situation.. (10)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-07 23:09 ID:dK4m9ayE

Hi all!

I'm having a problem atm with this girl..

I'm in love with her but.. I found out she likes another guy.
I also found out.. he isn't in love with her.

Still.. I don't think she will give up.. I'm not meeting her in any classes. But I do have some people giving me intel.
She is sitting next to him every lesson she can.

how to convince her, this will never work out with this girl?
or what should I do?
I really don't know..

I'm really thankfull for any replies.


Secret Admirer

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 01:04 ID:F8XyFijR

You really don't have to do anything, just be there for her. Once he breaks her heart, she'll be all yours.

3 Name: TokyoJapan22 : 2006-10-08 02:39 ID:fAN3UYxn

Wrong! Never start a relationship after a break up! She'll need someone to heal her wounds, be that someone! But don't act like you want to be together. Act serious, act as her friend!

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 03:31 ID:swWjp53i

Because boyfriends aren't serious hur durr.

Be there for her, but give her some time before you hit on her.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 03:41 ID:Heaven

Yes act as a friend and you will be the friend.

My advice is to forgot her for the moment. Keep her in your phone book but don't put her on speed dial, you know what I mean? Talk to other girls test the waters for the bit like a month or so. And in that time you don't find anything then go for her and by then she will be over him.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 05:28 ID:swWjp53i

Moar like be supportive of her just not obssessively.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 05:55 ID:YUiOifa4

get over it! If it'll become something some day, this fact won't bother you again after the guy dumps her. Find another girls to have fun instead.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 19:33 ID:+JqQl2Q9

really thank you all ^^

corrected 1 nice..

was thinking bout this already..


could give it a shit :D
duhhh :)
never show a girl you are obsessed.. If she were to investigate my computer... I... XDDD (I'm not stalking her ^^)

hmm.. in a conversation with her ATM..

telling me.. this guy (she doesn;t know I know about him..) is really strange-acting..
he was really nice in the start
and suddenly he was acting really irritated against her.
now.. he explains later, he wanted to test if she could handle it..
(because she's in love) but she went telling me this. "this person... is behaving real..."

soooOOO.. I told her his name..

stupid? she;s suffering panic attacks atm -_-;
I ensured her nobody would know after me..

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 20:30 ID:dK4m9ayE


was my post from different IP ^__^
so it's not a fucker fucking it up.. -_-;

10 Name: Not A Secret Admirer : 2006-10-10 21:24 ID:Heaven

More like, once he breaks her heart, she'll be talking to you constantly about how horrible he is for treating her this way, even though she still cares for him so... you understand, right? Since you're such a GOOD FRIEND and all...

Though from the sounds of the most recent conversation... well, I can't quite figure out what you completely mean from it, actually. Sometimes, with women, it's best to just smile and nod, because anything you say can and WILL be used against you... then again, anything you don't say can and will be used against you too... eh. Maybe you're better off just being a good friend...

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