Singles Rant Thread 2 (1000)

195 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-11 02:05 ID:/jeq0JPp

I understand exactly what most of the people in this thread are going through. I thought I would never have a girlfriend and die cold and alone. But somehow when I turned 20 my love life blossomed, though it was painful. First girl I ever dated was a high school girl who didn't want to commit (I'm in college), that ended quick. Second was a college chick whom I met at a Dance Dance Revolution club on campus, she's psycho and dumped me 2 months later. My third (and thankfully final) relationship happened a few months ago, she and I are unofficialy engaged and are set to get married after college. Its not everyday a girl tells you "I want to have your baby", I can tell you its a special feeling that I believe each and every one of you will feel if you try harder.

I'm not bragging, I'm just proving a point that I've been there, done that, and lived on, and so can you. My advice: be more social. Its how you meet people. If a girl shows some interest, be confident and kinda halfway show interest in her, make fun of her, tease her, yet be nice and complimentary when it counts. It will come naturally, I found that out the hard way.

And above all, the worst mistake you guys can make : letting your depression rule your life. If you dont' improve your attitudes (this is a general rule, I'm not pointing fingers), you'll come off as whiney and undsesirable. For the men, women crave confidence more than anything, if you're complaining all the time or appologizing all the time like I used to, you wont' come off as such and most women will reject you. For the women, guys like attention more than anything else too. If you have any interest in a guy, ask him out instead, turn the tables on him, I seriously doubt he'll say no. And to both groups: If you can't love yourself, you can't love anybody. Keep that in mind. Don't focus on the negative so much. Focus on self improvement and being confident in what you do, you'll catch the eye of your special some one someday. I always believed that would happen and it ended up happening to me, theres absolutely no reason why it shouldn't happen to you.

Flame me if you wish, but thats what I have to say about things. Good luck everyone! Keep trying!

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