That is reality for you and all of us who aren't good looking. The majority of girls/women go for people who looks decent to them. It doesn't matter how good you are or your heart is pure gold, what really matters is your appearance.
I have so much experience with this that girls and women look for appearance, then if it looks decent to them, then they'll decide whether to give you a chance and want to know you more, otherwise if you don't decent to them, they don't care, they'll just brush you off.
Same can said for guys, but generally guys got it bad than girls. Girls/women can get men easier nowaways, any women can get men, but not so for men though, it just works better for women. Even not looking women can get men, not so easy the other way around, the reason is that guys need to look at least decent, reliable, confidence, got some money, reputation, social wellbeing, good health, etc. Women, even if they are whore, low beings with no self-esteem can get men to fall for them, but not men with those qualities.
the bottom line is women wins the relationship department, they get the advantage.