from a few guys that if they saw a girl try and hit on them, they'd think she was desperate and creepy. But I absolutely hate sitting around and waiting when it's obvious no one will ever talk to me. I'm not desperate, just impatient.
To the males of the forum: would you like a girl to talk to you? Has it happened to you?
To the females: Have you done it before? How did it turn out?
Thanks in advance. :)