I am a shy, quiet type of girl...not awkward or ugly, but a bit meek. My friend is loud and almost obnoxious and gets all of the attention. Men flock to her, and she is not even that pretty! Do men really prefer that type of girl? Must I quit being feminine and start acting like "one of the guys" to find a man?

So, which do you prefer? A demure girl or a tomboyish girl?