Need help with conversation! (99)

60 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-30 07:11 ID:ATexUHO+

Man you gotta calm down. You messed up big time. You need to learn to think on your feet. Mireille guy said you need to practice. What you need to do is go out and just get real world experience. Just go out talk to people and learn what to do in social situations. Build a mental library on what to do in those situations. And if you encounter a situation you don't know how to handle; improvise. Learn to think on your feet. You really dont have time to "Think first, creatively (Wash). Practice your thoughts (Rinse). Then do (Repeat)." Remember you have a few seconds to think. If you try to think of something creative, unless you have a extremely intelligent, you will either say something really stupid and be left in limbo or you will take too long and she will leave. Hey, if a girl smiles at you. Start to walk over to her before you realize you started to move. Once you realize you have committed to the situation then think about your next move. YOu have to learn to spit out information on the spot. Instinct is very useful. The problem of using a plan is that is bound to fail. And it will take to too long to make a new one. Just go with the flow. You make a mistake, you can't go back to fix it. So you pick up the ball again and keep going. The only way you can learn that is again but going out and experiencing it. You will make mistakes at first but will learn from them and make fewer and fewer. Be like Bruce Lee, fluid like water. Calm and cool. If you panic you will fail.

And Mireille guy, I respect you for trying to help, but don't act like the only guy here who has experience with girls. Though you offer good advice, you also offer some bad ones too.

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