first of all - too much thinking guys (gals possibly?)... if you want to find someone, it's just about trying and not giving up... just like Otakun said - get out and search... what I'm recently finding out is that too much thinking about these love matters will just fuck you up but when you just try, it's worth it and it gets you somewhere...

also... let's say that 1 of 300 girls is the one... considering size of earth, the chances of meeting that girl sure are very low because she could also be from other state... other side of planet probably? but still, if you look around, how many happy couples can you see? couples that are together for the length of their lives (ask them if they were together from the beginning or if they needed to go through 300 other people and you'll hear myriads of different answers)...

skipping to my theory - I don't believe that there is something like ,,true love" (or the ,,one")... you just fit with the girl in a romantic way more or less... sometimes you find out after long time that you fit less or sometimes after that long time you find your friend suddenly attractive... and there's plenty of girls with plenty of possibilities also affected with plenty of things because people can change, can suddenly open their eyes, can get run over by train, can get molested by drunk man in a train and be saved by you etc. etc. ... but outcome in a form of relationship is the same, either it's happy or not - in that case you can collect experience, memories and just move on to next person... or you can just die as a lone coward