Admitting that it's not a "bad thing" (10)

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-02-01 07:30 ID:DJaCW4e5

Wow the advice in here sucks.

You need to set the boundaries in your relationship. Getting caught up in the feelings of arousal WILL take your further than you want to go. Dont get caught in that trap. Keep your virginity and give it to someone who will respect you in the morning, who loves you for who you are and promises to be with you for the rest of your life.

If you have a good relationship then you should have OPEN, WIDE OPEN communication. If you can be physical with a person you can be a blunt and truthful in your conversation. You need to do this now before one day you two just go for it and your relationship falls to pieces because neither of you really wanted to go that far but your bodies were screaming for sex (because you were doing the things that build that tension and to the acts of sex).

So, tell her you need to talk. Tell her you are going to be honest with how you feel about all this and tell her too that she can be very open and honest with you about the situation. She might be going along with the touching and kissing because she thinks it is what you want. Or even vice versa. Women tend to give in the sex area because they want that closeness and yes that they that orgasm but all in all they want to be with a man who takes care of that innate need of importance, security and being loved. Anyway, TALK TO HER. Set the boundaries and talk.

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