How do you break away from someone you know that's bad for you? (14)

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-09 17:26 ID:F1COanAY

To put it in short, he basically used her for when he wanted some action. Nothing more. She wanted more, but he blocked her calls, avoided her, etc. She was really hurt by it and it affected her greatly because it was her first real relationship. I was there for her as a friend, I don't and never will expect anything for it. I would have done the same for any of my other friends.

I am actually less bitter now. If being with him makes her happy, then that's cool, but don't expect me to be there again when it all falls down. And I know it will, because I know how this guy is. We were hitting it off really good but when he got in the picture it almost all fell apart, maybe what we had wasn't as strong as I thought it was.

I am not much for begging. No one has to beg to me and I won't beg to them. If she ever wanted to give it another go for me and her, I would strongly consider it, but in the end I would force myself to say no. I know I would get hurt again. If she so easily changes her feelings, who's to say it won't happen again? I am a nice guy, but I don't let people take advantage of that. You can't play with my emotions and expect me to be cool with it.

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