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ok, 14 hours by plane is getting ridiculous, lol. imo, if it's too far to travel for a weekend every month, it's too far; and a 14 hour flight each way is like your whole weekend gone already just travelling and recovering...
70 mins on a train, though, is totally doable. hell, you could split a weekend with one day at hers, one day at yours, and a shared train journey in the middle, and still have plenty of the weekend left for spending time together. every week.