Okay. This thread has gone one for waaay too long already. How the hell do you get by one month and 90 posts without solving the problem??? I like asian nerdy guys but the turnoff about them is that they will take an eternity to make a confession. And by then it will be either:

1. Too late, friend zoned to oblivion.
2. Confesses in such a way so that the girl is still unsure as to whether he likes her or not.

A few of my friends are like that, and let me tell you that it hasn't helped them one bit.
Ps. I hope you threw that whole stalker bit in your message as a joke -_-.