>>615
don't rely on an anime club to gain a social life - surrounding yourself by people with no social skills (this applies to 90% members of most anime clubs anywhere) is not a good way to meet interesting people.

that said, i'm sure it can be hard to make friends or meet women when you join a university in the third year - i'm quite a shy person myself, but i've been at the same university for two and a half years, so i still have the friends i made in the first few weeks of the first year when everyone was actually open to meeting new people.