long distant relationship (35)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-28 01:55 ID:u6UKwICX

It mainly depends on how much you trust your girlfriend. There was another thread similar to this where the girl did get another boyfriend but somehow they worked things out and haven't been happier.
I am currently in a situation similar to yours and I am one of those people who thinks that someone is around the other corner going to stab me (well something to that extent but you get the picture) there will always be that little voice that says "she needs to be held at some point and you cant do that" but you just have to find some way to make it so that you can meet with her at some point, give her something to look forward to. If she does get another boyfriend then don’t get mad at her for getting another boyfriend, get mad at her if she doesn't tell you that she has one. There are certain needs that need to be filled (not necessarily sexual needs).
Keep an open mind, who knows, in a few months if you are still together then you may meet some girl who is very similar to her that you fall in "love" with, even though it wont actually be love, it will be just the need to manifest a physical relationship with your girlfriend.
It mainly depends on how much you trust her. If you trust her enough to not have another boyfriend then you have a fairly solid foundation to a long distance relationship, if you both truly love each other. But, if you cant trust her to not get another boyfriend while still going out with you then there may be problems in your relationship that need to be worked out, and it may be that you have a fear of rejection, extreme jealousy, etc., etc.
How far away from you does she live, how many miles and how long would it take you to get there.

PS: worst case scenario this will happen, go to all threads and ctrl+f unfaithful the thread is called “Unfaithful, and begging for input” that may give you some insight on a wise course of action

>>3 that is not entirely true. I'm sure a long distance relationship between teens is okay, if at least one of them has rich parents who can send him anywhere in the world

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