Ok, so I'm a college student, and I've been dating someone for quite a while now. Our relationship has been wonderful, and we're both very happy with each other.

Now, sometimes when we're alone together, our kissing and hugging goes a little farther, and we move to things like some playful touching and things like that. No undressing really, we aren't having sex (we're both still virgins). But sometimes it seems like we get caught up in the moment a lot, and maybe push the boundaries a little bit. It doesn't hurt our relationship really, but we talk afterwards about how "That might have been a bit much." or things like that.

Well, the truth is, though I agree that SOMETIMES it goes a bit too far, I actually rather enjoy when it doesn't. I enjoy the playful touching. I enjoy other things besides just hugging and kissing. But I don't know how to tell her that I think that those things are ok, and that I might actually WANT those things... Any suggestions on how I should approach this? I'm not looking to have sex with her, just... be a little more playful.