what does it mean when a guy says .... (21)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 11:29 ID:JBe1q6oL

I love you but its not the right time in my life for a realtionship?

So fucken confusing! Everything is perfect and then bam!!

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 12:20 ID:MS5kUC9F

his not a faggot

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 12:22 ID:4qO/FyET

Hard to say. One is clear for sure, he doesn't love you.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 12:43 ID:Heaven

pretty sure it means he's not ready for a relationship right now

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 13:44 ID:MBlSwZgc

I think it means "I don't love you right, but it's time or a relationship in my life."

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 16:16 ID:hVuqKCOP

It means that if he did hook up with you, he'd probably end up breaking your heart in the end since he's not ready. If you do want to have a relationship with him, and want it to last, you'd have to wait until he's ready.

I think it's a fair request. Sometimes we're a little too immature for something committed, and he's probably just being honest with you.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 17:04 ID:bAFOLMkw

i second >>6's statement. Though I can't understand why >>1 didn't get it.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 22:24 ID:Heaven

I agree with >>6's statement as well... if the guy was being truthful.

Some guys might just say the same thing as an excuse to break up without trying to hurt your feelings.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 23:39 ID:mF6cvINH

The disconnect between guys and girls is something like this:

guys are straightforward - they will tell you what they want or don't want

girls are not straightforward - they want something, expect it, but will not tell you and when they don't get it will get angry at you and not tell you why they are angry because they expect you to know

So for >>1, there are only two possibilities, as >>8 pointed out. Truth is >>6 and lie is an excuse to break up.

The only way you'll find out is to wait.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-28 22:54 ID:TyKMWGHy

My idea? from someone that knows nothing about the situation I'd say the relationship was never perfect. If he thought it was perfect he'd still be with you.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-02 12:21 ID:pmsxyOVC

I'd say move on. Who knows how long you're gonna have to wait.
If he ever does come back to you in the future, whereupon you've happily hooked up with someone else, I'd say "Aren't you a little too late?" lol >.<

12 Name: RinJan : 2006-10-07 02:05 ID:sJCYq1Bk

A. You have been rejected.... sorry
B. He wants to know you better give it some time

13 Name: secret admirer : 2008-02-27 23:23 ID:ZlTBI6fT

Guys find someone else to breakup with you so they dont have to see you cry

14 Name: da PG king : 2008-02-27 23:38 ID:ELsHq2TH

>>1

it means your ugly/fat or hes gay

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-28 03:11 ID:1blasuk5

>>11 is a douchebag.

>>13 is wrong

>>14 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMqR8-rn_yQ&watch_response

>>1, >>6 makes the most sense.

If he said "I love you" in the relationship-sense, this is by far the most likely option.

Alternately, he may have feelings for you, be unsure of what/how strong they are, and wants time to figure it out.

Either way, he's being very mature, and you should respect that.

If he said "I love you" in a friend kind of way, then he's really uncertain about the whole idea period.

Or he's lying.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-28 16:51 ID:PNmHG/BY

it means he just isnt interested in you anymore and its time to move on

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-28 20:07 ID:0jh3jPz5

It means be my friend but blow me from time to time

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-28 22:38 ID:Heaven

It means this happened a year and a half ago and bumping this thread is pointless.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-01 12:00 ID:Heaven

Oh well, it's already bumped now, so let's have an update to feed our drama addicts.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-01 19:15 ID:5xW7Tn96

Actually it means he's probably too busy in life to deal the drama of a relationship, he straight up just doesn't have the time at the moment, you nor any of us know what goes on in his life but if could be any number of fucked up shit, like close friends or family members suddenly dying.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-03-01 21:50 ID:p6HPFqTQ

holy shit! a thread almost 2 years old!

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