Well, that's cool advice. But were now just friends and I'm ok with that. Maybe the advice you give me now will help me through another love crisis. Oh I also need help with another problem. What should do with my first/ex-girlfriend? She seems to always play around with me along with her friends on the phone and she's always in an on and off type relationship with this one guy. Now like JE we live far apart. Is there something I should do with this problem or just let her keep playing around with me and help her with her relationship?