What a problem (23)

5 Name: 電気男 : 2006-09-24 20:08 ID:3+qijVLG

>>1
You are experiencing the many layers of relationships. For this guy you slept with in the first week, you are past the infatuation stage and have migrated into the reality stage where you truly see what your partner is made of. Without proper communication or effort, most couples stop here and end up breaking up. You however are trying the infatuation part with this other guy, but even though you say you're not a bad person, I think you're being a bit shallow. I can imagine a scenario in which you dump the guy you're with right now, hook up with this other guy, it goes badly, and you're once again cold and alone, having broken the hearts of two men.

What you decide to do is completely up to you, but if you really want to try dating other people then do it, but for the sake of you and you're partner's happpiness, you should try to break up in a friendly way. Stringing him along while cheating on him is the most hurtful thing you can do and its not fair to him since its obvious he likes you more than you like him. Just keep in mind that what you do in this situation has the potential to hurt both of them in a bad way. If you're such a good person, choose this path carefully.

(sorry if I come off as preachy, but the way you're acting sounds a lot like my ex-gf who broke my heart not too long ago, and I know how much it hurts and would hate for any other guy to feel the same amount of pain)

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