I´m not able to ask her for a date. I don´t have much to offer her. (15)

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-04 04:38 ID:5YfnOTk3

Women are meant to be conquered

They already know this and you still have yet to learn.

They won't say it, they may even deny it, but women are like philly mustangs in the wild.

They have to be tamed and dominated.

That doesn't mean call her bitch. That doesn't mean hit her. It doesn't mean insult her or take advantage of her.

It means she wants a man to come along, take her, and choose her.

There are no princesses. There are no queens. When you act like women are better than you, then you will find yourself very unsuccessful. If you put her on a pedestal you will undermine yourself every time.

You are basing your expectations on what TV and Movies think love is. That's a false exaggeration of reality. Here is how it happens. You see something you like, you go talk to her, if you still remain interested after actually talking to her, continue. Don't be needy, don't be possessive. You like what you see. You are doing your job. Her job was to be attractive.

You are the bee, she is the flower. It is up to you to fly over and pollinate.

It doesn't get that much simpler than that. If you want to give up, fine.

I've done both. I've had relationships with women. All of them I liked, none of them I "loved" i.e. wanted to base my whole life around. I've also withdrawn from society and bought an almost 8 grand Hotaru Real Doll. It was fun for a while. Iraq really did mess me up more than I thought and I really didn't think that it did. It wasn't so much "the field" or anything. I think I did it to compensate for something else in life. I went over pissed, came back pissed. Had the money for something real(i.e. an awesome Barrett) sulked and bought a doll that take s up space. Accepted Jesus. No use for it. It's a neat little thing I guess, and I Love Hotaru. But for like, 30 dollars I could have just gotten a little Model Kit and put on my desk or something.

I digress. You have to really have confidence in yourself. If not yourself, then your abilities. It's a constant battle.

Whether you get the girl or not. Whether you end up liking her or not. It's important to do this for at least yourself.

As long as you are above ground, alive, and thinking. You still have time. With time, comes everything.

Remember that.

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