Mireille guy keeps attacking guys' masculinity if they're actually respectful of other people. This is the third post I've seen in recent days of him doing that. Frankly, it's getting old. Is it so strange to imagine, a world where people actually have some respect for each other? Where people set aside their cocks and egos in the name of friendship?

You're her friend. You wish you could be more, but she's involved in a relationship already. Friends don't try to break up friends' relationships, whether they're guy friends or girl friends. Friends are friends.

My advice is to just continue being her friend. I know it'll be hard because of the additional feelings you have, but there are ways to get around that (see later). But if those feelings really persist (and it's garbage to say that you don't know what love is - there are many kinds of love and only you know what you really feel), and it gets too hard, then chat with her less, see her less, etc. If you really have to, tell her the truth - it's too difficult to continue the friendship because you have romantic feelings toward her, and she's already involved.

Maybe one day, they'll break up. Then, if you still have feelings, court her. Tell her how you feel, etc. By then, she'll know what a wonderful guy you are. But be warned - if they doesn't feel the same, this may be the most difficult kind of rejection to take, because people tend to invest a lot of 'emotional capital' over time doing this.

But honestly, the best way to 'forget' her, is to go out and meet more people. More girls. And find another one that you like, who is hopefully single. You've already got the meeting new girls down - just keep at it! There's lot of girls out there, single ones too. That's my advice. And if you don't meet anyone new for a while, you can always try biding your time with this one.

Good luck!