I met this girl at work and she invited me up to london during college break. She really seems to like me (i havnt had much experiance with girls so i donno if shes just being nice). I really like her and would love to be more than friends but there are two problems : She has a boyfriend (who we've talked about many times, shes told me shes only still with him because hes her first and stuff) and shes in London. Im going to see her for a week soon on 27th october, so basicly - What do i do? I dont want to lose our friendship if i say anything rational.

we both got alittle drunk and ended up falling asleep holding hands. Is that normal drunk people behavior?

Aswell, this isnt the kind of "i like this girl i want to fuck her" thing, i actually respect her as a person. I cant even think of her in a sexual way because i dont want to see her in a degrading position.